Bi Limits

Discussion in 'Bi Sex Discussions' started by topper, May 4, 2023.

  1. topper

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    Are your bi experiences just giving and getting blowjobs, or does it include fucking too?
    Do you have a regular friend to have fun with? I wouldn't trust anyone I didnt know already. According to my wife, I can do it , but be smart and be safe and let her know when she can watch..
    I can work with that.
     
  2. topper

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    So far, my newest buddy and I have only given each other oral. I never had the time for a full scale bi with him but it might go differently, this weekend. He coming down the marina to help me get my boat ready to go in the water. He has already said how he would like to feel my cock in his ass. I told him the feeling is mutual. I hope we get some work in.
    How close are you with your bi partners. anyone, anytime or a special friend?
     
  3. LowHangers

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    For almost twenty-five years I was just giving and getting oral sex. Many guys I'd been with suggested anal, but I was not interested. Then my present wife suggested I take my regular guys cock in my ass being she'd been pegging for some time. I was skeptical at first, his cock is pretty big. He wasn't into fucking guys either, but she brought it up during a threesome and to my surprise he agreed if I was up for it. After my first anal experience with him I wish I'd given in many years ago. I love feeling a warm, throbbing cock pounding deep into my ass. The feeling is wonderful. I should have known it would be enjoyable being my ex-wife loved being fucked in the ass. I finally crossed that line with my wife's encouragement and glad I did so.
     
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  4. Windman

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    I start with trading blowjobs and immediately loved that. The urge to have a cock in my ass started to take hold and after taking a dildo And liking it I decided to go for the real thing. It had the same affect on me, I liked it a lot. I found a regular that would fuck me occasionally and grew to like it more and more.
     
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  5. Jamie28London

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    When I was married and after we had our children, my wife was not interested in sex, turned out she was having plenty with a friend of mine from school. Not knowing this I was craving human affection, and sexual gratification. You can only satisfy yourself with masturbation to a point, until one day you need to try different things.

    I started out trying chatrooms, but found you could rarely find girls on there. There were always plenty of horny guys though. I chatted to some of these guys and they had the same frustrations as me. This moved on to Skype calls with random guys and we would wank together. Once you came that was it, you would probably never speak to them again.

    After spending months of seeing all those different cocks being pleasured by their respective owners, I began to wonder about wanking someone elses cock and vice versa. As we all know it feels so much better when someone else does it. Then of course my all time favourite is a blowjob. My wife never did them properly and it was seldom the case my cock went anywhere near her anyway.

    I then got the idea of what would it be like to suck someone elses cock. I knew how good a blowjob felt, would it be good to do that to another willing cock? One day after years of neglect and wondering I found a guy on the internet. He lived not far from where I worked and I arranged to meet him. He had very girthy cock and i struggled to fit it in my mouth but had a lot of fun with him.

    I kept going for a while being happy with just sucking cock, but after a while I relented on the no kissing rule I had. They started sucking me off. Then before I knew it, I was into poppers and giving and receiving anal with men. I even had a regular guy i met a few times. We started off meeting so i could just suck him off, once i was drunk on my way home from a party and i knocked on his door randomly and gave him a Christmas orgasm, which he loved. We had sex the next time i went around. He was gentle and good looking, had a great cock too.

    I suppose it just escalates. One minute you are a 100% straight guy wincing at gays kissing on TV, the next you are rimming a guy and sucking his cock and loving it. Why not too, we only live once and tomorrow isnt a promise. Enjoy it while we can
     
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  6. Well I'm curious

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    Just fantasy at the moment. I've always been maybe curious but not , into guys.

    I like ass play and happy for someone to tamper with my ass or try using toys alone.

    Couldn't blow a guy straight up first time but looking to suck cock.

    Thinking I could enjoy taking it up the ass but so long as he takes it easy. Not interested in kissing but could fuck another guy if I was hard, hell why not. For what it's worth if it comes to it I would return the favour and fuck a guy but keen to take it first
     
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  7. SantaCruzRob

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    I tend to give blow jobs more receive, and while I do greatly enjoy receiving anal I've only given anal to women. Seems to be a limit there I don't want to fuck a guy or kiss guys.:p
     
  8. Well I'm curious

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    I keep seeing a common trait here.
    Guys that blow guys or take it up the ass that are not so interested in fucking guys.

    I'm keen to try taking it up the ass to see if I like it. I've long wanted to experience this. First time I definitely want to be the reciever.

    Might not be a next time, who knows. I'm not against the idea of fucking another man of we were having sexual relations. Not my priority for now or first time but I feel it's fair to return the favour so we can both get it.

    I probably assumed that most gay men are versatile and fuck each other because the possibility is there. Just seemed natural to me to think you will do both because you can.

    I would hook up with a guy if it was easy. If someone is truly Bi it gives them options to explore both and enjoy both of opportunities present or there is an open relationship with like minded people.

