Bi men looking for a bi

It takes time and looking. Websites are the best course of action nowadays. Which site to try varies. All of them have their perks. From Grindr to Feeld. Maybe some of the other gents (and ladies) can give you their thoughts and experiences worth the sites they use. While others can provide their methods of searching. Good luck to you.

 

Hi Rex, I have not gotten past chatting. I had some great chats and some totally lame ones. Without wanting to be judgmental, there are some very « different » people out there. Not my cup of tea.
For a few years I have been chatting with the same man. He is as close to a bf as it can be. We are a good match, both married and not wanting to endanger that. We both have a strong unfullfilled desire to be with a man. At some point we graduated to voice and cam. Very hot. This is as far as my wife will let me go. Good thing there is the Atlantic between us. Without that, who knows…

 

Hi Rex,
I am not sure I can give you much good advice since my experience with men has been online only. I have been bi-curious since I was a teen. My very religious mother (for her gays were perverts you had to lock up) and a very strict father, made exploring my feelings for men not really an option. I got married, had kids and then in my late thirties my bi-curiosity flamed up again. It began to be on my mind all the time. I discovered gay porn and gay chatting. I am still fond of both. About 15 years ago I was ready to have sex with a man. I hooked up with a slightly older man and he invited me to his place. I was very excited and also a bit apprehensive. For some reason I cannot recall, I had to cancel the sex date on short notice. The guy became ballistic. He was furious and became threatening. I learned my lesson and began to think with my brain instead of my cock. I broke off all contact and never tried something like this again.
Since then my activity has been on cyber. It is not the same of course. I crave the physical contact with a man. It is however -most likely - as far as it will ever go for me. I have a stready chat partner on skype and this has been going on for almost five years. He is a very nice guy and I would love to meet him but he lives on the other side of the Atlantic. Also he is riddled with guilt about his homosexual feelings. I spend a lot of time reassuring him that he is not a bad person and chatting with a man is not really cheating (this is my opinion of course).
Anyway, I love to express my feelings for men openly without holding back. My wife knows I am bi and is ok with it. Nevertheless I would prefer for her not to stumble on our chats. They are very gay, explicit and direct.
The only thing I can say about meeting a man is that you should be patient, cautious and aware about the consequences. There are freaks out there, there are guys out there who are not who they pretend to be online. Most importantly, if you are in a relationship, the likelyhood of being discovered is high. You always have to ask yourself if the consequences are with the risk.
This was a lot of rambling. Hope it makes sense.

 

Im in NW VA.

 

I'm in Albuquerque, New Mexico.

 

Lots of good info in there, thanks for sharing.

 

Hey guys! 46 m here. Looking to chat and meet up if local. Love dirty talk but also normal talk. HMU

 

Tried to DM you.

 

CNY

 

Same here

 

I'm in NY but near Rome

 

I know the feeling

 

Any CNY bi mm ?

 

Anyone near Conroe tx ?

 

I am also from the STL area, nor in Central Missouri, near Columbia.

 

I'm a little different than most people here. I'm a single, bi, now mostly gay, man, not interested in being with a woman again (though I'm still very attracted to them), and only looking for gay or mostly gay men--no offense. I like a man's entire body and mind, and even open to love. Niagara Falls, Canada.

 

Silverdaddies is a good site to find someone local. I've met several men there that I ended up getting together with. My current friend I found on there about 2 years ago.

 

Yeah, I should give that another try. I use Squirt, but that seems to so far only be mostly one time hookups. Maybe I can find a compatible guy on silverdaddies who is looking for more, a regular fuck buddy, or friend with benefits, or boyfriend. I'm definitely looking for more than one night stands now. Thanks for the tip.

 

Anyone from east Tennessee

 

i'm not from east Tennessee but welcome to the forums!