It’s a normal part of play for me and my wife. I love doing it with guys on Snapchat too but hard to find someone to click with
I agree. To be honest. I still feel awkward afterwards sometimes. It's taboo to me. At the end of the day. We both had fun.
Let me reword that a little. It came off the wrong way. What I meant by being awkward afterwards. My wife is the 1st person I have ever done it in front of. She enjoys it. I enjoy it. And we're both happy about it.
I like watching and I don't mind being watched. I sometimes get my friend off after a massage by rubbing her clit and gently playing with her ass. She gets off watching me watch her. Sometimes we masturbate together although she takes forever like that.
I've made quite a few tributes where on request I'll masturbate to orgasm while taking a video of my penis and hand. I'll then usually cum on a picture I was requested to tribute, usually someone's GF or very often girls and women who desire to be tributed. Knowing they are watching it or will later watch it can be -intensely- arousing, especially if they are very attractive girls or women.
I had a fun experience recently, hooked up with someone new. Ended up with him kneeling over me, pumping his cock while he spread my pussy slightly to get a good look, then I fiddled with my clit with one finger while playing my nipples with the other hand until we both came. It was a massive turn on
Yeah I was quite amazed, my very first one I made was on an impulse, and the girl I chose fortunately went completly crazy about it, she couldn't get enough of the fact that I did something like that over her picture. After that there were quite a few others, I was astounded by how many girls and women absolutely hunger to have a picture of themselves cum on while watching via a video clip I'll make while doing it. There are entire Reddit threads dedicated JUST to girls and women requesting tributes and offering pictures for a semen shower...!
I wish it was like that for me tbh but my wife has what she calls "Catholic guilt" and feels too embarrassed unless she's already fully fired up. File under 'goals'
Maybe I should try that with her. She won't watch porn but she'll diddle herself for an hour without cumming. I get sore sometimes although I love watching her. We're both naked so there's plenty to see. Sometimes she feels bad and just sucks me off but every once in a while she'll let out a little squeak and then all of a sudden, she's climaxing. I LOVE that but neither one of us can quite figure out the secret that puts her over. It is fun though...I LOVE to watch.
Have you tried incorporating a vibe? That might speed things up. Or sometimes if I just can’t get off with fingers a little oral sorts me out
We tried but she likes slippery fingers. It's still all fun. I love watching her do herself but sometimes I just get sore. Good thought though...