I've been telling potential male cocksuckers this very thing for decades now. If you say that you're not into guys like that, why would you be so concerned about what a guy looks like since, um, if you're sucking his dick, chances are that you're not going to be looking at him the whole time... unless you believe that crap about you have to make eye contact with him as you suck him (which I never did, by the way). If the guy is attractive, well, it is what it is and... so what? I've sucked and have been sucked by some guys who no one would say is good looking, but they were fun to suck, and they were damned good at sucking and... that's the whole point, ain't it?
Which bit do you enjoy most? The sucking, the feeling of him cumming in your mouth, the sight of him ejaculating or something else?
Obviously not a woman, but I gained a pretty insightful opinion from a very special woman friend years ago. Getting a man to grow in her mouth Taking a fully erect penis in her mouth Hearing her man moan as she gives pleasures Feeling her man’s pleasure in her mouth Having her man grab her head as she gives, or making him grab her head. Knowing he’s about to orgasm, from his moans, the way his penis twitches and bulges in her mouth The way his penis becomes harder and forcefully squirts semen in her mouth while he moans and holds her head Feeling the control she has on him while he completely surrenders to her oral
I've always said that sucking a guy off is one hell of an ego trip; that it is a battle of wills in that he wants you to make him cum - but he doesn't want to while you want him to cum... but not quite yet. I don't think that I've let any man use my mouth any way he wants to; if you want me to suck your dick, I'm going to suck your dick and I don't need any help doing it so just sit or lie back and let me do what I've been doing damned near all of my life. I sometimes catch myself trying not to laugh because some guys think that they're in control of what I'm doing but what they don't know is that the moment I close my mouth around them, I own them; they're mine to do with as I please and I have slapped hands away from my head because I got this and you will give me your cum... even if you're not ready to. It's quite the ego trip to hear him moaning; that moment when his body starts to fuck into my mouth as I look for and find all of his good spots so I can spend time fucking with them and to see it in their eyes the moment they realize that they were never in control of what's about to happen as his prick quivers in my mouth, grows harder and thicker and... ahh, here he cums.
Good stuff I once had one such GF. Chemistry palpable. Not holding her head, I was clinging to the bed and likely was moving as if I were being thrown about on a roller coaster. Begging her to finish me, she slowed down. Never before or since did my 2 secs before coming take what feltblikev5 mins but was only about 2. Still; bloody long. Yes she was in absolute control. I had relinquished my body to her. She had the power, she knew she had the power and she used it. And she used it for my pleasure. Probably the most memorable bj of my life. Afterwards she giggled about my movements. And said she knew when I was going to cum because I went really hard. I got my own back in a similar vein. She lived it. It's as memorable for her as is that bj. Give up control guys. You'll benefit from it.
I used to be the lucky guy with someone just like you. Well except that she never was a lawyer. Now I can’t resist using a the joke, she only screwed me for sex and pleasure
I personally wouldn't mess around with a girl that doesn't like giving me blowjobs so I can have fun with girls like you instead
In her annual Christmas card letter a few years back, an ex-girlfriend of mine who taught at a middle school said a girl got caught giving blowjobs in the boys' bathroom for a quarter each. At another school I read about in the papers, three high school girls walked into a bus with a few boys in it. One of the girls shouted "first one to drop their pants gets oral sex!" As you might expect, those girls were expelled.
I must be really lucky, because every girlfriend that I’ve ever had sex with loved to suck cock. Getting a BJ had always been one of my favorite things.Got my first BJ in high school when I was 17 and to this day it was one of the most amazing BJ’s I ever had. My GF at the time really loved sucking cock and was really good at it. One of my most favorite BJ experiences was when I was in college- this was when I was starting to have sex with my GF, and she loved making sex playful. She knew I wanted her to suck my cock but she wanted to hear me say it. I wasn’t used to being so verbal but I wanted it so bad. I finally gave in and said to her “I want you to suck my cock”. Once I said it out loud to her, she happily obliged and took my cock in her mouth…
I think she likes to hear this....but not quite to the point of me begging for it....maybe just to let me know she still has me on that string.....
My wife loves to give me blowjobs about as much as I love to receive them. She is an absolute natural as well. Not only does she swallow, she licks up anything that gets away and will follow up looking for after dribbles. She's the best. Yes, I'm one of those guys that has given a blow job. Only one so far, but would like to give more someday.