If the man was assertive, leaning to dominate, top, I'd chose the man. I love women...but a take charge top...oh my!
A night of sex... definitely a woman. A quick encounter... that will be me with another man sucking cock and swallowing the rewards. ~~
I feel like blowing a married guy occasionally. But if forced to choose, I’d like a woman as a fuck buddy. Highly prefer married and cheating woman.
I did have both scenarios over the years. The woman said she was just in it for fun, and so was the gay friend. Trouble is there were mind games with the woman, guilt because of cheating but the guy was open and friendly and just up for lust, at each other's cock.
Since I live life in the Bi Closet (for now) I'd take the cock since I have a gf and it doesnt come around often..I LOVE Sucking Dick!!