So I am a grown ass man who has never had any sexual feelings or contact with another man. Lately I have really been missing blowjobs (wife won't do it anymore) and finding a woman to do it is more trouble than it's worth. As you may know finding a guy to do it is easy but how does a straight guy get passed the initial unease about getting sex from a guy. This is a serious question so hopefully there will be some serious answers.
It's not easy. It goes against all you were taught. It's also difficult to find a good match. Be prepared to be disappointed by guys not following up. Be sure to get to know the guy a bit first. You'll be very nervous, but eventually it will be good.
I've done it at glory holes. Not having the physical contact other than getting sucked helped. But I also learned to be bolder in asking girls so it took some of the urgency out of wanting it so bad.
Maybe it could be easier to address why she won't give you a blowjob anymore. I mean, she used to, what's changed besides age?
Not sure. For me, there's a big diffence getting sucked by a guy through a hole compared to a nude woman keeling beside you and letting you play. I guess I'd have to compare a gh blowjob from a guy and then get one through the same hole from a girl. Hmmmmmm......
It can take a while to get used to the idea. Be prepared for wanting to give a blow job once you have been given one by a guy. We give better head, I have been told by most guys I have sucked that it was the best bj they have ever had. A few said it was the first time they were able to cum receiving one. There is pleasure in the giving also. I am at the point that it is equal for me, if I receive one I want to give one.
Menopause, hysterectomy, double mastectomy due to breast cancer and probably weighs 100 lbs more than when we married so other health issues due to that. ZERO interest in sex. No, I'm not leaving her.
It's difficult for most men to allow another man to suck their dick that has only been sucked by females. I was there many, many years ago but once I allowed it, I could not believe how good it felt. He was fantastic and it was the best I ever had up to that point in my life. Sit back, close your eyes and you'll realize a mouth is a mouth, wet and warm.
I’ve tried hooking up with other guys for mutual blowjobs in the past. Most of them end up as “no-shows."
I am in the same boat. I have never done anything sexually with a man but have fantasized it for the last several years. I would love to get a BJ and see what it’s like to give one.