^ That is just it, Asmo...I had a mom that would never take no for an answer and pushed herself on me and in all of my relationships, always.....I resented it always......It was her way or the highway....andI yelled at her the last day of her life for pushing me and blame myself on her death, because I really lost it, and may have broken her heart that very last time with my words. i was never that mean about it. I had had it, so i certainly will never tolerate another female ever doing that to me again, EVER...if I did not even take it from my own mom, who I miss and love so much, I certainly will not put up with it from anyone else.. I wish she was here still. I know how better to deal with it now, without losng it with her, but too late.....of course....
Just so you all know, i did find the male equivalent of this he he he, but not sure if its against forum rules