Bi Guys, what's your cock-sucking technique?

I'm hoping soon to have a bi-3sum or to meet a guy and wank and suck each other.
I've been told by a few women that my tongue is 'out of this world' but I reckon sucking a cock is different and requires a different technique from licking pussy or sucking a clitoris. ( When I say 'reckon' I mean I kind of 'know' but I've no experience to confirm my reckoning is accurate).

So, how do you guys like it to be done and what way do you give a BJ?

My cock-sucking-virginal-thought is that I would lick up and down his length and then all around his knob, focusing for short whiles on his frenulum, the underside of his knob. And I would suck on his head and massage it, kind of like sucking a boiled sugar sweet (Not sure what they're called in the US). I would lick his opening as if trying to put my tongue into his cock or, if he had a foreskin, I'd touch his opening with my tongue and pull his foreskin up over my tongue like pulling up a duvet I've no idea if a guy would enjoy that and I don't have a foreskin to be knowledgable about its sensitivity.

So, anything you can impart would be very good, the more detailed the better.

 

For guys who were looking to suck cock for the first time and they're asking me how to do it, I've told them, "Do it like you want it done to you..." and for a lot of guys, that worked - except for the guys who hadn't ever been sucked before, of course. I learned the skills and techniques but how I employ them... isn't set in stone and depends on how I feel - and other than being horny and starving to eat dick. It also depends on being able to find his buttons - those places on his cock that'll elicit a thrilling response - and they're not really in the same place as people tend to think. It also pays to listen to what he might say and in conjunction with what you're doing - don't do that, do that again, oh, yeah, right there; slow down, go faster/harder and just taking your cue from there as to how to suck him and entice him to cum.

Once you get a dick in your mouth, you'll figure it out.

 

Great, thanks, KDaddy.
Interesting that we're not all the same.
I thought we were all sensitive in the same places so what gets one guy off would get off another.
We all seem to wank similarly too, don't we?
Every guy I have watched having a wank does it pretty much the same way
I know some move quicker than others but it's the real similarity in technique that made me think we all have similar nerve endings in the same places.
I'll not have a difficulty in sucking. I expect that I'll work it out.
I wonder what I'll do when he shoots into my mouth. Will I gag? Will I not feel much? Will I recoil?
I can't actually envisage my sucking him but I want that experience because I want to feel him do it to me.
I'd like to experience every type of stimulation that I can think of, regardless of whether it's a woman or man doing it.
B

 

It's hard to imagine what feeling him cumming into your mouth is gonna feel like; most guys tend to gag for a moment before trying to swallow it - or they wind up spitting it out. Maybe a bit of a recoil even though a guy might let you know he's about to cum, you really can't anticipate when he actually does so you might be "taken by surprise," which tends to make some guys recoil. Sometimes, that very first spurt of cum can make you recoil - and depending on how much of his cock you have in your mouth when he cums - you might feel it and you might not. I think a lot of guys, when they know the guy they're sucking is going to cum, backs off until just the head is in their mouth and working that puppy over until homey give up his cum while others will take the guy as deep as they can so that when he cums, they don't taste it all that much: More taste buds toward the front of your tongue than the back of it.

I'm a cocksucking "purist" so when I say "cums in your mouth," that's exactly what I mean; I don't mean that he jerks off and tries to get the cum in your mouth and I definitely don't mean giving you a facial. I do mean you have your mouth all over that dick and definitely when he cums - and what you do with it after he's unloaded all of it into your mouth is up to you.

What does it feel like to be sucked by a guy? About the same as it does being sucked by a woman, to be honest. You see, guys seem to think that there's a difference when, actually, the only real difference is who's sucking you and their unique techniques and skill level but, yeah, we pay attention to who's doing it instead of paying attention to the fact that someone, male or female, is sucking your cock and you're about to pop your cork. Don't use watching porn as a guideline for this because not everyone, male or female, sucks cock like porn stars do. My advice on this one is to let the guy suck you the way he knows how to suck cock and do not presume that he wants to be face/throat fucked - it's best to ask him about that before the fact.

