Where do one meet another bisexual as either friends or lovers? Some people don’t do the bar scene while others stay away from the online dating scene. With this pandemic still among us, where can a bisexual or bicurious person meet other like minded people?
I'm in the same boat. I grew out of the clubbing, pool hall, bar scene years ago. I don't even drink anymore...so nightlife isn't an option. You can either get involved in the LBGTQ+ lifestyle and go out and meet people or try one of the dating apps. I have a profile on Grindr...which is a gay hookup app. There's plenty of Bi guys on there as well. I have better luck by just sitting back and waiting to see who contacts me. If I see someone who interests me...I respond back and it goes from there. Good luck!
I follow squirt.org and doublelist.com. Limited activity during the pandemic. Hoping things will pick up now that I have had my second vaccination. Maybe meet some guys my age who have been vaccinated.
I've been on Silver Daddies for some time. It was only recently I made my profile public with a few pics to show what I have to offer. I was surprised by the number of responses I've received. The only problem is nobody can host and are limited to weekdays. There's one older guy I have been able to meet up at his place several times, but again it's daytime and only when I can get some time from work. It has to be fairly quick, but it's still satisfying.
I use Squirt.org for hook ups. A lot of the men on there are Bi and looking for fun with another Bi men.They are mostly married men looking for other men to have sex with.
The old fashioned way was to strike up a conversation, and guide it in a certain direction, gently. I wasn't good at it, my wife should have written a book. Now it's the internet.
I have used Silverdaddies with some luck also. There are lots of flakes though and its tough to find a match since what I’m looking for is a regular fwb. It would be much more fun to meet someone in a public place, strike up a conversation and have it lead to sex. Has anyone had much luck with this?
Double list seems pretty good, although I’ve been seeing the same 3 or 4 guys putting in multiple posts per day. ( in my area) Several that were hopeful from Doublelist got cold feet. All hot and heavy... I bent over backwards to accommodate, even a very casual meeting, and they all still chickened out. Frustrating. And then you see them again, a few days later looking. I never would have thought it would be this difficult to find a married, bi-curious guy. Still hopeful though. Sooner or later I’ll have to stumble across someone...
Hey Kyandi, have you been able to meet anyone? I saw this site bicupid, but dont know if its worth it. Ive used tagged and match, but havent had much luck.
I met a guy off grindr and that went pretty well. I’m on doublelist which always seems promising but never any luck. It seems like most on DL are quick hookups...kinda weird stuff
If you are just looking for a fast (and probably fleeting) hook-up, yeah, maybe the internet. But if you are looking to select for someone based on chemistry and communication skills, taking advantage of 100,000 years of face-to-face communication in human evolution is the way to go. Trouble is, with the advent of internet and texting, so many people have lost their ability to effectively relate to others in real life, both verbally and non-verbally. For all the bi and bi curious men who want something satisfying, I always recommend working on your verbal and non-verbal communication skills while you are out in real life doing activities you enjoy. For example, I have met some great lovers at beautiful outdoor settings. I like to go out and camp and hike and swim, and over time I have developed a knack for recognizing men who are open to being sensual with other men. With a good communicator, you can set appropriate boundaries, stay safe, and have fun.
Sexually speaking, I like large breasted blonde women and small breasted brunette women about equal. Yet somehow, all of my LTRs have been with small breasted brunettes. Go figure.
