Guys - what are some of your favorite bj moves? girls - what are you favorite moves? looking for tips !
Everyone is different so I will only be able to speak for myself. I love a few things. Having my balls played with. Taking the shaft in the hand, the hand and the mouth move up and down together. Make it easy for me to watch the action. For me slower and softer is better. Caress the head with your lips but not all the way to the very tip. Put your teeth on the shaft past the head, give it gentle bites. Don’t stop during the orgasm until it’s completely over with. If you don’t want to swallow, have something to spit the cum on. Like an old towel. Or place your lips so you don’t have semen in the mouth during the ejaculation ..... if you’re not sure what I mean feel free to ask details. Continue playing with the penis for two reasons. It’s still hard and still feels nice. To drain it completely.
I don’t know why, but I absolutely love it when my wife snowballs me. Something “wrong” (?) about it makes it hot. Of course swallowing is a massive turn on since I got my first one when I was 17. My high school sweetheart. Didn’t know what she was doing, but she was doing it right.
There are two ways of doing edging, I am describing my favourite. It can be done with a handjob or any other way. You give a blowjob just like you usually do, but you stop before the ejaculation happens. But sometimes there is a bit that dribbles out. When the “danger” of ejaculation is over you continue giving the blowjob. You repeat stopping short as many times as you feel like or as many times as he can take. Sort of keeping your guy on edge of ejaculating. Every time you stop you can see and feel the penis orgasming, and it becomes more and more intense. It’s easier with the guy telling you when to stop and when to continue. And you can learn to do it without input, feeling the penis get harder as it gets closer to ejaculation. I wrote about having it done several times. If you think you like the idea, I once had 23 orgasms in a row within 35+ minutes including the ejaculation. Although I would let a woman play with my penis a long time it reaches a point where it becomes too intense I can’t keep going with edging anymore. The release is intense. There are times the edging was done so well my body was not able to squirt the ejaculation; it just generously poured out. Just one time it was shooting powerfully, a few strong squirts that shot over her hand ready to catch it, landing at least 3-4 feet away.
This is one of my favorites, Chad Hunt has a big sexy cock and the guy sucking his cock sucks cock like I suck cock. Turns me on! deep throat cottage - Bing video
I like a slow deep throat with lots of tongue swirling. I like the scat being locked up and down my balls played with while my cock is in her mouth. A bj is just kick a guy going down on you change what your doing and keep him guessing as to what your going to do next. And take your time enjoy it as much as he does
BJ is all about having someone that can keep their mouth and hand going at same speed. Very wet, love a bunch of saliva. If you notice most orgasms come when the same speed is achieved, changing speeds every other minute is hard to get into. Swallowing and enthusiasm is a great thing.
Borrowing Andy's points for ease of following... Everyone is different so I will only be able to speak for myself. I love a few things. 1. Having my balls played with, stroking, licking and sucking them. A gentle bite hasn't done any harm either! 2. Taking the shaft in the hand, the hand and the mouth move up and down together. Or just use your mouth (no hands). Takes longer on me than when using hands also but god it's so-o-o-o good. That particular GF loved it so much she did it every day, just calling in on her lunch break to have some, erm, more lunch 3. Make it easy for me to watch the action; let me see you licking me and your tongue gliding around my knob, even when I'm cumming. 4. For me slower and firmer is better. Suck on the knob almost like it's a candy in your mouth (unless my way of sucking candy is different from everyone else lol), and slide down his shaft until as far as comfortable - for you. Suck hard as you slide back up again and suck on his knob again. 5. Put your teeth on the shaft past the head, give it gentle bites. 6. Don’t stop during the orgasm until it’s completely over with. For me; doing the BJ that will make me ejaculate, keep going until I've finished cumming and become momentarily too sensitive to touch. ( So many exes stopped sucking or stroking or both, when I was just about to ejaculate. Such a let down but they liked watching me spurting). Gotta do both at different times. Variety. And when they learned not to stop too soon, they saw a more enjoyable visual experience. 7. If you don’t want to swallow, have something to spit the cum on, like an old towel, or keep it in your mouth until you can cumkiss him/snowball/share his cum, between both your mouths. Or place your lips so you don’t have semen in the mouth during the ejaculation ..... if you’re not sure what I mean feel free to ask details. Continue playing with the penis for any one of three reasons. 1. It’s still hard; 2. it still feels good for him; 3. it's right there in front of you so, why not?! And then, drain it completely.
