Hi, how do I know if I am bisexual I've never been with a man I don't find men attractive But I often masturbate to trans men Does this make me bisexual?
Gay, Straight, Bisexual, whatever; love according to your heart; not the limitations of the oversimplified arbitrary labels society uses to define you.
Pigeon-holing people with labels such as bi-sexual is futile, imv. We're all individuals and its unlikely two people can fit into the same such categorisation especially given that we can't be put into more than one. Oh wait. I could be a heterosexual, bisexual, gay, cross-dressing male which in itself makes pigeon-holing pointless. As it is in reality, I am straight guy who enjoys seeing people orgasming whether they are categorised by others as shemale, male, female, gay, bi-sexual. None of that enjoyment makes me fit onto another pigeon-hole. It doesn't make me gay or bi, for example because its only a physical enjoyment. The only person I would kiss and get emotionally involved with would be female. Playing/ watching (together or online) with others of similar gender is physical enjoyment and experience gaining stuff. Knowing how others enjoy themselves can enable me to try new methods to enhance my own times. As it happens, I enjoy watching slim smooth shemales bceause they're easier on the eye (for me) than a male and they have that similar appendage.
I keep the definition of "bisexual" simple, and I base it actual sexual behavior, not what is going on in my mind. Because I have sexual encounters with both men and women, I am bisexual. Sexual behavior is sexual behavior. It goes beyond just thinking about sexual behavior and into actually doing it. I go a step beyond that to recognize that I am also biamorous, or more broadly pan-amorous. This has more to do with what is going on in my mind when I kiss or feel affection toward males, females, or people with other gender orientations. I just tend to feel and express affection toward very nice people, but i do not subscribe to the popular notion that this affection translates into a form of "emotional ownership".
Bisexual is... what you think; how you feel and, yes, how you have sex as well as any romantic inclinations you have. Masturbating to trans men... well, okay - but does it mean that you're bisexual? I can't say. Does it mean that you're curious? Maybe. How would you know? I think it's like how you know when you're in love: You'll know it. You feel... a pull in both "directions;" you feel an impossible need to be sexually intimate in the same-sex way of things while maintaining your opposite sex interests. There's the definition of bisexual and then there's how everyone defines it for themselves and usually in terms that's easy for them to understand but it might not lend itself to explaining it to others, i.e., I know how and why I'm bisexual and I have a bitch of a time explaining it. I know how I feel; I know what I think; I sure as hell know what I've done sexually with both males and females. I... am bisexual.
That's how I was since I was 15 and though I love women I've sucked off 7 guys since I was 17 and eventually I got to feeling perfectly fine with the fact that I love sucking cock and eating pussy but I think I still would love to suck cock, it took awhile for me to accept the fact that I am bi sexual and I'm totally great with that. If the urge for trans men or men in general and you have the freedom to do so, I recommend that you live out your fantasy and experience the awesomeness of going all the way, personally, I'm so glad I did when I was 17 and every other guy since then, just wish I had the pleasure with more but I'm still hoping. Follow your heart and you'll know, I think you already know and are wanting to and ready to act out your fantasy. Go for it brother, you'll either love it or realize it's not for you, but something tells me different Good luck.
Oh and I am proud to be a guy that loves pussy and cock where so many guys never get to experience what it's really like to suck cock and experience the whole ride especially when he blows his load in your mouth and you swallow it all, then you either are wanting more or it's not for you but at least you've went there and tasted that other side, and if you did good for you, wish more guys would go there at least once, I think a man's cock for the most part depending on who it is is a very sexy and inviting thing to enjoy and endulge in. I personally can't wait for my next feeding as its been 4 years to long now.
I am in the same situation as you. Never been with a man. Never seen a man on the street where I would think that I want to have sex with him. Yet, if a man offered to suck his cock, I would do it without hesitation. Since I only jo to gay porn and chat with men, calling myself straight would be a bit of a stretch. Bisexual suits me nicely. If you feel comfortable calling yourself bisexual, then please indulge yourself.
Just an opinion, but if you haven't had sex with a man you're probably bi-curious. Bi-SEXual, to me, means you have sex with men and women, either together or separately. I enjoy sex with a woman or a man and when it's just me and another man I think of it as a gay experience but I'm still bisexual because I still crave sex with both men and women. Whether you find men attractive or not, having sex with men is the defining part. I never had a crush on another guy, never wanted to date another guy, but when I want to have ball draining orgasms or when I want the satisfaction of knowing I pleased another person, sex with a man fills that desire. If you think about sex with a man often enough you might have to try it out with a couple different guys to find out if it's right for you. I know I love giving head to guys regardless of body shape, race, whatever, and I know I like being an anal sex bottom for guys with tiny dicks, and I know I like being an anal top for thin guys (sometimes in lingerie and high heels) in missionary position. That's about my limits with guys. With women I'll do anything. Just figure out what makes you cum to the moon and do that as much as you can.
