If you were pretty much"monogamus and straight", most of your life, when or what was the factor that opened yourself to trying a Bi option? For us, it was a logical option. Hangups were out the window . Enjoy while we can. Was your s/o a primary influence in your decisions?
Over ten years ago I used to chat with a young woman on a now defunct website. I chatted with her for months until one day she was upset and would not tell me why. Finally she told me that she had been lying to me and she needed to confess. I was really puzzled and then she told me that she was not a “real” girl. Now I was even more confused and I didn’t believe her. So she pulled out her cock and showed me. OMG. I could not believe what I was seeing. Then I realized that I wanted her cock in my hands, in my mouth, in my ass. That started a long journey towards self acceptance and the realization of my desires. Now I am a bottom with my transgender girlfriend (she is a pure top) and I feel fulfilled in a way I have never been before.
I started late in life and realized missed a lot of cock, was 68 when first sucked, loved it, doing it all i can now, want to try anal now
My S.O. was a factor as she coaxed me to try cock. The problem now is finding a woman who is cool with it. I'm working on ways to determine if a woman is more or less likely to be cool, but even bi women often don't accept a bi-guy.
I was always open to trying new things and exploring beyond my normal boundaries. When my wife and I split up, it was time to play the role of receiver. And being older, it seems a lot easier to hook up with another guy than a female partner.
I don't think I'm quite a senior yet (55)...but it won't be to much longer. Where I grew up...being heterosexual was "normal", homosexuality was considered subhuman and homophobia was rampant. If someone was gay, they kept their mouth shut and didn't look at anybody a certain way or you were labeled a "queer" and risked constant brutality. Boys dated girls...that was the only option. When I was a young teenager, I discovered I liked anal stimulation...even though it was me touching myself. My thoughts were "this is GAY" and in my mind it was just wrong to enjoy something like that. As time went on, those urges got stronger. I would lock myself in my bedroom and play with objects that I found around the house. It was my little secret and no one else knew. I had those urges but I was still genuinely interested in only girls. The thought of another guy...repulsed me. Time goes on...I'm sexually active to the point of addiction and we are getting into the age of the internet. I discover porn websites... I'm still very heterosexual...and then one day I was reading some erotica...feeding my sex hunger. I had read several stories and the next one involved a trans woman. My first thought was "WTF is this GAY nonsense??" ... but I kept reading. When I was done reading the story, my cock was hard. I wanted more of what I just read...but better yet...I found some porn. My mind was effectively blown at that point. I watched a video...and then immediately went back to watching pussy getting hammered. There was no way in hell that I was going to admit that I was turned on by watching two cocks in the same bed. Then I started watching more...little by little. I couldn't help it...I was fascinated! I had fucked more women than I could remember to the point of boredom...and now I had a new avenue. My fascination became a curiosity...and then it became a fantasy. I loved women (and still do)...but I wanted that kind of sex in a very bad way. I was still repulsed by the idea of another man... so I focused my attention on the women...women with cocks. I wanted it badly but never had the courage to go through with it. Years went by... I turned 50...and out of nowhere I had what I'll call an epiphany of sorts. This was just five years ago...and I was way past the point of caring what others would think about anything I did. So then...why should I continue to feel like I can't try something new, that I have been wanting to try for a very long time? I still love and adore women...and quite frankly, I don't care about my past beliefs anymore. My desire to try a new kind of sex, completely overshadowed my fears and reasons not too. So I decided to go through with it, but where do I begin? When I was younger, I fucked escorts and hookers for sport! Me and my buddies used to pass them around like they were in a candy dish...so it was a no brainer. I would just book a trans escort and finally see what it was like to suck a cock, myself...and not watch someone else enjoy it. So I did exactly that... and I loved it. Today, I still enjoy the company of women (cis, trans...they're all women!)...and some men. I'm still a sex fiend (LOL)...but I no longer discriminate between gender or sexual orientation like I did when I was younger. If it feels good...enjoy it. I no longer have a reason not too.
My wife at the time was neglecting me sexually so I accepted blow jobs from gay men when offered. It wasn't long after getting several blow jobs that I wanted to give one. Been sucking cock regularly now for almost 30 years and love it. I met a married guy almost 10 years ago and we've been sucking each other off about twice a week since we first met. I'm now his bottom too.
