I'm dating a woman and we often have sex. But due to injury, my penis has nerve damage and reduced sensation and I cannot come during intercourse. However, semen still build up inside, making my prostate somewhat painful afterwards. Although I can come by masturbating, it takes great effort, even with a vibrator. I dread doing it. If/when I do come, usually a large amount of semen comes out and my prostate feels relief. Is there an easier way to stimulate oneself to reach orgasm? Or is there another way to release the build-up semen? If I don't release the build-up semen, would the body re-absorb it?
From all I have read, men need a release at least once a week bc it is healthy for the prostate. Have you tried porn to get you excited enough to cum easier? As a last resort you could ask your partner to finger you and massage your prostate.....you can even have a forced ejaculation
Good point. When those who keep livestock harvest BULL SEAMEN....in order to artificially inseminate large numbers of cows with strong Genetic Traits....they have a fake cow Vagina and the Bull mounts this and in order for the Breeders to get as much Bull Seamen as possible they insert an electrical penis like Prostrate Simulator into the Bulls anal canal as this allows the Bull to ejaculate a much larger amount of seamen than is possible during Bull to Cow sex. This would work on you. Get your girl to purchase a Strap-on and use it on you....it will allow you to come and ejaculate more seamen and relieve the issue. I would not get embarrassed at this point as this is a real health issue. TooReal
Supposedly the semen is absorbed, but not instantly to be sure and hence the reason for your blue balls. It can cause you issues, blockages, and built into cysts or cause other issues. really your only solutions are to not be sexual (which sucks) or find a way to release, and with the nerve damage that is obviously difficult for you. This question / situation I think is best handled by a professional, hence I would go to a doctor or possibly a sexual therapist if there even is such a thing
When researching vasectomies, I seem to recall reading about some sort of "open" one, with no clamp on the teste side of the cut vas deferens, the idea being that the sperm can be harmlessly absorbed in the scrotum, when there could otherwise be pressure in the epididimus. You might talk to a doctor about that - but as you say you have prostate problems from it (where I beleive most of the volume of semen comes from, anyway), it may not help at all. So, talk to a doctor - not ejaculating is bad for prostate health anyways, you should see if you can do anything about it.
You definitely don't want to keep it in for too long as it will lead to medical problems. Researchers found a link between not masturbating and prostate cancer, which is awesome because it allows me to back up my wanking off with scientific data. :scholar: It makes sense, for the same reasons why constipation or a blocked urinary tract leads to medical problems ....fluids and matter that are designed to leave the body really should leave the body. They're not meant to stick around. I do understand your pain a little bit though. I've never had it checked out, but I have very little sensitivity in my penis. It's almost impossible for me to ejaculate from normal intercourse and there has only been one girl out of many who could get me to climax with oral sex. Takes me an hour to masturbate most of the time. I'm pretty sure I only have a few functioning nerve endings and they're very particular about how they want to be manipulated. My advice on that matter is to make a note of what does make you climax, because if you're like me it's probably a VERY specific combination of sensations and conditions. Once you've nailed it down, so to speak, don't get creative. You're probably going to have to repeat that process every time.
