best and worst about men

Sounds to me like he fears you're going to completely feminize the entire house. It begins with painting, next it will be flower sheets and curtains everywhere.

You can tell him that plain white walls remind you of an ugly, uncomfortable, insane asylum, and its causing you to lose your sanity and his safety might be at stake LOL. If he still holds his ground just do it anyway while he's away and he may adapt to the change later.

 

Can you explain?

 

I find there's a lot left out. Maybe I just don't read well between the lines?! I'm generally upfront and honest. If I like a guy or if I have an issue with him, I'll come out and say it. I don't find guys are the same. I don't like trying to decipher his language or his actions. Reading text messages out to my friends in the hope that they'll perhaps undersand what he wants isn't cool. Nor is thinking he's pegged it for good and then receiving a text message or a call a month later, or one even months later telling you that you're the best he's ever had. Fickle!

I've also come across so many men who will literally say anything to get a girl into bed. So when he's telling you how beautiful you are and how he loves being with you, does he actually love being with you or does he just want you to take your knickers off?

That's bloody true! Haha, I do actually recognise that my problem (if you can call it that) most probably lies with me. Boo

 

Ha-ha!

Sometimes they ruin each other... it is sad...

Love - I love having someone taller, stronger than me, holding me. It's so safe and warm. Crazy, wild, hot, random sex is good too... haven't had it in awhile though damn the necessity to be quiet out of courtesy!

Hate - When they are just so big that I can't take it!... oh wait, that's under the good too I love my men, what can I say?

 

mmhmm I agree. My ex worked for a renovation company, i used to love when he came home after work all hot and sweaty, I loved what a great body he had from having a physically active job..yum yum.

I always find myself checking out construction workers. so hot oh my god and this sexy bearded hippie that has been doing road work near my house..I pass him every day when I drive to work, we always make eye contact and smile at each other. he makes my mornings

I love how men that do manual labor have really rough hands. thats so sexy

 

Masculinity is the best. I love a strong man who can support me when I need it and I can be nurturing and sensitive when he needs it.

The worst? Insecurity.

 

a bigger guy who looks like he could protect you, but has the heart of a teddy bear
wanting to help me around the house with any kind of indoor or outdoor work,
trusting my judgement and not putting me down,
being a caring parent,
talking to me sweetly and sexy throughout the day,
wanting to do anything to please me in bed (or out)
always thinking of me first,
being an exceptional cuddler who is hands on all the time!

Not being any of the above would be the turn offs for me.

 

^ooohh. this. my boyfriend is just like this most of the time. hes mine though

 

I was describing my husband, above.

I am a super lucky girl...everything I could ever ask for and more!

oh...how could I forget one of the most important? Makes me laugh, daily, sometimes so much that I pee my pants!!!! That was why I married him (smacks myself in the head!)

 

That's wonderful. If you can't laugh then marriage would probably get boring fast. haha.

 

The best and worst about men is women, isn't it.

 

So true. Men are at their worst without a woman, and we turn them into the best man they can be when they are with us! That's what you meant, right? LOL

 

Yup

 

That statement hits all single men pretty hard...

 

I told you, I am all good all the time. With or without my wife

 

The question is in relationship to women. I don't think single applies to the dynamic in question. I agree with jo king that some other person should not be your measure. I think relationships work well that involve two or more complete people sharing their lives. It does not work as well, two incomplete people trying to find wholeness in each other.

 

The Best: They are super fun to hang out with and they have a penis, which is fun to play with

The Worst: The need to prove they are 'manly', insecurity and jealousy

 

Perfectly said!

 

I agree.

 

Not a fan of men right now. I wonder if that will ever change.