I think hormones change, as, we get older. In my case too, my wife's lack of participation and a longtime friend having the same issues granted us opportunity to be curious. It's been a roller coaster ride
I never thought any bisexual thoughts until 10 years ago. I stumbled upon my wife giving a BJ to a guy at a party. While watching her was both shocking and exciting it was seeing the look on his face of pure joy that fascinated me. I begin to think about me giving such pleasure to a man. That's where it started for me. It was several years later that I took the big leap.
I'm in my 60's, A few years ago I was not seeing a gal at the time and i got into watching videos featuring cocks. I posted something on Craig's List wanting a guy who had sent some masterbation vids to send me more. My post drew responses from other guys. We exchanged dick pics and suddenly things were set up for meetings with guys. The first guy never showed up and I was kind of relieved but disappointed too. I met with the next guy, we blew each other, I sucked cock for the first time and there was no doubt in my mind that I was going to finish him in my mouth and swallow his cum. I did and I loved it. The next day I met up with a guy that only wanted a blow job, he even wanted me to keep my clothes on. I loved being used like that. His cock was so tasty and he came a lot. I swallowed it all which surprised, me being a rookie cock sucker. I guess I was officially bi after that weekend.
You and I did almost the same thing. At 62 I just became curious, before that I had never even thought about it. But once I tried it, I loved it. Never tried anal ,but have looked for someone a couple of times.
My wife is the one who thought it would be a good idea to go in this direction. She was finished with sex for herself and said it was a logical solution for my needs. We had a close friend , who was gay and split with his long time partner. He was always teasing me, so was my wife. After receiving a great blowjob from him, with her approval, she said that I should help him out too. I was as nervous as can be, but it was the right place and time to do it. With my wife , sitting on the edge of her seat to watch, I took his cock and returned the favor. When he came, I used one of my wifes old tricks and just let it fall out of my mouth back onto him.The next time we did it, I swallowed. After that,most of the time, my wife was there watching. I could have thought of better scenarios but this was the only one that met her approval.
as of now have not done anal but like you I am looking but he can not be too big, virgin here & dont like pain,lol
I agree, I want to try it, but do not want the pain of one that is too big. But I want one big enough to definitely feel. I want the pleasure but not the pain.
I only bottomed once. He was small -- like my pinky finger. I didn't feel much and he cum in like a minute. After I became a top, never thought about bottoming again. Now in my mid 70's, I'm curious to try it again. Now if this damn virus would go away...
Virgins can be really difficult. They're convinced it's going to hurt and if they feel any tingle of discomfort, they pull away and clinch...making it almost impossible to relax. The key word here is RELAX Let your TOP take over control...and if he has any patience and experience he will know how to prepare you. Some tops will jump at the chance to pop a virgins cherry...and some may not be to interested because it's work! LOL Buy a buttplug and a dildo...and use them so you can feel what it's like to be penetrated and stretched. It's fairly common to feel a small sting at first, but it goes away fairly quickly and it's all pleasure from then on.
Lots of good advice here. Getting a dildo and playing with it by yourself is really a good way to get your sphincter muscle used to being penetrated. A little pain is ok especially upon the initial entry but it should go away quickly. Anything more than that is a signal to stop what you are doing, wait a bit and try again. Once you are used to how your body responds and what feels good and what doesn’t, then you are ready to move on to a partner.
I was 60, now 72. What got me interested in having sex with a man was after my 2nd divorce. I had a few sex with a few women but was curious about what it would be like to have sex with another man. I still like pussy, but a hard cock really gets me hard! I would go to the adult arcades and theaters, I liked watching the men jerking off or sucking each other. Never did anything myself except jerkoff and leave. Wasn't till 2010 when I got up enough nerve to actually go to a theater in Florida with the thought of actually doing anything. Sucked my first cock in the booth. I must say I loved the feel of it in my mouth as it got harder. He didn't want to cum in my mouth, instead he finished himself off, then left. I was disappointed to say the least! Then I went into the theater area sat down and dropped my shorts and started to play with my cock, well as I was slowly rubbing my cock a guy came and sat next to me and took my cock in his hand jerkin me off, he then got down on the floor and sucked me off, I came very quickly he swallowed my load then left. I left soon after. My first experience. Since then I have had many encounters with older men, most of them married. I have sucked them off and swallowed their cum and they have done the same to me. As I said,I still like women and pussy, it just seems easer to find older married men who are willing to have sex with another man! I got fucked for the first time just a few months ago. He was gay, I liked it and let him cum in my ass. Will do it again if given the chance! I am Bi and embrace it!
