I’m married for a long time and not much of a sex life at all. I’m bi but it’s not something I want a lot but when sex with a guy is on my mind it’s fairly strong. I’ve been noticing when I am in my “bi mode” I’m kinda distant with my wife and I don’t even try having sex with her. Just wondering if anyone else has something like that happen.
I’m bi and my sex live with my current girlfriend is good but not incredible.My frequency of sex when I would have sex with men was always greater and much more intense .With men it was every time I seen the person and almost always involved multiple pops (I was always the bottom )So I guess I crave being fucked more then doing the fucking
I'm in the same situation but find myself in a holding pattern lately. I'm just not interested in having sex with anyone. The wife and I have been sexless for quite sometime. I have a couple of FBs but just haven't had any desire and I've had numorus chances to hook up. When I've had sex with men it's much more satisfying and intense than with a woman. I'm always a bottom and love being fucked. I guess I'm just in a funk at this moment in time. The virus hasn't helped. I do know when I'm in the mood the desire is hard to ignore. I sometimes feel it's guilt that causes me to be distant when I'm in Bi mode as you put it. If the wife ever found out she'd divorce me in a heart beat. I do love her and depend on her so I'm very discrete and that's not easy to live with.
I wasn't bi when I got married although I often masturbated it wasn't until my wife caught me mastkurbating after 20 year of being married that she asked me if i ever had a man and I said no then she said why don't you! A week later I had my first encounter with a man! Since then I have sex with my wife and with men! I love both! I enjoy sex with my wife but i also love sex with men. There are times I have a threesome with my wife we both make love to the guy! My wife enjoys watching me and her lover make love! It's a awesome arrangement!....
My wife is the one who initiated things. She had teased me for years about trying it with her/our gay friend. My wife had witnessed our friend giving and getting a bj with his former partner and told me how much it turned her on and she thought it would be a good way for some fun, for both of us. She couldn't have sex anymore, but she could enjoy watching and encourged me to"experiment". She wouldn't let me have sex with other women, but mutal fun with him was OK with her. I finally caved and told her I would try it. She wanted to watch the next time and even told him. He had no objections and I agreed. After he gave me a great bj, it was her idea for me to try it. It was one of the most thrilling experiences in our lives. Without her encouragement, I doubt I would have done it.
I much prefer jacking off, thinking about men, than fucking my wife. Actually, I amend that statement. I'd much prefer to be fucking a man than my wife.
I never turn down my wife when she's in the mood. However if I'm in the mood and she isnt, I call up my buddy once she's asleep and go over to have fun
Wow it was the same here. It was her idea and I went for it..................giving my first bj..........plus she watched me as I sucked my first cock!
Giving and receiving my first blow job was at the suggestion and direction of my then girlfriend. She was a bit of a freak sexually. She asked if I had done anything with friends when I was younger, i told her I hadn't but I thought about it. She was going to push me in this direction anyway. The only times I had sexual contact with other guys, she set it up and directed the action, after we had satisfied her. Later when I was married my wife and I had MMF threesomes while dating so she was good with my bi activities, but again I only did this with her right there. She called me 'situationally bisexual', only when she found us a guy we could agree on.
Menopause totally killed what was happy, kinky sex between my wife and I. She knew of my cock craving early in our relationship and encouraged it. We don't even speak about sex now and I think if I told her I like cock it would make the situation worse. This being said, my masturbation has gotten creative and we sleep in separate bedrooms. Roommates She knows I jerkoff and I've asked her to join be theres no interest. Good thing we have porn to relieve ourselves guys.
I think every married couple go trough that, some fine love some where else for a while but they always get to gather again but they both have to agree with it....or other wise they might slit for good... depends how strong they really love each other!
You just needed a little help..............like I did! Love to chat with you about your experiences...I'll share mine with you!
I have sex with our male partner far more than I have sex with my wife. My wife and I still have sex once a week or every other week but I have sex with him on average twice a week. I crave and need cock more than I need pussy. My wife and his wife both know our sex drive is far higher than either of theirs and they actually encourage he and I to have all the sex we want with each other.
Yes he is, he and I have been regularly sucking each other off at least twice a week for the past ten years and over the past 12 months he's fucked me in the ass at least 60 times.
