I am bisexual man and finally in a position to explore my homosexual tendencies, in about 6 weeks I will be visiting a man I have been chatting to on the net for 3 and a half months to be part of an all male gang bang. I have had sex with another man but it was just once 15 years ago and at around the some time I blew a different man. My host knows about my inexperience and has assured me him and his friends will be understanding but what can I do and what should I expect to make this as enjoyable as possible?
............the best advice to you is to take things slow and easy, take your time to experience whatever comes your way, go with the flow, and don't be shy about voicing your turn-ons and turn-offs. Just take it easy, and let the more experienced guys "show you the ropes". I'm sure you'll have a great time....enjoy!
Yes, by all means just go with the flow and don't be afraid to state your boundaries. Enjoy the moment and indulge in all that you enjoy doing. I've been with a number of men who wanted to fuck me, but I wasn't into that then. They were fine with that as we just enjoyed sucking cock. Being comfortable in your environment will provide the most satisfying experience whether you're a man or a woman.
I've had the pleasure of being fucked by multiple men in one session. Once the first guy came, I was relaxed and full of cum. Every guy after the first slid right in, and it was awesome. There were 8 guys, and 5 of them fucked me twice. This all took place within one hour. There was cum running down my legs. I felt like a slut. I guess I was LOL. Crazy and awesome experience, but I was sore for a few days after.
......man, talk about the "man of the HOUR!" With m/m/m/m/m action THAT hot, I'm surprised every smoke alarm on your block didn't go off! Sure hope you have more action soon! (all bases are loaded!)
That was a bit ago. I've been a little quiet lately. I'm starting to enjoy just my wife and one guy that's been a regular, and has become a good friend. It's really cool to have a friend that my wife likes, and that likes to fuck me. An exclusive setup. We all have agreed that the three of us are all we need or want. I think it's more safe, and better in every way, to have that connection. He comes over for cards, and board games. We have a few drinks, and things get kinky. It's like best friends with every benefit you can imagine. He loves to take care of my wife and I. We love to have him. At this point, I don't want to have a train ran on me....that's a bit crazy to be honest. I'm lucky to have not caught some std, and I don't want to chance it ever again. Still, for the sake of this thread, if you get the chance, you only live once.... right? Everyone should experience what they want. I don't care if you're straight, bi, or gay. Do what makes you happy
.....you make a GOOD deal of sense, my friend....I agree with your comments 100%. Appreciate what you HAVE (many do not) and just enjoy yourself; as you correctly stated, you ONLY live ONCE! Once, long ago before I retired, I heard the following joke: Q: "What is the definition of a bisexual gentleman?" A: "A guy who dates a girl four times before he fucks her brother!" Enjoy what you have, with people who care about YOU and who YOU care about!
Depends on the guy some guys are rough and some gentle you have to take control. I like it a little rough but not to rough plush it depends how big they are.
I agree with the advice of letting others know of your boundaries, either verbally or just with a gesture like pushing them gently slightly away when they are attempting something you are not comfortable with yet. You can expect nervousness and some fear perhaps, but hopefully it will not override excitement as well. You might not be necessarily attracted to everyone in the group. Attraction is more than just visually, but also involves chemistry. You may feel chemistry with one guy and not with another in the group. If you think penile penetration may be involved, bring your own condoms, just in case. Try not to get swept up in the excitement and freedom, and risk getting HIV by fucking bareback, giving or receiving. That can be one of the boundaries we're speaking of. You will certainly experience some voyeuristic feelings, feeling excited to watch other guys sucking and fucking. Overall try to relax and be in the moment, exploring your homosexual side. But also don't necessarily feel disappointed if your desires are not quite there yet the first time. Nervous fearfulness can dampen your libido. It sometimes takes time. And finally, most importantly, never feel obligated to do anything, such as reciprocation for reciprocation's sake. Just follow the lead of your desires and comfort level. You don't have to do everything this first time. Anyway, I thought I'd share my two cents, having myself enjoyed many spontaneous group scenes in bathhouse saunas, and attending a monthly all-night gay orgy for a year once, with 20-50 guys each time. It can be a lot of fun. I've never been in a gang bang per se, but I definitely have some good experience with gay orgies. Oh, by the way: usually in an orgy, in my experience anyway, participants break off into smaller groups rather than the whole huge group being one tangled pile of flesh. But the spaghetti web of mutual cocksucking, hand jobs, rimming, and possibly fucking could be 6 or more guys all together. And if it's a gangbang, then it's usually one person's mouth or asshole being a cum dump for every guy in the group, one at a time. But that I only get from videos, not real life, since, as I said, I've never participated in a gangbang for real. If it's actually a gangbang and you really want to put your bare cock in the bottom's cum-filled asshole, then make sure you are on PrEP. It won't protect you from other STIs, but it will from HIV.
Currently there are no females in my life. My buddy has a friend so MMM's are it for now. Still seeking a wild woman.