And, no, we're really not all the same despite all of us having the same equipment and, no, we all wank... but all of us don't do it the exact same way. We all have the nerve endings... but some are more sensitive than others, like, paying attention to my frenulum... doesn't do a thing for me but work your tongue along the left side of my knob and that's a whole different story. To me, that's the fun part of cocksucking - finding where his sensitive spots are and then... fucking with them without mercy.

 

I actually do find a difference between being sucked by a guy and a woman and that's mouth size. My cock is rather girthy and I've found blowjobs with men better as their mouths are typically physically bigger, not always the case but mostly I've found it to be a thing for me.

 

I would love to suck a cock, to see how it feels in my mouth.

 

KDaddy has provided some good advice. I agree with him. Sucking your first cock is a huge step to take so just take your time and enjoy the entire package, the head, the shaft, and by all means if he allows it suck on those balls too. He will let you know what feels good and what doesn't either verbally or with moans. Once I find what he likes I focus on it but still switch things up as he may enjoy a number of things I do to his cock with my mouth. When he begins to cum, I normally hold 1/2 of his cock in my mouth so there is room to enjoy the feeling of him spurting in my mouth as I swallow each spurt as it comes out. I keep hold of his cock as I normally am holding his ass cheeks to keep his cock in my mouth until he has finished cumming. I then slowly pull his shaft out as I suck tightly to ensure I milk ever drop of cum out of his cock. If he's not too sensitive, I prefer to keep sucking on him as he softens up as I also finish with a nice sucking of his balls. Just provide to him what it is that you enjoy having done to your cock and you'll be just fine. Most men once that first cock enters their mouth are natural cock suckers and know what to do.

 

LowHangers is so right: most men are natural born cocksuckers, though they do differ in skill. I agree with him and KDaddy in all they wrote. Great advice!

I have developed my own abilities in sucking that most beautiful thing in the universe, a cock. It is so true that every guy is a little different: so you do have to be very good at reading a guy's cues--words, sounds, and subtle body movements. But it takes time to learn the exact ways guys tell you that they like what you're doing: some of it is quite subtle. But if you're really there to give pleasure to this wonderful man who has given you the gift of his cock, then you will quickly learn.

Which brings me to my first additional piece of advice: really show him how much you adore his cock, how much joy you're experiencing sucking him. This is what we want from the women and men who suck our cocks, right? Really marvel at the beauty of his cock and all the parts of it. Do it with your eyes, and with your lips, kissing his cock softly and slowly all over. Eventually begin darting your tongue out from between your lips while kissing his penis, short little soft dabs with the tip of your tongue through your closed lips against the different parts of his cock. Don't rush things: go slowly and seductively. Begin making the licks longer and longer, in duration and distance. Eventually use your entire tongue to lick his entire cock, up and down, and around, adding in more lip action as well. Begin to pay more and more attention to his cockhead, swirling your tongue around it, kissing it, with wet kisses. Eventually bring your whole mouth slowly over top and then engulfing his cockhead. Begin to gently suck it, nice and slow and lovingly.

Eventually slide more and more of his shaft into your mouth, nice and wet and soft, and bring your mouth upwards again, slowly beginning to suck him. Interchange more licks and wet kisses all over, alternating between sucking and licking. If he indicates that he likes it, go faster and faster, power suck him. Most importantly, really believe that this is the most incredible thing you've ever had in your mouth, this man's cock. He will pick up on that, and love it to death.

Also once in a while go back up to his nipples and lick and suck them. Even while cocksucking if you could reach play with one of his nipples, or both of them with both hands. A lot of guys like that. Everyone loves touch, so use your hands to touch him all over his body, in between and while sucking his cock. The nerve endings along the largest organ of the human body, the skin, is very sensitive and open to pleasure. And of course don't neglect his balls: use your kisses, tongue, and entire mouth gently over and around them. But only do so if it looks like he enjoys it from his cues. And if both of you are into it, play with his ass cheeks while you're sucking him as well, and even touching his asshole opening, or fingering it. Put saliva on your finger tip and play with his anal opening, if he seems to like it, and if you like it.

