Hello. It's been a long time since my last post. Anyway, straight to my story... Last sunday i met an older guy and he managed to convince me to be bottom for him. I had stopped being bottom because of my hemorrhoid problem. So of course i started bleeding after a few light pounding and he was kind of freak out and ended masturbating each other in the bathroom. However, that brief momemt of being fucked felt so so so gooood... I m frustrated that i cannot enjoy anal sex anymore because of this damn hemorrhoid! I m too embaress to go see a doctor, he might know I do anal sex. There must be something else i can do. Anyone have any ideas? Please advice. Thx.
go see a doctor. there are gay-friendly men's doctors out there (some of whom are gay themselves even). don't know where you live but ask around, do some research. other gay guys in your area might know to recommend someone. hemorrhoids occur in males regardless of their sexuality (Jimmy Carter had them). there's no way for your doctor to infer anal sex from that. this being said, it is always best to be honest with your doctor. a gay male has an additional sexual function to his anus compared to a straight male, and accordingly the needs and treatment would be different. you have to get over the idea that consulting a professional who can help you is something shameful. it is bad enough to influence your sexual life, ergo you need to approach a medical professional to help you. the only way you can do it is by being honest with your doctor. there is nothing embarrassing about it. you should also read a book on men's sexual health, like for example Stephen E. Goldstone, M.D. The Ins and Outs of Gay Sex. it has a whole chapter on anorectal disorders including hemorrhoids and how to deal with them. a lot of useful information there.
I've never been bottom for anyone and I've had hemorrhoids several times. I happens. Mine seemed to go away for the most part after losing 20 lbs. If you have any questions, then ask your doctor about them. They're horrible for reasons other than sex.
Damn. So see a doc. He's not going to know you're gay just my looking at your asshole. Now, my doc may suspect I am. I went in for congestion but when doc stuck his head in the room, I had his KY Jelly ready for him, gloves out, and was bent over his exam table. Don't be as direct as I am and he probably will never know.
Meridianwest - i was originally from thailand but now i work in an islamic country. Perhap embarrassing is a wrong word to use in my post above; afraid is more appropriate. I will be going back to my home country in mid-june next year, i'll do my medical there then. I can't risk it here now. I was just wondering if anyone have an alternative solution or a temporary solution. Vanilla Gorilla - u r rite, but I can't state my true intention here. I had in the past, ran into problem with the "islamic police" here. So i m not going to spell out my intention here. I might even be monitored now. As for my username, this will be my last post as undecidedteen because 1) i m not undecided and 2) i m not a teen anymore. Cheers and good luck everyone.
