Blowjob question

I enjoyed doing the work and being in control. When my friend discovered that I can deep throat him, I didn't mind when he held my head and pumped and came in my throat.

 

I just want him to sit back and enjoy my oral skills for 40 minutes before giving me his load as my reward.

 

Yeah I'm the same, I like doing the work tounge swirling around the tip and shaft while squeezing his sack

 

I prefer to do all the work. If he thrusts, then he's not getting a good job. But if he allows me to do all the work, he can tell me exactly where he likes to be liked or sucked and I can exploit that. This way If I do the work I will get pleasure of eating his dick out but he also gets pleasure of feeling every lick, suck, kiss slurp on every inch of his duck including his balls. What better way to enjoy your dick in my mouth than you laying back while I do ALL the work? I mean he can gently gyrate to my rhithym.

 

I normally do all the work but one guy is was with wanted to face fuck me. He straddled my face and pumped his cock in and out of my mouth. All I did was open my mouth and put my hands on his ass cheeks. He ended up shooting cum in my mouth, on my face, and on my chest and arms. It was great

 

I "prefer" to do the work because it's the way I learned how to suck cock. If you're fucking my mouth, well, that's not me sucking your dick, is it? Grabbing my head and fucking my mouth is going to get you hurt and I make that clear to guys before anything happens: I don't need your help to suck your dick so just lie back and let me do what I know how to do. I learned that when it starts getting good to a guy, his body is just going to start fucking into my mouth and I'm good with that... but that grabbing my head and fucking my mouth like it's a pussy?

Oh, fuck no...

 

I don’t want to be forcibly face fucked but a like his hands to be on my head and him thrust more in rhythm with my motions.

 

If a guy put a hand or both hands on my head but just has them there, we're good - and it took me a long time to accept this and not get bent out of shape. As long as he's not stopping me from moving my head or, again, having a porn flashback and trying to throatfuck me, we're good... but if he tries that or stops me from lifting my head up?

Big time problem. But I let guys know this up front and if it turns them off that they won't get to use my mouth the way they want to, well, too fucking bad: This ain't just about them.

 

I know how you feel I always let the guy know what’s up and if he try’s to force it down my throat I will stop right away. But if we talk about it before hand and I agree to it that’s different.

 

I like working on it, watching how it reacts.

 

There was a time when I "gave away" blowjobs for nothing. I sucked guys for the sheer joy of it and if they reciprocated, fine but if not, well, a return blowjob isn't the only way I could get off including doing it myself. Some guys would jerk me off; some would offer their ass to fuck, and some would offer nothing in return, leaving me to take the matter into my own hand. Then, one day, I'm giving away yet another free blowjob when it hit me: Why should he be the only one experiencing the deliciousness of being sucked off? And more so when I also loved having my dick sucked and finished! I stopped sucking the guy and asked him if he was going to blow me when I was done and... he balked at answering and... I didn't finish what I'd started. He was pissed and I made it clear to him: You want me to finish you off? Suck my dick and you don't have to suck me off. You do that and you get sucked off.

He refused. So, I refused and sent him on his unhappy way. I was reminded that in life, there is no such thing as a free lunch; you can't get something for nothing and, sometimes, just being satisfied with a job well done... isn't enough. You get enough "one way sex" having sex with women, some of which want it all while doing nothing to get it all. I thought about all the times a woman demanded to be eaten but wouldn't suck me and how I just accepted the disparity because, most of the time, when a guy wanted his dick sucked, he was willing to suck dick, give a hand job, or bend over and grab his ankles.

Then running into guys who, like those women, wanted it all from me and giving nothing in return and I'd had enough of it. You want something from me? If you're not prepared to give something, nothing is going to happen. I love to give head but I'm not going to give up my love of getting head and I've pissed off many a man and woman to tell them that if they don't give head, they get no head from me... because why should you have all of the fun?

 

Maybe you should make it clear up front that you require reciprocation.

 

Oh, I most certainly do and have since I was like 18.

 

I’m ok with it if a guy doesn’t want to suck me. I love sucking and enjoy having a cock in my mouth and getting a load of cum at the end. I like having my cock sucked but it’s no big deal to me if I don’t

 

I’m the same way I love sucking cock and having the guy cum in my mouth and if the guy doesn’t want to suck my cock that’s ok with me . I love getting the guy off and swallowing hot thick cum yummmmy

 

I understand and respect that because it reflects the way a lot of guys feel about it... I'm just not one of them because if we're having sex, it's not just about you; it keeps going back to the question I asked: Why should you be the only one having fun? Not that I'm not having fun giving head, but I just do not believe that it's better to give than to receive, not when it comes to having sex and I have good reason to not believe in this given the many times I've gone out of my way to give a guy a very happy ending and... I get nothing in return except a belly full of his cum and being told that I'm a good cocksucker.

 

I have only met up with a couple of guys that weren’t willing to suck my cock. If I wasn’t ok with that, I would just keep looking.

 

And that's what I do. I know - and respect - that some guys aren't cocksuckers and, yeah, I am so sorry to hear that they aren't but I'm not a kid anymore and if you want what you want, then I want what I want and if you're not okay with that, well, again, I'm sorry but I need to find someone who will be willing to make me just as happy as I'm going to work hard to make them.

There is no such thing as a free lunch. See, I got to suck a lot of dick belonging to guys who didn't eat pussy - and the women who told them that if they weren't eating that pussy, they weren't getting their dick sucked... and I understood their take on this; why should I make you happy but you're not willing to make me happy? I also got to eat and fuck a lot of those pussies because I would eat the shit out of them and the woman would, at the least, give me some head and like one girl told me: "One good turn deserves another!"

I agree. I've never been a "submissive" cocksucker and I don't give head just to make the other person happy because it makes me happy... but if it's my "job" to give you a very happy ending, um, why can't I get one, too? And why am I wrong for asking? I just learned how to play the game: If you don't suck dick, you don't get your dick sucked. This ain't just about you and we have gotten away from the premise of mutual satisfaction...

 

If the location and situation allow definitely love to mix it alot of me working his cock and a bit of him working my mouth and head.