Bottoming out

I've searched and couldn't find anything on the matter, so I thought I'd start a new thread on the matter

What's your opinion when you (male and female perspective welcome) reach that point when you can't stretch the vagina any deeper/can't fit any more penis inside?

My wife and I love grinding it deep, it gives her the most mindblowing orgasms when she reaches that pleasure/pain tolerance limit. The hard pounding she's 50/50 about. Sometimes it hurts too bad when I reach in too deep, sometimes if the angle's just right, Nirvana.

 

This is where all the guys with an average sized penis can have a party,,, woohooo!

 

Try different positions.. some like doggie, can allow for deeper thrusting.

 

Always bottom out - 7.2 Inches

 

My vjj tends to bottom out at 5 inches and it hurts. I dumped my boyfriend because his dick was too long and skinny. I've found my gf and dildo work better. I just lied to him and I know it hurt him a lot.

 

I had to angle my hips a certain way to keep from going in all the way with the ex. If I went really slow she loved getting it all but any speed to it and it would hurt her. I 've had her off work for a few days and off limits for a week a few times.

Now if we change the position and warm her up she could take some full slamming but some ways we had to be careful.

I'd rather have more and need to watch out then have less and her want more.

We had both gained 20-30lbs each and at that time we could pound all night but when we both lost weight it make things a lot better.

 

This issue has spoiled a few relationships for me. My endowment is on the long side and quite thick and it just has not worked out for some ladies. Any guy with average endowment that thinks it would be great to be "big", well, not always so great. Conversely when a partner has enjoyed it, especially if the lady has only experienced average size, then it has been a lot of fun.

 

You can't stretch the depth of a vagina. Width, yes. Depth, no. The cervix only allows a guy to thrust so deep, and having your cervix pounded upon isn't much fun. Yes, doggy helps, but do you know what really helps? A considerate guy with half a brain who has all that figured out.

 

I like feeling really full...doesn't have to be a lot of thrusting when filled right up...just keep sort of pulsing in me like that as opposed to thrusting and I love it when the mood is right.

 

with anal if you twist a little and squat with a long guy, you can get past the curve and then there's no bottoming out

 

This is how we do it as well. I don't like jackhammering when we're doing it in missionary because I end up going to deep. I love the thrust and hold, sometimes thrust hold and grind. Our favorite is a scissoring, side saddle, woman on top position. Deep, deep, deep, almost painfully so, and slow. We both end up blissfully grinding away

 

My wife is 5 foot 2 inches so my 6 inches just touches her cervix when I bottom out, which triggers her orgasm.

 

Try different positions.. some like doggie, can allow for deeper thrusting.

 

Perhaps doggie with her legs together?

 

Thanks for all the fascinating replies, and my apologies for not checking in sooner.

As a follow up question, do you find your orgasms are more fulfilling when he bottoms out, or is it pretty much the same?

 

Bottoming out is a common thing for me...pheh.
I have found though that if the woman is really turned on...soaking wet...really fired up and literally asking for it harder...harder...I don't bottom out with her.
Never bothered to look it up, but there must be some secondary thing in there that opens up more...or something.

 

It's called the posterior fornix. Initially, if you gently slide in as far as you can and hold, pressing firmly against her back wall, you'll feel it give way as she relaxes. If you grind side to side, up and down, or in a circular manner, the sensation gets to be amazing if you stick with it long enough. Pounding against it sometimes works, as long as you minimize contact with the cervix

 

Well now I know what my boyfriend does because he has always managed to go past my cervix and go way deeper

 

As far as I'm personally concerned, I'd tell a lie if I said I didn't like it. In fact, to be honest I really like that kind of feeling in the middle of passion.
It is not only a physical sensation that can be very pleasant, but also a very strong form of contentment because it has to do with the sense of owning your lover, of making her your own, of filling her well and completely. To perceive her reactions when you do it and to have feedback on the fact that she feels when you are inside her.
From a male point of view I think I'm not the only one who experiences similar sensations.

