Bisexuals: are you attracted to both sexes equally or one more than the other?

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  1. shoeless joe

    shoeless joe Member

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    For people that identify as bisexual: are you attracted to both sexes equally or do you prefer one sex more than the other?
     
  2. silk896

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    I love sex with guys, but I can only "fall in love" with another woman.

    But that's just me. Everyone is different.
     
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  3. drawinginblank

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    I would say it is pretty equal. I like guys as much as girls. I end up dating more guys then girls though because there are not a lot of girls who are attracted to me where I live. Which is fine.
     
  4. fraggle_rock

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    For me I go back and forth on which I prefer... but I'm in a relationship with a woman now and she is everything I could ever possibly want.

    I used to think I was more gay than straight but I think that mostly the gay thing is a fetish and I connect better/have better chemistry with women.
     
  5. shock3

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    95% straight, zero romance about men. It's fantasy / action about being penetrated, used as a sex object, and cumming.
     
  6. billluc

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    I like guys more, but I still like girls
     
  7. la Principessa

    la Principessa Old School HF Member

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    I like men more for relationships. I like my men to be manly, alpha male type. And I love sex with them.

    I think with women I'd be more interested in just fucking around.
     
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  8. bikimaholic

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    Woman are my first and only love. Men are a sex object and thats it. Not even attracted to them, just there package.
     
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  9. QuartzKitty

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    No. I'm a rare Kinsey Scale '3', meaning I have no preferred gender, and am attracted to both equally. Most who identify a bisexual do still have a preference for one gender over the other, falling on either the 2 or the 4.
     
  10. *MAMA*

    *MAMA* Perfectly Imperfect

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    I consider myself pansexual, but my preference is straight males.
     
  11. Erica:)

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    Wow!!! that's a tough one.. I never really thought about it like that or tried to put a % to it. But I would say equal..I could live the rest of my life with either, all depends on the love factor. But there are just to many pluses to each sex!!! hahah. but that's a different thread. hehehe.
     
  12. cuddlefart

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    I prefer guys for sex but I think I like girls a little bit better. Dicks are certainly nice but come on, you can't say no to boobs. :)
     
  13. yooper2013

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    Females more then guys!
     
  14. sunfighter

    sunfighter Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    This thread seems useless without knowing your gender.
     
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  15. Amethyst_Bliss

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    I like men more than women. I can still get turned on by women.

    For the record, I don't need to have both genders at the same time. Bisexuals can be monogamous and satisfied with one partner.
     
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  16. SwitchyWoman

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    It depends on the person - not the gender for me.
     
  17. TheSamantha

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    Sexually: my clit is for women, my pussy hole is for men.

    Emotionally: more drawn to men, because I like dominance and leadership. I wouldn't want to be "the guy".
     
  18. MochaMood

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    Pdrhaps it is biology, perhaps it is a heteronormative upbringing, but I am far more attracted to men, and have never been interested in having a girlfriend. I don't really identify as bisexual, more like... heteroflexible. Just sounds more accurate to me. I have been in a triad of sorts, where I was attached to a dude who had a secondary girlfriend, and she and I became friends and occasionally had sex, sometimes we had threesomes or foursomes. But she and I were not strongly connected outside of a mutual desire to please him. I remember one Valentine's Day we argued over who should be responsible for giving him a nice day. She kept trying to get me to go to him because she had work. I kept suggesting she go over after work, reminding her that I had a husband. It was a strange cluster of relationships for me, and closer than I ever again want to come to having a girlfriend.
     
  19. Irminsul

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    I have only been with women but can find the "ideal" guy to be somewhat attractive even to a point where I feel it's sexual. Of course these guys only exist on Google when you search "Vikings" and a bunch of well toned guys with strong bodies, long hair and Nordic facial characterizations show up in the images. Not exactly sure what that makes me anymore. I still identify as gay I guess, maybe a touch curious but not really.
     
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    As a woman, I find the deepest empathy and physical and emotional intensity with other women. I admire men's genitals when their details suit my preferences but, at a distance, without any compulsion for physical contact.
     
  21. averageguy6

    averageguy6 Average Ordinary Guy

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    [SIZE=10.5pt]I’m attracted much more to women. I guess it’s because I’m not [/SIZE]attracted to men, just cock and balls.
     

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