usually I read every post on a thread before posting one of my own, but there are so damn many on this thread. I would agree that the best thing is not to do it in the first place. I think always or almost always someone doesn't really want to die, they just want to escape from the pain in their lives. Seeing a therapist, psychiatrist, other health professional seems like a better option. One thing to consider is that suicide attempts often fail. People often survive to realize that they really didn't want to die, but are stuck with a serious disability from their attempt. I can't bring myself to recommend a method, but think about this. here are some links to some suicide hotlines, etc. I don't know if you were really determined to go through with this, if they would tell you the best method. So I think they would probably try really hard to talk you out of it, but if you said that you were going to do it anyway, they could probably tell you the method that would be least likely to mess you up if it failed. www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ 1-800-273 TALK www.samaritanshope.org/ I don't know much about these orgs, but the top one claims to have federal funding. I've heard of samaritans before but don't know much more.
Hey there para4life, I'm sorry to hear about what happened to you. If you had suicidal thoughts before your accident, maybe you could get treated for depression now. If you are not seeing a therapist now, a bet that would be something you would like to do. What you are goind through now sounds really intense. Talking this through with someone might help. I understand about not wanting to feel like a draw on society, but seriously, it sounds to me like life has been so unfair to you, that you are living with so much hardship that a government disability check seems entirely proper. It's good to think about others, but I think some people put other people's needs way to far ahead of their own. Sounds like you may be one of those people. Please, if there is anything that is going to make your life any easier/ happier, please do it! So I don't know if there is really such a thing as enlightenment, but I'm told that if you achieve enlightenment, you realize that all sentient beings are as one. So if that's really true, then one of the best things you can do for the universal good is to help yourself! So I don't mean to be rude, but I need to be a little explicit to get this point across. As far as the making love part, it's possible to have an enjoyable sexual experience without necessarily having an orgasm. If you still have control of your mouth and tounge, performing oral sex on a woman might be an option. Lots of guys love doing this. I don't know if there are dating web sites for disabled people, but something like that might be out there. Honestly, there acutally are some women who are not superficial and who can love someone for the person that they are. And beyond that, there are lots of women who just love getting oral. You might even try the oral sex forum or personals forums. I don't know if this is available where you live, but in some places sexual suragacy is available for people with disabilities. I think it's basically prostitution, but with a theraputic approach, and completely legal. Even beyond the oral sex issue, sexual satisfaction is something that is ultimately experienced in the mind/brain, and you seem to be functioning just fine in that department. Having a woman lie naked with you, embracing and kissing you could be really satisfying even if you don't have an orgasm. Even casual flirtation can be just as fun as it ever was. Hmmm. . . having some girls send you some racey pics of themselves or talking dirty could be fun. Again, sorry if I am getting explicit, but I hope this helps. Back on the enlightenment subject, I'm told that a lot of people who say they achieve this say that they had some really negative experiences that preceded it. And I'm told that this is the ultimate experience that a person can have, disabled or not. Maybe get into some meditation? Also, you may want to check out some energy healing like reiki or other styles. I'm not saying that it would cure paralysis, but it might be enjoyable and help restore some sensation or function. Acupuncure might be something to look into too, and especially good for the pain. with your permission, I would like to start a thread on the love and sex forum asking "can a paralyzed man still have an enjoyable sex life?"
I would tie the guitar string around my neck. superglue my hands to my head and jump off something highenough where it would slice my head off but not destroy my body from the fall. the final results, looks like you pulled your own head off. haha sorry im bakkeedd. i would never kill myself tho
Don't you think killing is a little extreem? You could just send me back 120 years to fuck your grandma. . .
Glue your hands to the side of your head. Set up some really thin wire in a noose on top of a building, with 7 feet or so of slack. Jump. The wire will cut your head off, and anyone who sees your body will think you pulled your own head off! So metal
Yeah if someone was going to kill themselves then instead of doing that they should just join the armed forces. Like become a marine or something hardcore like navy seal or green beret. that way your not really killing yourself your just not afraid to die. And hey your doing America good. In this day and age with technology an evil group could easily take over and mess us all up. Global killing, global slavery, global control. I'll keep that whole debate for another thread though. So yes America keeps those evil world domination groups in check
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tpjM7xc7SXw&feature=related"]YouTube - Kill the hippy! Secret Woodstock footage!
-razor wire noose -glue my hands to the sides of my head -jump off a stool =one fucked up scene to find i heard something like this years ago, so i messed around with the idea and made it better and now it is how i'd go out. never would but if i was at that point i'd hope i'd still have the black humor to commit to this idea, i'd be remembered
Don't do it, nor would I, but a fun way do everything risk taking and fun you've always wanted to and you just be dead by the end of it