Being Friends With a Venusian...

May I ask why you feel so strongly about this?

I guess I feel strongly too. I don't do much of this stuff unless I'm farting around but then...

FIY, I much prefer genuine behavior in actual relationships. But superficial interaction is all a game. And a relatively predictable one.

 

First of all, even the way this dude talks would turn off most girls here. They'd be like "who let this freak out of California"

 

I just don't like anything about it, no other reason.

I think you are reading into my words a little too much, since I really don't give a fuck...something to write about I guess

I hate fake bullshit. I once tried to get to the bottom of why this dude acts the way he does, now I just don't bother anymore

 

I highly disapprove of this "art", but I don't want to judge too quickly as I'm not hip to the jargon and barely understand what's going on.

I've never had any problems meeting lovely girls without a premeditated strategy.

 

well yeah, i'm sure girls here would have no clue what he is even saying... but then he would slow down and speak english, say a couple douchey things, and they'd be all over him just like in cali

 

Oh, ok. So maybe we're on the same page. It's not like I'm chewing my nails over this shit either.

I don't like games either. But it's all the tension between conformity and integrity.

 

It's not so much premeditated as it is like...oh, ok. I've seen this happen before.

It's the same with guys. Give 'em a pound at the bar, whatever. Go through your gay jokes, your girl jokes, whatever.

It happens over and over again and you're like, huh, I guess the bimbo diva would react to this...

I would never play games with a woman I admire. But women I admire don't play games.

 

I just wonder why a person needs to try so hard to get approval from the opposite sex. For what reason, how many chicks are you trying to bag in one month one year.

Also it seems like everything he tries is to get a girl.

I never thought "I am going to start playing music because girls like musicians"

I just thought "playing music feels like it quenches a fire inside me...and if other people enjoy it, well thats great too"

 

Step it up! You're naive if you think this stuff doesn't work. It's a miltimillion dollar industry with members all around the world. If it doesn't work, why's the money vcoming in? Good promotion? Half of you guys never would know about this if i didn't post. It's calibration, I wouldn't use that routine on you, I know exactly how to blow you out of a set. I'm happy it pisses you off because it means it effects you and you actually think about it. I love that shit. I love, LOVE blasting people like you out of the water in field. I'm willing to oput my money where my mouth is. I'm no armchair seductionist.

 

My life doesn't revolve around just pickuing up girls. Don't know if that music remark was directed directly at me but, if it was that's a slap in the face. i do music because it fulfills me. because I enjoy it. But back to the subjecy, I dfollow the arts because i find it facinating. Being able to get anyone no questions asked. Intriguing. But I do have a life out of the community. I NEVER let the arts define my character. i can turn it on and turn it off at will.

 

Why do you need it to work?

I'm glad you threw the multimillion dollar industry part in there too.

why do you act like we are in competition? Don't worry, I am not playing the same game

don't need to or want to dedicate all this time into it

 

I know that's the party line, but I still think there's a difference between playing out established scenarios in a social setting and taking Hyphy's approach. it's like a sociology project, far too clinical for my taste. "if I do this, this will happen" etc etc.

 

I think you're reducing Hyphy to one thing. I'm sure he has other vocations, but he's trying to make money with his seminars.

You and I may go another route, but what of it?

The working hard thing is also a misconception. It must be ridiculously easy for him.

Granted, it all depends on the audience. I don't think pick-up stuff actually works with everyone. Just your bimbos.

Not exactly my favorites, but with them there is just no other way. That is firmly what my experience confirms.

I'm sure Hyphy would disagree, but that's what I think.

 

I'm not but, the way you speak about the community it feels like you're calling us a bunch of sleazeball losers. It goes further and deeper than just picking up chicks. I've met alot of good men that follow the method. I've made life long friendships. We're not bad people by any means

 

It's too clinical for my taste too.

What happens to me, though, is that this stuff comes to me. I don't even know much of it, never used canned stuff, and yet it comes to me while a superficial interaction is happening.

Like remembering a joke.

Even then I don't use it unless I'm being fictitious. Which tends to happen when I'm drunk and then blaw, another phone number or something else stupid.

 

I actually had not put that part together till now.

Makes a little more sense now
I hope there is more to the one we know as Hyphy. He doesn't show much else online I guess

 

An enigma wrapped in a mystery. I'm deeper than this, it's just PUA shit and music are a big part of my life at this point in time.

 

I think it is central to his life right now. I don't want to speak for him, but I think he's fascinated by the predictability of superficial interaction.

And so am I.

People make the same complaint about behaviorists, psychologists, and sociologists...it's like the take all the aura of individual volition and mysticism out of social interaction.

 

I would think you were more of a mystery if I did not know you spend so much time studying the science of picking up chicks.

 

Hit the nail on the head. It's interesting as fuck. That and the fact my business partners are pressuring me to teach this stuff.