Around a third of my partners have loved being bottomed out and stretched. Those women have been the last few I've had sex with which makes me wonder if the first 2/3s of the few women I had sex with were indifferent to it, or if I just didn't pay proper attention to their deep spots. Have any of the women here had any bad and then great experiences with getting bottomed out, or is it just a go or no-go spot with you, regardless of the guy's skill?
I don't like it when my BF bottoms out, it's extremely painful. I don't know how anyone can get through that pain. There are a few positions where he can't even go all the way in me.
I've only experienced a few women who could take me in totally bottomed out. Most complained when I went too deep, in pain. Don't get me wrong, I enjoyed all of them but the deep one's were the most satisfying for me. With a new encounter first time, I would start out verrry slowly and try to determine her capabilities before causing her pain. Sometimes, I was asked to not go all the way in as she could tell form looking that it wouldn't work. Having an extra long c__k is NOT what the porn industry portrays!!!!! (In fact, if you watch closely, they are not using all of it when in vaginal sex scenes!) The majority, in my experiences, cannot handle much more that 7" max comfortably. Note: Mine was a natural long one as my youngest brother and dad were and I suspect more of my relatives as well.
Before the prostatectomy it was 9" hard now it doesn't get hard but can only streach it to 8" when the attachment cords come tight. The sensations are the same but I would miss the balls slapping the butt cheeks and the mounds meeting. Plus, at the moment of ejaculation, I have to remind myself to not do the natural thing and slam it home. This distracts from the experience some.
I've had different sizes and the biggest one hurt at first but then he just fingered me and stretched me before he went back in, then it was way better. I think a woman is like a man in the sense that they can expand internally as men do externally, they just need to be prepared before hand.
I agree as my wife was one of them but with repeated tries, she stretched to accommodate me and we've enjoyed it for 47 yrs. We have had a couple of ongoing FMF encounters and those women also adapted to my length, over the years. Before and after my marriage, I had several women not have sex or show for another romp due to seeing the size of me. They were afraid that I would 'ruin' them for other less endowed suiters! This is a fallicy as my wife has satisified several males in our MFM encounters and the 'other' women in the FMF encounters continued to satisiy their other partners. After all, the woman's sex returns to 'normal' after child birth doesn't it! During birth, it was much larger than I could have ever been.
After child birth....oh now that depends. I'm a pretty small girl, I was athletically built. At 5'2", and at that time, 115 lbs, I couldn't carry either of my boys to term. They tore me up from the inside out and I've had so much surgery to repair everything. So in this case....it doesn't always return to normal though I wish it could've. As for sex, it does return to normal, I think we were built that way
I've found that incorporating fisting into the foreplay routine helps immensely with soreness. It doesn't have to be the whole hand exactly, but just enough fingers so that the opening can be stretched further than my girth
My wife once had an IUD for birth control. Dang, did that thing ever hurt when I banged her really deep!
I agree. It is the long skinny dicks that do it to me, I guess because the fatter ones get "stuck" before they bottom out. Some positions are worse, like from behind, with my butt elevated on a pillow. Part of the problem is that I think my vagina is not as deep as others. I'm not saying I can take a fatty, it is just the depth that gets to me. But it can hurt like hell and guys don't understand why. duh.
Good point. You're the second one I've heard that said the fatter dicks didn't get as deep. Yeah, that position is pretty harsh since I can bottom out easiest there. Different strokes for different folks I guess (pun intended) I've noticed there's a finesse to getting that deep without causing any pain. An ex of mine taught me how to slowly slide under the cervix and keep my strokes deep so I didn't knock into it.
Likely happened to me with one man. He was a black man with the biggest cock I ever encountered. It may have been 12" long, and very thick. He had a mirror beside the bed in his apartment, and I remember looking at our reflections and wondering just how far inside me he was. He took his time, but he worked that cock ALL the way inside me. He was determined that I take all of him in me. I ached for several days after.....
I have never met a woman who enjoyed being bottomed out. Doesn't make sense. I am rather endowed, just sayin, and like mentioned before in this thread, there are certain positions where I cannot have sex without constantly keeping in mind I cannot fully insert. Having said that, it is odd as if something physically changes if a woman is extremely aroused and wants you to do it hard. Somehow I don't bottom out as easily when they are super turned on. Dunno
I am a senior man and not girthy, I am just over average in length when erect. Just under 7 inches. So nothing to brag about. My wife is 5'3". The first time we had sex she had not had sex for at least a year. When I entered her from the missionary positions, I could feel me bump something and we had to reposition. Later when we did doggies style, we had to reposition again. It's not that I am hung but you just have to listen to your woman. After all you want her to enjoy it too. We been together 18 years and still on occasions we have to adjust. My wife really likes to do doggie, and she loves me to pound her really hard just before she orgasms and I blow my load in her. She will reposition for this pounding. She tells me to pound her pussy. She is pushing hard back against me as I thrust. She has to pooch her butt up to avoid me hitting her cervix. It's all about being aware of your woman,especially if they like a good pounding.
I like it deep and I like a good pounding but it hurts when a guy bottoms out. Sometimes it REALLY hurts.
The guy needs to start off slow and gentle at first to find the limits of that pocket. There are spots that are very tender and there are spots that can really take a pounding. Once he's familiar enough with what hurts and what feels good, he can start aiming his dick in the proper direction
My wife does the same thing. If she arches really high it doesn't bottom out as much which is great. I don't know of a more beautiful sight. Wow! On the other hand a good friend of mine loved to be bottomed out and her vagina was so much smaller and more shallow.She said the harder the better and no matter how much she screamed she would say please don't ease up. Made for a really sore cock! Lol.
I've found most can't take it all, but now and then I find a woman I can use the whole length. I try not to hurt them, but in the throes of passion, it's hard not to grind it deep. My ex and my current wife had to be worked for a good while before I could go full length. My ex still calls me, and we hook up fairly often. She says she misses my size, and the sex is great with no strings. She wants me to bottom out in her, she likes being "full". My current wife is the same way. I go easy on her, but she wants it deep, and doesn't mind a little pain. Typically, I let the woman get on top, and let them control how much they take. I do love bottoming out though, and love stretching the pussy.