As I've said, over time, with lots of practice, I've gotten better and better myself. No matter how big a guy's cock is (almost), I always move on to deepthroating his cock. I also use my tongue a huge amount while his cock is in my mouth, even when his cockhead is deep down my throat. I'm always moving my tongue all around his shaft while sucking and deepthroating his penis. I also use my throat muscles to massage his cockhead and shaft that's deep in my throat. Guys can feel that and go wild. I think I've been able to build up my tongue muscles through truly tonguefucking guys' assholes, because guys are constantly complimenting me on what I do to their cocks with my tongue. There is also a guy that I was with in a bathhouse last year who was able to do the same with his tongue and throat on my cock: it was arguably the best blowjob I've ever had.

But don't worry if you can't deepthroat a guy's cock for a while. It takes practice like everything, and knowing how to relax your throat and not be worried that he's going to choke you. That's what your nose is for, to breathe through. And don't worry about your gag reflex: eventually it will decrease. Besides, guys seem to get turned on when you gag, I think kind of being so grateful to you willing to do that for them, despite your discomfort. Everyone wants to be loved, with the true definition of love being wishing the other person to be happy. Being there to make him happy is your job in life.

And then it's his turn to make you happy.

 

You just described how I work just about every man myself when providing a fantastic blowjob for 30-40 minutes. Tongue and lip action are the key to providing the greatest oral on a cock which provides me that warm delicious cum load at the end. I'll continue on with those who are able to endure which really blows their mind as after another 10 minutes they shout out they are going to cum again.

 

I usually like to alternate between short and long strokes, occassionally stopping and holding his entire cock in my mouth, head in my throat while I move my tongue around to message his cock. Then I'll pull back to work his cock head with my tongue. My regular FB is usually rimming me while I'm doing this. Very hot. With a larger cock I can't do it as well, but I still manage to get some blissful moans.

 

You can’t go wrong keeping it simple at first either. I mean a warm wet mouth bobbing up and down his cock while providing a little suction, you wet lip passing over the ridge of his head repeatedly. As mentioned above a little tongue action, you can swirl your tongue around the circumference of his cock head as you just have it in your mouth. You will be surprised at the instinct you probably have for it already.

 

I usually concentrate on the head going in and out of my lips, while stroking the shaft. Every once in a while I will slide all the down on it, deep throating it. That usually gets a reaction. Cupping the balls and using my knuckle to put pressure on his prostate as I suck and stroke, brings him to a strong climax with a satisfied smile.

 

Thanks for the tips friends ! It’s looking like this week I’ll have my first pleasurable meeting with a very friendly guy. Same age (74), 45 minutes away, he’s more experienced ( 4 orals to my none), and both eager to see where it goes! I want him to hold back as long as he can so he explodes in my mouth and I’ll suck and swallow every last drop. I don’t want any warning…….just cum as much as you can! I’ve been sucked on so many times and hope I can do just as good as I’ve had. If we go further ( hope hope hope ), he can bareback my virgin bottom until he runs out of steam! I want to make my first time his best ever! So true that everybody wants to be loved. My new friends wife decided years back that she doesn’t like sex anymore. He’s only had minimal sexual contacts since and I love the thought of ending his drought. I’m going to make it his best BJ ever. Thanks again guys….I’ll let you know how it turns out!

 

Sucking cock is a creative form of art and self expression..Everyone starts with the fundamentals, then add their subtle own moves, twists, tendencies, go-to's, and when they are all flowing in harmony it's like you are performing a symphony on that big beautiful dick..Any true cock sucker knows that moment of bliss and euphoric adrenaline when you are in your zone..You have no idea how many times your head is going to bob up and down without coming up for air, how many times you're going to twist your neck back and forth while engulfing it, when your tongue will come out to lick it, you just go into autopilot and its the most amazing feeling when those primal
cock sucking instincts take over
Those of us who love sucking cock see every opportunity on our knees as a chance to showcase our oral skills

 

Hawk tuah…spit on that thang.

