Being bisexual or gay in today's MAGA society.........

Well said.

A "bully" who has deep-seated insecurities and fears HAS to "bully" others, lest they discover what a major-league, yellow-livered WUSS he REALLY is inside.............nothing more than a COWARD trying to exert his empty bravado..............

 

Shit, some of the bullies I grew up around would rather kill you than to look at you. These were the guys who didn't need a bunch of punk-assed bitches hiding under his "skirt" - no, if a real bully had a beef with you, I hope you could run, fight, or both. I remember one such bully corning me in the locker room after gym and telling me that if I didn't suck his dick, he was going to kick my ass... and like I'd be scared to suck his dick. Made him cum inside of two minutes. He never bothered me again. We were talking one day, and he asked me what I would have done if he wanted to kick my ass and I said, "I would have had to kill you..." and he thought I was kidding until he looked into my eyes and saw that I wasn't.

"You're serious?" he asked.

"As a heart attack," I said then pulled his dick out and sucked him off in two minutes. Hard to be that much of a tough guy when you're getting your dick sucked and your balls drained. Would I have killed him if he started a fight?

You bet your ass I would have, and I had the disposition and skills to do it Too many of my gay friends were getting beaten up and hospitalized and one gang of bullies killed a guy believing that he was gay when, in truth, he was a special needs guys and they threw him into the deep end of the pool and left him to drown and die. So, yeah - get them before they get me...

 

KD23:

How, low, sickening, and vile............that just goes to show you just how fucking LOW a "bully" will sink to.......especially of he believes he is harming someone GAY.

Man, that is BEYOND fucking sad....thank God that wasn't you.

I could tell you stories about the near-continunal bullying I was subject to, in the 7th and 8th grades, especially.

It got to the point where I could not even go to the store without Mom or Dad, for fear of getting "jumped" by two or more punks.

WHY was I bullied?

As I am today, no outward "gay signs", outside of the fact I had no interest in girls (hell, I was smart enough to keep my "tastes" to myself (and was not into drugs, or smoking pot or rock, or wearing my hair long)

Took several years of therapy to help me get through all that fucking, destructive bullshit.

WHAT makes a "bully"?

IGNORANCE

LACK OF UNDERSTANDING

And a sick, sick drive to cover up whatever insecurities you might be hiding.......believe me, I know......when you get beaten up so often by more than one punk, it is small wonder that you develop ulcers at age 12, and suffer from brutal headaches......thankfully, I survived..........

 

See, that's why I studied judo and karate... well, one of the reasons I did. The strong will always prey upon the weak so... don't be weak. Bullies aren't born - they're made. By either overbearing fathers or a father who couldn't keep the bullies off of his own ass, so he gets his revenge on an aspect of society that punked him by turning his son(s) into bullies. Standing up to bullies might make them leave you alone but will almost always be seen as an invitation to fight. I could talk my way out of having to fight... but when I had to, well, think of Cobra Kai. Seventh grade started out bad but by the eighth, word was out: Don't mess with that little guy - he's no joke and he knows that Bruce Lee shit! I was like 4'11" and barely 130 lbs and one of those quiet kids... that no one wanted to fuck with and if they did, they did so at their own peril.

In high school, a bully decided to fuck with a gay friend of mine and learned that gay guys... are still guys. To this very day, that was the worst ass-kicking I'd ever seen someone get. He put that fool in the hospital and he was never seen again. They were going to expel my friend and lock him up for such a brutal beating but me and almost everyone who witnessed the whole thing go down all said that my friend didn't start it; he tried to avoid fighting but the bully pushed him into it and... had no idea that my friend was a Golden Gloves boxer.

He'd taken up boxing so he could protect himself against bullies.

 

When I was about 12 I TRIED Judo (or was it karate?) for several months; anyway, I was NOT even yellow belt material.....that I was TOTALLY inept is indeed an understatement.

And, when three or four guys jump you at the same time.....well. talk about them having an unfair advantage.

It was simply too many against ONE.

I was truly the poster boy for "the skinny kid with glasses"; NO WAY could I handled the gang of toughs I encountered all too often; thankfully, my family moved away from the area entirely when I was 14....our neighborhoodit was going downhill, anyway.