    I fuck my wife in the ass on occassion for a bit of variety. I would do it more given the chance. I would experience a lot more things given the chance.

    While fuckong a man is not my first priority if that was on offer no strings attached I might take it while it's offered just to explore my sexuality and see how I feel. Not to dismiss his needs or assume he is submissive but if we both want mutual sex yeah, of give it a go if I was hard.
     
  9. ThoseBiUrges

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    Well said!
    If you told a younger me that one day I would perform oral on another man, I think you were crazy..Then if you told me I'd kiss a man, I'd pretty much have said "never"..The universe had other plans however..For my experience it was levels..Once I got comfortable on one level, a curiosity would arise about the next one after time..Its a lot to process especially liking women still the whole time, it can mess with your thinking, doubt yourself, question your sexuality..Now here I am curious about bottoming..Not quite ready, but if history is any indicator I'm smart enough this time to never say never because most likely I know down the road its going to end up with me bending over for another man..Once you get comfortable down the rabbit hole, you become curious about what lies deeper so you proceed..Just my experience but it seems a lot I've talked to faced a similar process
     
  10. CuteGuyInSoCal

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    My bisexual experience is sucking dick and getting fucked. If I can't go down on a man and if he's not going to top me we are not meeting. PERIODTTTT!!!

    Since Ive been married I have not had sex with a man. I miss it tho....this bi-cycle is a MOFO!!
    LoL
     
  11. thepapasmurph

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    My wife and I are no longer intimate. I have not had sex with any other women since we said "I do" almost 38 years ago, so that means I only look, and do not touch. It is much easier to engage in sex with men anyway - and that is enough for me. My sexual appetite is strong. I have a few buddies that I see - there are usually logistics involved, like finding the time and the place to meet. It's a challenge that I work hard to get what I want.
    As I look back on my sexual history, I find the game of engaging sexually with men is more to my liking. I like to be pursued. I am not good at all at the chase. That, alone, makes engaging with females more of a challenge for me. I've wondered if a woman began to pursue me sexually how I would respond at this point. I am much more comfortable responding to a male who indicates interest in me.
    What are my bi limits? Other participants' interests in me, I'd say.
     
  12. Suburbanray

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    Try Bumble? There, only women are allowed to make the first contact. So unless it's a scammer, you know the woman is at least interested and intrigued by you?
    If I ever try again, I want to go that route, as my wife was "never really attracted to me" :(
     
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  13. Ajr12002

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    At first it was was exchanging blowjobs. Than I kissed a guy or he kissed me. I have been fucked a few times. Love being fingered. Not interested in fucking a guy. Part of it is my cock has a slight curve in it. That’s where I am at.
     
  14. Well I'm curious

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    I like being fingered.

    It's not uncommon to have some curve in your cock. Wouldn't worry me. I'd have a look.
     
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  15. FriendlyCock

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    My Experiences were out of sheer frustration and were just confined to masturbating and sucking each other. That's how I want to continue with someone who wants sexual release and friendship as mates. No I haven't had a regular or occasional bi playmate fro 12 years or more. My wife knows and is OK with it.
     
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  16. amb5734

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    My experiences mostly wind up ending in me receiving anal. And, with me keeping to a trusted few in my circle I doubt that'll change. Only once so far this year have I sucked a guy off. I've even told my somewhat regular FB that I would love to suck him to completion at least once. But, he loves doing my ass. And, I love it, too. Yet, giving a few BJs would be fun.
     
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    It appears that we have a lot in common. Feel free to DM.
     
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  18. Piobaire

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    I really like giving head, there's nothing like the sensations of their cock filling my mouth and there's nothing like a blowjob orgasm that's so intense it feels like my head's going to explode. Having my partner cum anywhere besides my mouth somehow feels like a waste, so I largely confine my efforts to stroking and sucking cock.
    I don't currently have a FWB. Wish I did.
     
  19. Traveler386

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    I have limits because of what I’m supposed to be/want to be. I’m married and she’s not into sex with me and would not be ok if she knew what I like to do with guys. I wish I was the guy that had sex at home once a week but that hasn’t happened in years and I have a hard time being a cheater regardless of the situation. I did oral with a guy and I still struggle with that. When I was young and single I had a moral dilemma of me having sex with a man.
    If I were single now I would like to have a regular to meet up with on occasion where I wouldn’t have to have limits (catching anything). Sexually I don’t have a lot of limits. I’m not interested in dating but I’d bottom, swallow, kiss, frott…you name it I’ve probably thought about it. Here lately for some reason being spit roasted has become a fantasy of mine. I really like a cock being pushed down my throat. So yeah under the right circumstances I don’t have a lot of limits.
     
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    I don't like to receive oral sex from a top. At least not blow jobs. I'm not interested in affection. I absolutely love being a total bottom. I look forward to having a top/s again.
     
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