It is the first time i join a forum like this, anyway my boyfriend seems to be very attracted to me and I can tell he desires me BUT when we are having sex or playing he does not touch much my boobs and I love to get my boobs massaged touched sucked kissed licked specially my nipples many times I kind like try to give him some hints i get totally naked in front of him and approach to him kind like making sure his face is near to my chest and he just give them one kiss not even to the nipple also I notice he loves to grab my legs and butt he said that my ass is the best ass he ever had (The shape) and also he always compliment my body specially my legs and butt he claims that i am one the hottest girls he ever date. also he loves to take me from behind (doggy style) I can tell he always get his orgasm when he is with me (not just doggy style), but it is just kind strange for me that he doesn't give almost any attention to my boobs and I am a 34C (mine are not small) just don't get it. any opinions?
you mentioned you will stand with your bare breasts in front of him....try taking it a step further, sitting on his lap, or leaning over him...kiss him long, and slowly take his hands in yours, and bring them to your breasts. Dont just bring them there and let go of his hands...guide him, show his hands what you want. massage yourself with his hands in yours. Maybe worth a try?
Tell him if he's not interested in touching & stimulating your breasts for a certain amount of time before sex, he's banned from your body till he takes your hint.
Strange. Either he is not as naturally attracted to breasts as many men, or he... maybe he does just need some encouraging! Perhaps try encouraging it more, and mentioning it is probably a good idea too! But of course not everybody is attracted to the same parts of the body.
Maybe keep she should keep her underwear on until he's played with her breast before anything occurs ? No titty play, no pussy today !
You probably need to be more obvious about it. Like what someone else said, guide him there. Let him know you enjoy it. Tell him you enjoy it. Great sex is all about communication. Believe me, if you can get him to play with your boobs and your body starts to respond to it he will know you like it. Just don't be shy. Or you can take the approach I would take. Grab his hands, put them on your boobs and say "I love it when you play with my boobs". Most guys aren't good with subtle hints. You have to spell it out for them. No offense guys, but its true. Unless you tell him, he won't know. Sometimes when my husband will do something different and I go CRAZY he'll still say "Did you like that?" like he's not sure. haha. boys are dumb hahaha
lol, I am constantly trying to explain to my ex/gf and most girls really that guys suck at picking up hints! we just do... I like things to be direct! I really don't want to be deciphering anything, or playing any games (some girls - not all - like to do this!). It needs to be to the point!
I've been around long enough to just say what I want. It's much easier that way. I have been known to, on more than one occasion, to walk into the bedroom, look at my husband and say "Wanna fuck?" I do it more because it makes him laugh but guess what...it works and its a hell of a lot easier than trying to be sexy and initiate anything. Just get down to it.
He's a butt guy. It's what arouses him. That's fine and good, but you need to speak up and say that nipple stimulation matters to you.
I want to be the first idiot to say it this time - Why dont you just talk to him? Alternatively, maybe he is really into your boobs, just likes the way they jiggle when you are both doing it doggy the best
thank you guys for your opinion I guess I am gonna start by being subtle like rubyshoho6 advice if it doesn't work I will just go ahead and tell him anyway it's not like a chore for him to do :/
Have you tried sucking and licking his nipples? Then you say, "Oh, you like that don't you. I know that it makes me hot, I'm glad you like it too."
Strange, you and my wife are complete opposites and it kind of bugs me a bit. I'd massage and suck on her boobs all day long but she gets nothing out of it. Massaging she doesn't mind but it does nothing for her. If I kiss or suck her nipples it starts to bug her after a few seconds. I guess after having kids she just thinks of them as baby bottles now. To bad your BF doesn't appear to be a boob man sadly for you. Look at the bright side, you'll probably enjoy breast feeding when you have kids