Thankfully, you had not only "street smarts" but also street FIGHTING abilities that MORE than served you well..................

 

The message here is: Do not let politics turn you into a victim and if you buy into their uneducated bullshit re sexuality, you're playing their game and being bullied and victimized by them when your efforts would be best served trying to figure out how to be the best bi- or homosexual you can be. Doesn't mean that you have to run around having the sex and like you've lost your mind although, ahem, the sex can be very damned good, but this is about the value you put on your life and not the value the haters want to put on it.

It always comes down to who are you gonna listen to? Yourself or all those motherfuckers out there who have no idea what it's like to (a) be you and (b) to be bi- or homosexual. Whatever you've been doing before the orange-haired chump took office is what you should keep doing and trying to improve on it if and when possible. This so-called MAGA society has nothing on the hate crime laden times of the 1950s (and even before then) and when you stood a very good chance of being murdered and all because you weren't heterosexual. At some point, you have to ask yourself what you're really afraid of and then teach yourself not to be afraid; otherwise, you are going to wind up living your life always looking over your shoulder or being too fearful to set foot out of your closet... and because of some political shit that shouldn't be happening.

 

KD23:

Once again, VERY well said.

When it comes right down to it (IMHO) our sexuality is secondary; it is the kind of MEN we are......by this I mean it is our humility, decency, honesty, and our willing to reach out to others less fortunate that truly hallmark WHO we are.

Am I proud to be a homosexual man?

No more than I would be proud of being either a bisexual man, or a heterosexual man.

Meaning, that while my sexuality is a HUGE part of WHO I am, it is my positive inner qualities that are first and foremost, at least to me................

 

Thought...........

You ARE WHAT you ARE.

NO ONE chooses their SEXUALITY (contrary to what narrow-minded bigots believe)

Be TRUE to YOURSELF.

Be PROUD of not only WHAT you are, but WHO you ARE.

Hold your head up HIGH and live your life as YOU wish to; NO ONE has the right to dictate to you HOW to live YOUR life......do what YOU want and what is BEST for you..........

 

Some guys do choose their sexuality and usually when they find that their "default sexuality" ain't working for them and in any way. I've had guys come to me an ask me what it's like to be bi - and usually without knowing that I'm bi - because they'd pretty much exhausted their ability to land a woman of their own and keep her for longer than a month or so and, fuck - there has to be more than trying to get and keep a woman or, damn, to find one who just wants to have sex!

They've heard the rumors about "certain guys" and... are they true? And I get to either dissuade them from making such a drastic change in their life or I get to tell them - and show them - that the rumors are true and there are guys who are super-star cocksuckers and love to fuck and be fucked and they're not gay - not that being gay is a bad thing. I knew a couple of gay dudes who went more bi than gay (think Kinsey 4) because being fully gay had a lot of drama going on and, well, they've heard the rumors about women being good in bed and... are they true? Only one way to find out!

And, yes, you have to be true to yourself because if you aren't, no one is going to handle that for you.

 

KD23:

Well, I guess that, what you are saying here, is that there are "contingency plans" available, in certain situations?

Again, you KNOW what you are talking about; no one could EVER doubt that you have an astute knowledge on virtually any sort of sexual situation.

Myself, I never (from my long-gone school days up until the present) had even the SLIGHTEST curiousity as to what sex with a woman feels like; all I know is that even the idea of it does nothing for me.

Then again, being celibate my entire life, I've no idea what sex with another MALE feels like (but, in my numerous jack fantasies, I KNOW it's a MAJOR turn-on!)

I've read hundreds (if not more) online accounts of what sex between men feels like over the years; and, from what I've read, there are MORE than a few VERY satisfied customers!

All kidding aside, I guess, when it comes right down to it, you KNOW what turns you ON and what turns you OFF; again, being TRUE to YOURSELF is the key.

Hell, I don't have to have sex with a woman (or ANYONE, for that matter) to PROVE my manhood.

"Differen't strokes for different folks"..........

 

As Captain Spock once said, "There are always possibilities..." and that includes sex and sexuality. See, we could be talking about this rather than being bothered with stupid MAGA shit...

