Bi men if you had a chance to do it all over would you still went to your bi side ?

If I had the internet when I was young, I’d never have gotten married, would be out bi or maybe gay, probably pan….

 

I wouldn't change a thing. I'm glad that I got started so early in life because it's given me time to (a) have a whole lot of sexual experiences with men and women and (b) gain my understanding of sex and sexuality.

 

I would like my time over again, to establish a real lasting Hetro relationship instead of two sexless marriages. Back then I naively thought that everything would work out fine. If it did I don't think my bi side would have surfaced. But then how would I know if it would work? I didn't then. I thought she'd stay horny forever.

 

If I had it to do over again, I would have let that man rub and suck my cock when I was in college. And probably would suck him as well.

I sucked my first cock at 31 and 2nd (a d 3rd) in my early 50s. I wish I had started earlier and had kept it up

 

I know I would never change a thing I love being bisexual

 

Talking about a "bi side", as is common here, but it is pointless. That “side” is the homosexual side – you don't call the heterosexual side the "bi side" either.

I find it useful to separate these spheres at least mentally:

• Erotic Sphere
• Sexual Sphere
• Relationship Sphere
  
  
• Money Sphere
• Cohabitation Sphere
• Procreation Sphere

and to refrain from the idea that for most men a single General Service Provider can be the optimal stimulant in all relevant spheres in the long term.

Bisexual behaviour is nothing special and is open to anyone who is erotically curious, not easily intimidated and who does not want or need to claim partial or complete asexuality. It doesn't take a great mind to realise that there are not only very attractive young women, but also very attractive young men. The fact that most of them are not chasing men these days makes chasing them even more exclusive. Let others entertain themselves with procreation!

Some people will never understand what it means that neither the Greeks nor the Romans had a word for heterosexuality, homosexuality or bisexuality, and they understood much more about beautiful bodies and sexuality than our eunuch politicians who criminalise as much as possible in populist enthusiasm and then celebrate selective decriminalisation when the opportunity arises.

Craig A. Williams writes in his book with the ironic title Roman Homosexuality (2nd ed., Oxford UP, 2010):

It has been persuasively argued that the impulse to pigeonhole every human being as either heterosexual or homosexual (the sometimes uncomfortable category of bisexual being reserved for intractable cases) is specifically characteristic of contemporary Western culture, and that in its currently recognizable form the heterosexual/homosexual system emerged over the course of the eighteenth and nineteenth centuries. (pp. 6-7)

Whereas Greek men paid homage to the cultural icon of the smooth young man, ripe for courtship and a potential object of romantic and erotic attraction, Roman men had before them a different figure, not an object of desire but a source of identification: the god Priapus, prodigiously erect, ready, willing and able to penetrate boy, woman, or man. (pp. 89-90)

We cannot, in short, speak of a “homosexual subculture” in ancient Rome any more than we can speak of a “heterosexual subculture.” […] Groups and gatherings are one thing, a subculture another. As we have seen, a feature that has been held to be characteristic of subcultures” is an identifiable set of places where their members typically meet. […] We might well wonder whether any particular spaces in the ancient city were specifically limited to, or even simply associated with, the enacting of sexual desire between males. Slaves and prostitutes were ubiquitous for those who could afford them; freeborn men and boys constantly intermingled. To judge by Juvenal, Petronius, Martial, and Phaedrus, if a man was interested in finding an effeminate male partner (one whom in some contexts he might insult or joke about as a cinaedus), he could meet one practically anywhere: on the streets, in the baths, at private dinner parties and orgies – with or without the additional presence of women – and even in an army camp […] (pp. 241-242)

One has the distinct impression that men who sought sexual pleasure with one sex only were in the minority, eccentric in the literal sense of the word. (p. 250)​

We can only understand sexuality if we have understood all human sexualities, which is a challenge nowadays because sexuality is segmented in order to allow or forbid it at will, which prevents us from seeing the big picture of sexuality.

It is time to say goodbye to the antiquated concept of bisexuality, which is also too defensive.

My interest in exploring sexual possibilities is significantly influenced by the five personality factors Extraversion, very high Openness to Experience and very low Conscientiousness, supplemented by very low Neuroticism. And very low Agreeableness promotes the male interest in sexual diversity. In this respect, my sexual life fits my personality very well. Fear Of Missing Out. My guiding question is always: what else is there that could inspire me?

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I started around 25 and without a doubt I wouldn't go back and change anything.

 

I found that as much as I love sex with the ladies, I still feel the need the contact of other men. It is not dumb or anything of the sort...it is a desire due to how I am wired. I have no doubt many, many other men feel the same, but it seems to me that a lot of men are more concerned about societal conditions than what is right for them....IMHO

 

I say fuck the societal conditions and do what you know you want and need to do.

