Bi men and aging

ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!

 

Thinking n ow of those bi males who did not indulge their m/m desires until much later in life, you wonder how many KNEW what they REALLY wanted in sexual relationships.....but were too "freaked out" by admitting that they also wanted sex with other males, and then, those who KNEW they were attracted to both genders at an early age, and just threw caution to the winds............

 

I guess what it all boils down to (simply put) is: "follow your basic instincts".........

 

....best is when an older guy (one who has NEVER desired to get into m/m sex), after the wife claims a perpetual headache, gets a SERIOUS case of blue balls and let's a guy blow him........and then, well, the guy realizes that:

A:

The world DID not come to an end!

B:

"Hey, this felt pretty damn good!"

Next thing you know, this guy is now exploring many other m/m scenarios, and thinking:

"Why the hell did I wait so long?"

Yup, you know this guy ain't by no means alone, not by a long shot..................

 

Perhaps hang out near submarine bases? I mean, think of those huge tubes full of seamen!

 

ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!

Or, "All hands on DICK!"

 

Yes..........we've indeed all heard those stories about horny Navy guys, and what they do when there are no women around!

If I were in the Navy, I'd be a "Rear Admiral" for sure, "TOPside"!

 

Just wondering now who might be the oldest fellow on this forum, still regularly "playing both sides of the field"...........

 

Good question.

And here's another:

What's the difference between a stickup and a holdup?

Age.

 

We often hear:

"Age is but a number".

True enough (at least to some) but you also have to wonder if some guys are turned off by a (senior) partner's age, thinking they will not be able to "rise to the occasion".

Of course, we all know that if the "D&D" is there (desire and drive) then that advanced number ain't gonna matter..............

 

Think about it............

A lot of guys have as many age "hang-ups" as they do sexual hang-ups.......

 

"Hang-ups" also, in a number of cases, simply be yet another example of fearing something you cannnot (or will not) understand; and, IMHO, YOU are the poorer for it......

 

Speaking of "age is but a number", I can think of a number of VERY interesting party games bisexual/gay men can play at their birthday bashes when they turn "69".............(!!)

 

To all those who dissed an older man's advances because of his age, now that you're older, how does it feel to get dissed because of your age? People who had hangups when they were younger get older and realize that having hangups never makes any sense because it only adds to the problem of being dissed because of your age. Some folks understand rather quickly that if you have hangups, you're not going to be having a lot of sex; hiding behind, "It's my preference!" will have you in the bathroom masturbating and wondering why no one wants to have sex with you so age isn't the only discriminating factor.

A woman asked me, "What sexual hang ups do you have?" and she didn't believe me when I said, "I don't have any - but there are things that I learned not to do again." She thought that just because she had like eight years on me that I discriminated because of age and just before I went down on her I said, "I discriminate against stupid people who don't want to have sex..." The oldest man I've had sex with outside of my former neighbor just assumed that I didn't want to suck dick with him because he was "way older" than I was, and I had to assure him that I understood that with age comes experience and I'd already learned to not let grey hair and wrinkles fool me; as a cocksucker, he was magnificent and the nice boner he was sporting was proof that older men can still get it up and still bust a nut... or two.

If you still have the desire, that's something we can work with to make getting older irrelevant and a non-issue.

 

KD23:

How right you are, my friend!

You said it ALL and you said it WELL.........I agree 100%!

 

Age discriminating is every bit as asinine and as as baseless as discrimination regarding race, orientation, etc.........talk about ignorance being bliss.............

 

Some of the later-in-life guys did not know about these desires before they suddenly landed on them like a ton of bricks and without any warning. Some did have the desires all along and had indulged in their youth - but upon getting involved with females and eventually getting married, they set those desires aside and in favor of her sensibilities and thinking that they were doing the right thing, only to find out that they weren't doing the right thing for themselves - and all they needed was an opening to slip through so that they could take care of their M/M desires and needs and, yeah, women will inevitably give such a guy that opening.

Back to the other guys. Sure, before they decided that they really needed to do something about these thoughts and feelings, they were freaked out because as we hear so much, they didn't like men, they weren't gay, all of the usual denial-based stuff and did I think it was weird that all of a sudden, they wanted to suck a guy's dick? Well, no; not only did I not think it was weird, but I also didn't see anything unusual about it at all and after a bit more conversation, he's finding out what I've always known: Sucking cock is damned good. Some found that busting a nut in my ass wasn't bad and neither was having me bust one in theirs. Or they decided that they had a guy in mind (usually their best bud) and thanks for letting them know that they weren't losing their minds.

So, now I gotta ask: What's your fascination with bi guys?

 

KD23:

Again, very well said.

I've often heard, regarding bisexual men, that they indeed experience "the best of both worlds".

Again, IF the situation arises, AND you are looking towards "fun" with a consenting ADULT partner, the HELL with with the godamn labels and bogoted bullshit and just follow your natural inclinations!

Deep-seated inhibitions also play a HUGE part in a lot of "straight" guys not giving into their long-dormant m/m desires until much later in life..........

 

It can be the best of both worlds if you're of a mind and determined to experience the best of both worlds. Deeply seated inhibitions is one thing but a lot of guys never figure out how to break the social conditioning programming they received until later in life which at that time, they also learn to ditch those inhibitions because you cannot experience the best of both worlds hanging on to those inhibitions.

Once a straight guy realizes that his thoughts and feelings aren't all that straight, it can cause some conflicts that must be resolved one way or another. Everything they believed in, everything they thought they knew, is now being called into question and it can be inhibiting unless/until they can fully process all of this and, again, one way or another. Ideally, he resolves the conflicts and goes on to find out what it's really like to have sex with a man or, yeah, he suppresses and rejects such behaviors and in favor of the way men are supposed to be and keep being stuck in one world. Which isn't really a bad thing, mind you and no more than just being gay is a bad thing.

But when you can be both? Hell, yeah... hell, yeah.