"How will I know when I have found the right kinda girl? That is the universal question for girls and guys.
I wish I could answer that decisively. There's probably a lot of trial and error on your part needed. Make a mental note of musts and preferences. Anyone who fits within that, give them a shot. Don't be too hung up on the preferences, but don't compromise on the musts. I guess that's a start.
I have little interest in straight porn anymore, maybe unless it's something more extreme like a gangbang.
Mostly prefer opposite sex here. Nothing more beautiful and erotic on the planet than the female body. Can't say I'm attracted to men per se, but occasionally a shiny hard cock and warm cum load really turn me on.
I find women sexy I’m really don’t find men attractive but the older I get the more I enjoy sex with men and have become much more adventurous with them. I had sucked dick for forty years before I got into anal sex or making out with men.
My girlfriend is bi. It bother me at first but no longer. In fact her and her three friend will do a weekend together. After that weekend the sex and conversation is great.. she tells me who is into what. We have experienced threesomes with both males and female and she prefers females. As I do i. When we do ffm she will not let me cum in the other woman. I must admit I have slipped a few times. She is not into cream pies with other women with my cum.
I definitely lean towards men to the point that in the last couple years I consider myself gay. I do have a limited form of sex with my wife (I don't do anything with her breasts or pussy) and I do find women attractive overall, but I have zero interest in pussy anymore. I see a picture of a naked woman and she just looks incomplete without a cock. A few years back I wasn't interested in kissing or cuddling a man but now I would love to do it. If my wife and I were to split up tomorrow I would definitely be dating just men
Not me . There was a few time when cock was present in threesomes and glory holes. I was fucking this women in a swingers session and another guy came over and got between her legs. As my cock pop out he took in his mouth and it just felt weird. Another time about 6 of us went to this place that glory holes . The 3 women we were with went right for the cocks hanging out of the holes. Me and the other two guys jerked this one guy off .nothing there for me. My friend on the other hand loves tranny . He loves the idea of seeing these guy girls with tits,a pretty face and a cock. He does not do it often but loves sucking and getting fucked by this person . I say to each is own. Does your wife know you prefer cock noe??
My wife and I are both bi.....We have sex together on a regular bases but we both venture out for the same sex also! It all started after 20 years of marriage and four kids well there not kids any more! Unable to keep it a secrete our kids know of our sex life style and one of our daughters has followed her mom's footsteps for she is bi also and married!
I have no problem with my girlfriend being bi. I am ok with threesomes with another guy . We have only done a few with guys but I am just not into it. I am glad it works for both of you
Love both and they both give different things. I love the sensuality of being with a woman and being grabbed by a strong guy so he can throw me around.
Slandly it only works if both are in to it! Maybe in time! Crazy as it sounds I used to be insane with jealousy at one point with my wife when a guy would just look at her I would get mad at my wife some where that changed.why! I don't know! If your not in to it ....it just won't work that's for sure! Maybe in time! Maybe if you just let your wife have a lover and not be with her when it happens! Then maybe it's just not to be!
She knows I am pretty much gay and looking for a gay lover. I ass fuck her but encourage her to get a boyfriend so I can stop fucking her. She also wants to mess around with women.
Why don't you guys find a bi lover. This would serve two purposes. My friend this with his wife who was bi. Some night the three met and focus is on her so he barely watches. Other night it is on him . All three go at it but he always finishes with the third . Sometimes the girls go away for the weekend with a couple of other bi women and they get their shopping and sex done that weekend. And sometimes he goes just with the girlfriend when the wife is not into to it They love the lifestyle.. I am talking about people in their late 50's too. So this is not a quick fling. I seen the women that the wife and girlfriend go away with over their weekend. All beautiful , professional and classy women. Try that for a while useless you need a variety of cocks
Bi lover is also something we want to do. Just see so many big guys are just into blow and go and no intimacy. I want the intimacy with another man. But yes, finding a bi guy who would be intimate with both of us would be great. If he happened to have a bi girlfriend or wife that would be a bonus (although I wouldn't have as much to offer her unless she is a big fan of anal)