My dear, Make certain your Dom is experienced, or at least educated or both! There's a lot of bullshit out there, and a lot of men who are assholes who think being "dominant" is their free pass to continue being a dick. Doms are respectful of their subs and subs are always in control. You get off on being a sub. They get off on being a Dom. Just like any relationship, you still have to both be decent people to each other!<redacted>if you have any questions. I promise, I wont even ask to see you naked.