 

You ask me how I suck cock and... I look at you like I don't understand the question because... I suck cock. Well-versed in the fundamentals, can deep throat, but it's mostly going with how I'm feeling, being in the moment and getting in the zone. Do I always suck his balls? Nope and I don't always play with his ass while I'm sucking him... but I might do one or the other... or both, depending again on how I'm feeling and how he's responding to what I'm doing. I've read a lot of "how-to" stuff about cocksucking written by gay men and women - and it only proves that men do know as much about sucking cock as women do and, oh, yeah - you don't have to be gay to suck cock.

Learn the fundamentals like being able to keep your teeth out of the action and figure out if you can fuck with your gag reflex and get away with it... or find that you wish you hadn't tested the waters. "Acquire the taste" and ability to swallow cum - I've found that guys tend to remember the guy who swallows over the guy who doesn't. Find your own groove and what it means to be in the moment or in the zone. And practice, practice, practice every damned chance you get!

Technique is all well and good but if you don't have the desire to suck cock, well, you might want to work on that because I don't know about anyone else, but I can't stand someone who "phones in" a blowjob r someone who shows no desire or passion for doing it and like it's a chore or an obligation.

You don't want to be that guy.

 

Yeah, no, we're not all sensitive in the same places and what works on one guy may or may not work on the next guy... or the same guy at another time. No, we all don't wank similarly although, on the surface, it may look like it - but I've seen guys pull their pud in a way that, um, I might not want to try it and some guys use the "reverse grip" to wank but what's different and can't usually be seen is how he's using his fingers to change the pressure on his cock or even the positioning of his hand from beginning to end can be different. Of course, to see some of these differences, you'd have to get your face all up in there to see exactly what he's doing and if you're that close, you might as well go ahead and suck his cock.

It's not all that different from sucking on a woman's clit and having to find out where her buttons are so you can attack the shit out of them although, many, many decades ago, I learned something about sucking cock/eating pussy: If they're right handed, the left side of the dick/clit will be the most sensitive areas and opposite is true if they're left-handed. I thought this sounded crazy... until I tried it (on my sister, who was left-handed) and holy shit - it actually worked! Tried it on a right-handed male friend and I'll be damned if it didn't work again!

Just my thirty cents worth but a lot of the fun in sucking cock is to find out where his buttons are so you can work them over until he gives up his cum...

 

Everyone, both men and women have their own technic for sucking a man's cock. Like anything else in life, the more you do it the better you become at it. I can say this, every man I've ever sucked I did so with great enthusiasm, and he not only saw it, but he also felt it as well. If you're going to do something, do it well or don't even bother. I've had my share of lame blowjobs from women because they were wanting fucked and simply lost their opportunity to make a great impression up me. Men will always return to those who suck their cock with enthusiasm so always give it your all.

 

I serve from my knees with enthusiasm EVERY time! I'm there because I want to be there..Thankful for the opportunity..That cock gets 100% of my focus, attention, and nothing else matters at that moment..I worship and show my gratitude by channelling all of my energy into sucking that dick..Its my happy place

 

I have different techniques but what I start with when I get his dick in my hand is 'what would I like if he was sucking me?'. I will do what I think I would want in the situation. Sometimes it means just going down and bobbing away furiously until he cums. Or it could be a gentle kiss on the tip, licking the shaft, caressing his balls, stroking his ass.
Once I find out what he likes from his sounds or words I follow that track, change pace but follow his signs. And when I feel his cock head start to swell or when he says he's going to cum I make sure to seal my lips around his shaft and give him plenty of room to swell and throb in my mouth. If he wants to cum on my face I hold his shaft at the base and lick under his cock head from as far as my tongue can reach.
Try it. You can get great at blowjobs if you just start doing it with a couple guys that give good feedback. And if you love doing it you're probably going to learn fast.