Has your spouse ever told you to go and masturbate when she isn't in the mood? My wife has gone as far as buying me toys to use on myself. Now, when I tell her that I am in the mood to fool around, she tells me to go fuck myself. I will only do it, if she picks the toy for me to use.
My wife turns me down for sex regularly. She doesn't mind if I take care of things myself but expects me to do her whenever she's in the mood.
Lol I can't lie having read some of these posts I have to admit I have done the same, oops! I guess sometimes we are just not up for it as much as you guys are, which seems like always. Sometimes I do feel bad for my partner though.
It's called a happy medium. Trust me, if you turn down your husband is such a way that he feels neglected or belittled....one of two things will happen. 1) Divorce 2) He cheats 3) Both That is a fact. If you don't believe it now, you will later when it happens. On one hand a man should have the simple understanding that as you age, especially after children, your wife is not going to want it as much as you. And you will get turned down. However, if this happens too often - he will feel rejected and resentful. As a woman, you must also have the simple understanding that your husbands needs are greater than yours. If you value the relationship and your husbands well being - then you need to have sex more than you want. Or get ready for everything to crash around you.
Before this topic goes too far to the psychological and divorce end of the spectrum yes she has told me to take care of it a few times. If she's totally not in the mood it doesn't bother her if I take care of it; which usually ends up in a little ball massaging from her. She understands that when a guy is in the mood he pretty much needs to release or else he ends up in a very grumpy mood haha
No. I’m quite fortunate really, when my wife doesn’t feel like it but I do, she usually just jerks me off.
We both masturbate when the other isn't in the mood. There's been times it was an entire week she wasn't feeling it. Did I fref rejected? No. Not everyone has the same sex drive. She has bought me pocket pussys and I have bought her vibrators for it. I like masturbating. Not a fan of pocket pussys though. I'd rather jack off in a lubed condom. Feels better and when I'm done I can throw it away with minimal clean up
Get this , my wife seldomly wants sex anymore , me on the other hand I can do it daily or couple a day , the clincher is that when I masturbate and take care of it myself ,she gets pissy almost jealous like cuz she wasn't involved , explain that one lol
Thats not an easy thing to deal with lol. Possibly introducing sex toys into the bedroom might get you all going again.
She knew I masturbated if she wasn't in the mood. I still wanted to include her in sharing my most intense orgasms,so I asked her to pick out toys for me to use. I used to thank her all the time for the Great Orgasms with her choice of toy. Im always thrilled when she tells me to take a big dildo and go fuck myself.
My wife hasnt said to go and masturbate because she knows if she doesnt want sex and i do that i will just masturbate right there and then. She is good with that. We masturbate together often.
