Curiosity - when you think about your current and last partners, which dick sucking skill or characteristic pushes someone to the top of your list? That one thing when you think about it always makes you want that person or wish you still had that person. For example, my wife is the ONLY woman that has enjoyed playing with, tasting, and swallowing my cum. So she separates herself from my other partners because she is into cum.
I suspect you don’t literally mean that blowjobs is the one factor for you to choose a partner. There are many things that matter for me. On to blowjobs, what makes a difference with them for me is someone who actually enjoys it, I don’t like the idea of somebody doing it when it grosses her out. And one huge factor is someone who does it my way, not her way. Not for being controlling or selfish, what is the point of receiving a blowjob if it’s done wrong all the time? And last, I am not one who thinks women are obligated to take me in her mouth, but when it comes to choose a sex partner I appreciate somebody who keeps pleasuring me when I orgasm
Thanks for the reply. It is absolutely not the factor for choosing a partner. My curiosity lies in knowing what one thing separates current/former partners.
Patience. Going slow, taking her time and letting us both enjoy it. Too many want to get it over with. For me, a long, slow suck is amazing.
There's so many approaches that are all great - for me, if she actually really enjoys or even revels in it, then that makes all the difference. A past lover did it with a "OK sure why not" kinda attitude - nowhere near as much fun as someone who loves doing it, even if the skills were pretty comparable.
My first wife and I ALWAYS had 69 sex, she sucked it to get it hard for penetration. She gave a good blow job, not great. A neighbors wife (affair) was a cum slut for sure. She gave great sloppy head and could suck the chrome off a trailer hitch. 10 minutes on my cock and she had her load of cum. My present wife gives fabulous blow jobs, long, slow, and licks and sucks every area around my cock and loves sucking on my balls. She enjoys it which makes her great at it.
I want to be sucked the same way I like eating a woman. I can't get enough of a warm wet pussy. I want my partner to enjoy going down on me. When they're in to it as much as I am it's a win win! And don't neglect the balls. My current wife was the first woman to really pay attention to the boys....licking, sucking, rolling them in her mouth. Previous partners were just average...... Before my wife I had a FWB that loved going down on me.....but she wasn't very good at it. Too soft. She never got me off with her mouth and I'd usually end up stroking until I came inches from her face. Then she was all over me sucking and licking up my cum. Honestly, every woman I've received head from has always swallowed.
Just enthusiasm and no cum dodging, the rest is mechanics. You've gotten me this far, go for the whole experience and have some fun enjoying doing it. Nothing is worse than "sigh, ok I'll blow you if you want, but it's not going to be a big drawn out event..." Which is almost as bad as the five fateful words of blowjobs "don't cum in my mouth".....oops too late.....
Yep, but luckily for me all the women I've been sexually involved with were all swallowers. Maybe not all the time but if just giving a blow job they all swallowed.
I think it's so erotic watching my wife play with my cum. It absolutely drives me bananas. She swallowed from day one. She initially just loved swallowing and would keep sucking. She never wanted to come off of my dick. It was euphoric. I pulled my dick out of her mouth and came on her titties one day and she loved it. She enjoyed seeing the cum and and instantly started licking it off of her nipples and titties. From that point forward, she still wants me to cum in her mouth but she will spill it out to play with it. She says it tastes so good and she loves the volume and texture. Never had anyone that was so into cum prior to her. Love watching her string my cum. Then she'll smear my cum all over her lips with my dick and suck it off. DAMN. Love this woman. And I get at least one dick suck daily.
No doubt about it. It isnt like this happened overnight. I've had my fair share of women who don't even come close to what my wife does. There are unicorns out there but hard to find. This site is a microcosm of the world. Prior to my wife, I didn't even meet a woman who wanted to talk as nasty as I do. It is like the lottery when you find one that only wants you on top of it. Haha. I literally hit the jackpot. And she claims she never even swallowed before meeting me.
lets see: had the girl that puts it in her mouth to get it wet, then it turns into a handjob with lips grazing the head here n there had the sloppy spitty gagging deepthroat tears n snot chick had the straight forward in n out sucking at a steady speed the high speed suck with tongue swipe on the head, followed by the hand twists the lollipop/ice cream cone.. licking up down left right all over with a handjob the cannibal biting, violent sucking, attacks the balls, squeezing, smacking coma patient... pretty much your facefucking her octopus/porn star fingers going every where, tongue going from gut to butt, dick slapping the face, full eye contact then my absolute favorite is the one that makes out with my cock... alternating speed n sucking power, changes in hand strokes n styles, told to just sit back, tongue running up n over n around the best spots.. she just totally makes love to my cock over an extended period of time... and works my dick into throbbing, pulsing, jerking shots of cum.... this is my favorite BJ
An ex girl friend who when she had my dick in her mouth always wanted the cum. She didn't give BJs as foreplay but as the act itself, and never stopped until I came in her mouth and she swallowed it all down. Never had to ask for a BJ she just did it, never had to ask to cum in her mouth she just did. The first time we did anything sexual and the first time she blew me (3rd date) we were making out in her kitchen she unfastened my pants pulled them down and sat down on the floor and started sucking and pumping with her hand I when I about about to cum I said I'm going to cum and she just kept going and swallowed it all.. One time she was blowing me taking my dick out of her mouth and rubbing it on her face and I came on her cheek by accident, there was some cum left on the end of my dick she stuck out her tongue looked into my eyes and licked off the cum.
Exactly how my wife is. She just enjoys it. She actually gets peeved at times when I stop her to have sex for a bit and then let her go back to sucking. She just loves the act. And that will ALWAYS make her a tough act to follow!