 

It doesn't matter what dumb shit is president. Bush, Obama, Trump or Biden. I was always, and still am, very cautious about meeting someone. How loud various groups get will change depending on who is in office, but the groups are still their.

People's beliefs very seldom change. A liberal isn't going to suddenly become a conservative and vice versa. People who are vegetarians aren't going to start eating big Macs. Those that love living in Alaska aren't going to get up and move to Key West. Our beliefs are formed in our early years and seldom change without something drastic happening to them personally. I have a lady friend who used to love to go riding her bike alone. She got attacked and the person stole her bike. She only goes biking now when there are at least five of us.

 

".......stupid MAGA shit.........."

Right on, my friend...I could NOT have said it better!

 

....quite possibly one of the very WORST delusions about "MAGA" minions is that they are all, to a man, "good, upstanding Christians", who would never cheat on a spouse, and attends church services each Sunday, and ALWAYS believe that THEY....and ONLY they (like their "invincible" orange-headed Lord & Master) are CORRECT in ALL political and social situations. and only THEY are permitted "freedom of speech".

Yeah, right, people, get a life, as well as a reality check.........

 

Good, upstanding Christians my left nut. My late mother was a good, upstanding Christian... most of the time. And she despised Republicans and Trump in particular. And don't piss her off; then you'd find out that God wasn't quite finished with her yet.
The worst fucking thing that can be done is to foment insurrection in God's name. Blasphemy. Worshipping a false "god." More blasphemy. Disregarding the Ten Commandments and almost all of the biblical law as laid out in the Old Testament - which, by the way, they should and in favor of the teaching in the New Testament but like I've said, they seem to have forgotten that this major revision to the Christian bible exists. "Thou shalt not kill" means exactly what it says, not "Thou shalt not kill unless God says so" and man says that He said so and... okay, we know those MAGA fuckers don't believe that the rules - any rules - apply to them and that their orange-haired "deity" will forgive their transgressions and...

...fuck them with that long-handled broom I mentioned somewhere above. God never said it was okay to hate; man said that.

 

KD23:

Man, you REALLY got it right!

God NEVER said to HATE anyone; that, without a doubt, came from MAN, NOT the Almighty.

In fact, recall Jesus saying: "Let he who is WITHOUT SIN cast the first stone."

Clearly, the orange-headed, moronic, hate-mongering bigot and his millions of mindless followers either NEVER read this passage in the Bible, or, IF they did, they feel it does NOT apply to themselves.

Would Jesus HATE a man who was homosexual or bisexual?

No more than I would hate a man for driving a Ford instead of a Buick!

Hate (in ANY form) is a DEADLY CANCER......too bad we will never see a CURE for it, despite how highly "advanced" mankind THINKS it is...............

 

We know this; our history as a species proves it; we still engage in uncivilized behaviors just the same. Now, I can let this influence me (and as it does so many others) or I can sit and think about getting a dick to suck, followed by eating and fucking some pussy.

Hmm. I wonder which thing makes the most sense?

 

Nowadays, not much at all seems to make sense, no matter how you try to contemplate it.

It seems that the more you TRY to make sense out of our current sad, pathetic state of affairs, the more CONFUSED and PERPLEXED you end up getting.

No wonder I stopped trying to "figure out" society a long time ago.............

 

That's why this MAGA shit doesn't bother me; I have more and better things to be worried about. They can't do shit about my bisexuality, so I'm not worried about them.

 

A VERY good attitude, for certain.

Truly tragic that so many thousands are now out of a job, thanks to MAGA upper echelon, and so many vital services are either being eliminated and/or cut (including those for 9/11 health related issues)

A good friend of mine from upstate New York has a daughter who lives in Seattle with her family.

Her husband (born in the USA, and of Korean heritage) has long been involved in developing websites, platforms, and other cyber-related programs.

Suddenly, he found himself out of work, and, despite many years of hi-tech experience in the field, is now also having a difficult time trying to secure a new position.

My friend and his wife both suspect that MAGA-related discrimination might be at the root, here.

If it is, what a damn disgrace.

Whatever happened to Dr. King's immortal words, about how we all should be "judged by the content of our character, and NOT by the color of our skin"?

How much lower will we have to sink.............