Boyfriend Really Enjoys Anal Play, Advice? ( Renamed Thread)

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 6 months now. Besides the occasional fight here and there, my boyfriend and I are practically perfect for eachother in every way.

We are VERY close and a lot alike. Especially in our sex life. I have NEVER clicked with someone sexually or even spiritually like i have with him. We match perfectly.

Recently I decided to introduce anal play to my boyfriend. (me performing on him) And He ended up really, really enjoying it. And trust me, I REALLY enjoy doing it to him. It turns me on like nothing else to please the person I love most in this world. I've always been a pleaser. And i Dont know why, but pleasuring him anally has turned out to be a BIG turn on to me.

So moving on, A couple days after that, I went onto his phone to check something online using his internet. When I opened it up, I saw porn sites opened up and they were Gay porn sites.

To be specific and clear, he was NOT watching 2 men have sexual intercorse. He was Actually watching Transvestites penetrating thierselves with Sex toys. To be honest, seeing the transvestite porn on his phone freaked me out just a little bit, the thing that concerns me the most is that he is seeking a fantasy i cant fufil. (Wanting to be with a transvestite, or being more turned on by tranvestite porn than me. I dont know, i feel so confused and maybe im just being unreasonable and close minded, because that probably isn't even why he was watching it)

I mean everyone has thier kinks right? And him watching that specific type of porn could mean something else right? Maybe its the thought of being penetrated? But what i dont understand is the transvestite part.

Anyways, I never brought it up to him. I Dont know if I even should. The other thing I need advice on, is when I was playing a game on my mans computer the other i saw that he was asking a question on a blog site asking... "I want my girlfriend to perform Anal sex on me. How can i tell her?" ....

Now just so you know, this isnt something im against. I actually think I would enjoy it alot. But I dont think hes going to be able to actually ask me.

Id like to think he can be open with me and be able to just talk to me about it, but im not sure that it will happen. (He tends to become shy when I try to talk to him about anal play)

What should I do? Do I try to bring it up, or let him do it on his own on his own time frame? Is there any way to assure my man that I love him very much and will never judge him for his needs and will very much like to oblige, without leading on that i secretly know what hes really yearning for?

Please do not judge me nor my incredible boyfriend. Let me be clear, I DO NOT think my boyfriend is gay. In fact I'm sure of it, So please don't be rude, I am simply asking for advice from open minded people, because I have never been in this kind of situation and I don't know what else to do and I don't have anyone to talk to about this.

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After you showed him how nice anal can be, he may be wondering what a real dick feels like. Got a close friend that will show him? I bet you'd like to see it happen.

 

It might be he is just curious. Talk to him. Tell him what you found. You might be thinking that hasn't crossed his mind. Communication, the sxiest toy in the bedroom!

 

I have a website for that!!! Message me if your interested because I don't want to get in trouble.

 

I am not a man, but I love a man that likes to read about anal sex all of the time, but doesn't share any of this 'fantasy'?
I get to feeling jealous, and there are a couple of his friends that I het a feeling about....
I don't k b ow what to do because I would do anything he may want but I'm afraid he wants it from anyone other then me.
We have been together for almost four yrs now, and I want to believe we still have this communicating healthy relationship, but this is all causing me to feel so distant from him

 

Anonymousgirl098

 

I can relate to your boyfriend. I am not gay but I love beautiful women with a beautiful body. Many of the transvestite videos probably protrade transvestites that when dressed looked like beautiful women. It's just fantasizing about getting penetrated by a hot looking person. I'm in my 40's and it has taken me years to adjust and I'm still confused at times but I only love my wife and we are honest about our thoughts. I still fear being judged but I take that risk to be free. That freedom is what takes that love to the height that allows total bliss.

 

Take his butt with a strap on.

 

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Buy a strap on & surprise him with it one night. If his cock gets raging hard (and it will) your golden!! They sell some with vibrators in them for the woman. WIN WIN!!!

 

I agree with sandybrooke! As a guy I can tell you he will love it. I wish my girlfriend would surprise me with a strap on but I think she is a bit freaked out by it. But she does use her dildo on me and I love it! In no way would I ever think about the real thing with another man but I do love it when she plays with my ass. It really is amazing! Just do it!