 

I'm still new to bisexuality. I have had 4 experiences but haven't done anal yet. I'm looking forward to my first time. My only regret is waiting so long.

I'm 62 and separated. My ex knows, and is not angry or surprised.

I'm in good shape and looking forward to the summer

 

Yup, still love the ladies. I love the curves and the warm wetness...

 

Hi, if I could have it over again yeses I'd definitely keep my bi side. It's part of who I am.

 

I knew before I was in my teens that I liked boys as much as girls. As kids we would have jack off sessions, comparing our cocks. I had one friend that we would put things in our butts. My first time actually pleasing/ getting pleased by a male was when I was 13. Sucked my first dick when I was 18. Did not have sex with a man again until about 28 and thanks to the internet it was full on from there. I have had many more male sex partners than female. Looking back I probably would have sought male partners as I found I really enjoyed that so much. I most likely would have been more to the bi side, closer to gay. At my current age (59) I have no interest now in women.

 

You bet I would, but I'd only do it better and I would've sucked a lot more cock than I had since I was 17, I loved every chance I had with every guy, hope there's more chances still.

 

I missed a few chances that I'd like to go back and catch up with. A friend in the RAAF made obvious Bi signals to me that he wanted some sucking. Still it was risky doing bi with other guys in the services.

 

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I was kind've backwards on becoming bi..
I had never, ever even heard of sex.. I never really thought it thru about "why" my little sister had diff parts..

I was an artist, baseball player, altar boy, serious student.. I was 11 and my buddy was 14.. I learned that my dick did more than pee..

so my imprint for 3-4 years was multi-partner gay sex.. (read: youngest in a 'sex club' of 12-16 yr old guys.. and not swallowing or allowing ass access wasn't allowed.. I had a role.. I was a team player.)

then came 8th grade/high school and I never even thought about MM sex in that period.. well, maybe indirectly: being an artist and insatiable reader of sci-fi & fantasy novels, I gravitated to Edgar R Burroughs (especially TARZAN and PELLUCIDAR series), CONAN and their ilk.. I was drawing battling gladiators & battle axe-wielding warriors; almost always semi-nude, yet I have no recollection of even thinking sexually about guys..

but that all changed when - at age 18 - I had a few MM (and MMMM) orgiastic epidodes before enlisting in ARMY so I could see a war up close (what a mistake.. sometimes testosterone pushed me to make dumbass decisions)..

so there were a few MM encounters but I was screwing women 10/1... AFTER returning from 'Nam? 4/1.. whether I was having a sleepless-sweaty night with a guy or girl was mostly distinguished by how much semen saturated the sheets when we finished.. I mean - if I was high enough - my mouth and cock knew the difference between sexes; my brain didn't care at all..

so there were two or three hundred of MF encounters and maybe 70+ guys..but I met a lady and married her 47 years ago and haven't been with a guy after that.. ;strangely, the night I met her and she stuck her phone number in my pocket, I actually went home with a guy..,and he had a roommate.. the moaning of three horn dogs all weekend ought to have caused a neighbor to alert ASPCA.. my wife knows about my bi behavior but never cared to know details.. if reversed, I wouldn't either..

so.. I'm not complaining at all that I experienced a full palette of sexual opportunities.. it was fun.. it would STILL be fun.. burying a pretty substantial part of my formative years doesn't make the memory of - and yearning for - them go away..
they're with me anytime I fantasize.. hell, I'm not quite sure 'why' but these past few years, during foreplay with my wife, I'm thinking back to those MM, MFM encounters a lot.. even more than I remember that damn war I wanted to see before it ended..

the impressions embedded in me from things I've seen, done & felt during sex and war are just things I live with..

 

The one thing I would change is. I would start a lot earlier in life and not wait until I was 32

 

Yes - the guys I call the Band of Horny Brothers had a code like that; you sucked, you swallowed; you fucked, you got fucked. I wasn't the youngest but when the BHB got together for sex, unless you had a damned good reason for not participating, well, you participated. The Band of Horny Brothers formed before any of us were close to being teens and when puberty started hitting us (it hit me first), that's when things really got to be interesting and fun. We'd have sex with girls - except the one gay/sissy dude among us - but we just knew that if we wanted to have sex and the Hot in the Ass girls weren't available - and other girls weren't trying to have sex - we had each other. As I seem to recall, it started out with 10 of us and quickly grew to 20+ and I'm still amazed at how having sex with other boys just exploded onto the scene for us.

I maintain that if I could go back and do it all again, I wouldn't change a thing...

 

If I had my time over, I'd fuck a lot more women and intake my time finding the right woman, one who craves the cock all her life.