Why would you marry a woman who didn't like to suck cock? I always made sure I got head by the 3rd date.
Its something I've never really understood. Its the best part of a guy, the most fun part. Why the fuck are they with a guy if watching his thing get hard doesnt get you all hot and bothered. And if you are angry that he is crap at return of serve, just fucking tell him And even when it comes to trying to control them via sex, isnt that best achieved by ensuring Mr Pee Pee is always too tired to look elsewhere, rather than withholding But more into a guy so you can cuddle and talk about your feelings, feel safe at night, or get the bills paid rather than not wanting to fiddle with his dick all the time....yawn
Sorry, but I always thought the best and most fun part of me was my brain. I've heard of men thinking with the wrong head though.
But I'm sure if your man asked how to get more blowjobs you'd tell him to do dishes. My wife just won't. Nothing i can do to get one.