For the woman I think it is something very subjective. I know for example, that some women with retroflexed uterus don't like a deep penetration.
But it's not just that, it happened to me sometimes that few of my partner in the past had her hands clasped at the base of my penis to prevent me from penetrating them deeply.
As I said in another post I lived that experience as it was more a refusal, a distance and little interest and participation in the relationship.
I've always been an attentive lover and I like to linger in foreplay. If I see that at that time there is not the right mood I prefer to wait, put off, and if it just does not work, let go.
Even when things go right though, I always wait for the situation to warm up before trying deep penetration.
It is not just a matter of respecting the time of your partner and letting physiology take its course.
I enjoy stimulating my partner until she loses her self control. I like to keep her waiting and enjoy the show of her crazy with desire.
Usually a woman makes us understand more or less explicitly if she wants more and then the time comes to enjoy it.
To achieve the goal, if necessary, in the midst of our passion I love lifting the woman's legs and resting them on my shoulders.
In this way the penetration is the maximum possible, and I have always managed with all my partners to apply the right pressure to the bottom. I never push violently or with too fast movements.
It is more of a progressive pressure. I like to feel that I am contained in a confined space and that the glans is pressing on the bottom.

This describes well how I like it. Especially if the woman is above me and makes the movements that give her the most pleasure.
There is a lot to learn from the movements that a woman does spontaneously.
When I am on top of her, she has less freedom of movement and it is up to me to do my part.
The first woman who, without me asking her anything, told me about her point of view on this topic, was the first woman I had sex with and she was an escort.
She was a 30 year old Chinese woman but looked younger. I felt comfortable with her and kept going to her for many months. until she returned to her country.
Although there was some difficulty communicating because of the language, we had reached some confidence and one day she told me that I was the youngest of her clients. She said she liked it when we did it calmly but deep. She loved it, it did hurt a little sometimes but was a good feeling for her. I didn't understand at first so she described it with gestures keeping one hand closed into a punch and making pressure in the palm of her other hand.

My girlfriend has a stature far below average because she has a rather serious condition of dwarfism while I am fairly tall.
When she and I got together, I thought that should have been a problem between us, especially the first time we undressed and saw each other naked.
Her body is in proportion to her stature and I am certainly very large for her but fortunately small women are not so fragile as someone can think and she enjoys intercourse.
I bottom out easily in any position but it has never been a problem even because she is tight and I can not make too fast movements.

When she is on top she held herself with her hands tightly intertwined with mine in order to have support and I keep my knees slightly raised so that she can lean on my thighs if she deems it necessary. Once inside, she adjusts her position to find the best angle and then she start moving slowly. The more her excitement grows the more she lubricates herself and the more she feels the need for deeper penetration. and she leans over me as far as possible and sometimes pushing down. It's very exciting for me too. The vagina is quite elastic and that pressure on the glans trapped inside, together with her movements is irresistible. When she reaches orgasm I enjoy her contractions and she enjoys mine while I ejaculate. Then we stand still one inside the other and enjoy the sensation of our bodies deeply united.

From what my girlfriend tells me both the orgasm that I cause her, for example with the oral and that during the intercourse can be both very strong.
But she likes it more when it happens when I am inside her and I fill her properly. The contractions around something that is inside her and that fills her are more satisfying.
She likes to feel me inside her.

 

is there any way to distinguish this type of orgasm?
Maybe only the woman can say. Does man know without asking his partner?

Although I am not super gifted, I think I am above average, however, being quite tall in stature, looking at myself in the mirror is not so evident in relation to my body size.
The circumference is much more noticeable, especially at rest.
The situation is different when I am with a partner who is usually shorter than me and more petite.
With my current partner there is no doubt about it. Because of how she is set up outside, with her tiny stature, but also, consequently, down there.
For her I am actually very big in that respect, so much so that the first times we tried the penetration I had to pay more attention than usual because I was afraid of hurting her.
I was wondering if, somehow, this, vice versa, could help us achieve that type of orgasm.