As i’ve written in the past my wife was the blow job queen in college. She suck on the head till it swells and turn purple as she strokes the shaft and balls with her hands. She alternates sucking my balls and licking the shaft and the when im ready to cum swallows every drop. My fwb does a porn star show of sucking and lets my face fuck her as she then lets me cum in her mouth or on her beautiful 36dd. My fb gives an amazing blowjob as she sucks, deepthroats and swirls her tongue in her mouth and she lets me cum and continues to suck and swallow until the sensitivity is unreal. The other twenty somethings still are learning as they use their hands too much but gentle prodding is teaching them a little.
Wetter the better. Lube or spit, but the more the better, feeling of a wet tongue and lips around your cock is beautiful. Enthusiasm. Be desperate for that cock in your mouth, want it, be hungry for it. If someone is sucking your cock, just because you want them to etc they wont be so into it. Its much more enjoyable if the person sucking you off is enjoying it too. Teeth Nothing spoils a beautiful smooth sliding action of a blowjob than a molar on your manhood. Try your best to keep your teeth out of the way, of your mouth gets tired being so wide you can always use your tongue or kiss the tip etc. Dont forget the Balls Having your nuts sucked, fondled, squeezed and even lightly scratched can feel amazing. Lads, nobody likes a bunch of pubes in their mouth, so shave the balls for the ladies its much nicer for them, it also makes it feel better for us. Change it up Find a rhythm and then change it up every so often. You can vary depth of suck, slip into a handjob of your mouth gets sore. Vary the speed, the tightness and position. The same thing over and over again can be great, but trying different positions will help you find more things that work for both of you. Its over when its over. Don't stop too soon, you will know when we are cumming but keep doing what you are doing. Its working and it will feel amazing if you continue through the orgasm. Agree where the cum is going. Before you get too into it just check you both know whats happening when he reaches orgasm. Are you happy with swallowing, are you going to handjob it all over his belly? Maybe you want it in your mouth so you spit it onto him, maybe in his mouth. At least if you have discussed it there will be no unpleasant surprises for either of you. Eye contact and dirty talk Having someone looking up at you when your cock is in their mouth is just the hottest thing. Make sure you try yo do that as best you can. Also tell him you are loving his cock in your mouth. Tell him your his naughty little fuck toy, anything you are comfortable with. He will love it. Follow as many of these as you can and you will have his balls empty before you can say “come here big boy”.
Shorter list... and maybe a little different list. 1. concentrate on the rim behind the head. MANY more feelings there than anywhere else. The grooved area just under the head is also very sensitive, use your tongue and lips here and nothing else in a man's universe will matter. 2. There's really very little reason to even want to deep throat, the shaft shouldn't be ignored, but there's not a lot of erotic feeling there. Same way with the balls... don't forget them, but don't get carried away with them. 3. I for one am not at all turned on by gagging, or by spit, or by using my cock as a grip tester. And don't be afraid to play with the peehole, there are a LOT of good sensations there, and even to play inside it, personally I like that a LOT, but just find out if your guy is one who enjoys that sort of thing, it's very personal. 4. I for one enjoy the eye contact, and the expressiveness of the eyes. Nothing says I'm connected than a great pair of green eyes gleaming from a girl who's sucking my cock at the time. 5. Not every guy wants to cum in your mouth. I don't. I want to kiss the woman who has sucked my cock, passionately, and I want to taste HER, not me I'm sure there are more things on my list, and I enjoy both giving and receiving oral, but that should be the highlights. Enjoy oral, it's a great way to enjoy sex, along with all the other possibilities that make us happy
Disagreeing with the comment that the shaft is not that sensitive: Biting the shaft the right way (oddly, it seems to be certain teeth profiles) triggered great sensations causing me to leak lots of precum Deep oral even if not deepthroat triggers in me me immediate intense pleasurable sensations that could cause an orgasm very soon, and the cause is the sensations in that part of the shaft farther from the head All for sake of information and remind we are all different Also for those who don’t like cum in the mouth there is a way to continue the oral during ejaculation, without cum in the mouth. And it gave me really good orgasms
1. keep sucking hard while im cumming 2. stick a finger deep in my ass 3. play with your hands on my whole body (balls, nipples, mouth) 4. edging
I love having my cock licked like an ice cream cone, and my gf is good with her tongue. She licks around the base of the head of my cock where it meets the shaft. When I come, it's a bit like a fountain, and she catches some of it on her tongue, and the rest goes on her face.
