For me it's 27 actual penetration intercourse, plus around a dozen or so where it was fingers or 69's, etc. I'm 70 yrs old now and have been with no. 27 for the last 39 years (and married to her for 36 of those), so the others were all before I hit my 31st birthday.
BJintheUK, allow me to make a few minor alterations to your history, but mine's remarkably similar. Best I can remember, 58 penetration, 6 getting oral only, tried giving oral to 2 guys, not my cup of tea. I'm 73 now and have been with #64 exclusively for the last 36 yrs and married 34 of that. (Well, got given 2 orals during that time). So most activity was from 17 to 40 age. But damn, there were some long dry times in there. For what all that's worth. Ah, memories.
Well oldguynurse, You're still alive and able to write, so you're presumably still mobile. If you're still married to #64 then you have someone to share the nights with even if you do nothing more than cuddle up to keep warm.
Pretty well sums it up, BJ. No activity in several years. (Though I have put the old mid-'80s VHS tapes onto DVD's. I'm not stupid)! As Simon and Garfunkle wrote, "Preserve your memories, they're all that's left you." Such is life. But I still do LOVE looking at the ladies.
One for me. My wife had several FWBs in college, so her count was 2 oral and 5 fucking. After we married, I'm not sure what the oral count is, but she added two more for sex.
Couldn't sleep one night so I started remembering the people I'd had sex with, beginning when I was 13. I fell asleep after remembering 60-some women. I remembered each of them vividly. Another night I tried to remember all the men I had sex with. I couldn't remember the men, just their cocks. I couldn't remember them in order so guess the number is about the same as with women.
Your memory is much better than mine. No way I'd remember 60 vividly. My count is in the low teens with women, and 3 men. Those encounters I still remember, and I kick myself for missed opportunities.
QUOTE="Bicaptain My Captain, post: 8988670, member: 307176"]..... remembering the people I'd had sex with....... fell asleep after remembering 60-some women. I remembered each of them vividly......[/QUOTE] Similar number here. They were all emotionally-charged moments so the mind records them. Now, most of the times are visual images stored away, some just vague snatches, but others are much more involved with the relationship in progress at the time. As I've posted on a thread about ladies giving oral, an episode, if done well, can burn a memory into a male for 30, 40 years or more.
