Yes, that charm and forthrightness thing. Before I married at 39, quite a few ladies experienced that 'charm'. (blush)
Now just imagine it purring and talking to you just behind your left ear........ while there's a hand on each hip.......
Professional flirting is a carefully crafted art. Ok, now we've wandered far afield from the thread's topic, probably should stop the silliness, ......but it sure was fun.