Being a guy who doesn't get girls

Pictures also don't tell you much. Pictures can be deceiving. People can look much different in pictures. Besides, I feel that my ugliness is a confluence of many factors, which include the way I walk, the way I talk with the strange shape of my mouth and teeth, and my unlikable personality. It's very hard, if not impossible, to explain. You just kind of have to see me in person to understand what I'm talking about. I can't convey it to you over the internet, and probably not even through pictures. I would say the best description of my overall look and vibe is "goofy". I just have this odd body shape, a very bizarre mouth, and my hair is the strangest-looking thing. Nobody looks like me.

 

Strange Looking Hair Is Always Cool......



Cheers Glen.

 

Lynn, you're wasting your time. He needs professional help.

 

No that's ok, we aren't interested

 

Why would you? We already acknowledge you're unfortunate in the looks department.
You want people to agree with you that your desperate mindset is valid? So you don't have to overcome it and can wallow in it?

 

no woman will be attracted to a whingebag. Pick yourself up, speak to a girl of relative attractiveness

And put yourself in the driving seat. Be the dominant force of a conversation

 

So am I the only one who wants to see a picture of his deformity then

 

Yep

 

Nah, I'm intrigued too.

 

I don't think I'm going to do it guys. I'm sorry. It just doesn't seem like a good idea.

 

me and glen encouraged it as soon as he asked. i think it's basically just eric that's against it. and maybe asmo, although he didn't really give a definitive answer.

 

The most relevant question here: What is it that you want, or originally wanted, from a relationship? Just to get your rocks off? Go see a hooker. I'm not shitting you either. I do it from time to time. Nothing wrong with it, just as long as you go to some independent worker, who doesn't work for a pimp who treats her horribly. Trust me, they've seen it all, and then some. They're professionals, who take your money. It's not their place to shit on you (unless you pay them to do just that).

Do you just want some trophy GF to parade around town, to show everybody that you "made it"? This is actually a poor idea. That shit never lasts. Unfortunately it seems that you have deluded yourself into this thinking that once you just manage to hook up with the girl of your dreams, it's all just sunshine and rainbow shitting unicorns in the land of milk and honey for ever and ever and ever.

Newsflash: The honeymoon fucking ends some day. Oh it will. For everybody. Don't think you'll be some special case. You won't be. Consider the time after that. Do you want to have kids? Then consider the brutal realities of custody battles and paying child support for kids you may not even be allowed to see after the fact.

Consider if she cheats on you. Consider if she wants to walk away and take half of your shit in a messy divorce. It happens to the more successful guys all the time, and they ain't too happy about their lives after that. And it CAN happen to you too. The couples who get their perfect forever after-fairytail endings are in a steep minority. Basically, they got fucking lucky and that's all there is to it. You think you're depressed now? Just wait until you actually get to experience a relationship gone wrong. Boy, you haven't seen anything yet.

Don't put pussy to the pedestal, and most certainly DO NOT off yourself because of women. It's the dumbest fucking reason for a suicide ever. Trust me, you're not missing out a whole lot in the end, except a whole lot of misery, once the fairytale ends.

 

I Respect That.......I Just Thought That This Thread Is At 97 Posts And For The Most Part It Has

Gone In Circles.....A Photo Would Go A Long Way Towards Giving This Thread Some "Direction"......



Cheers Glen.

 

Or some closure to this senseless babbling, so that we can agree with the OP "Yes, he IS ugly and worthless" The whole intention of this thread was to lead us in no direction at all, but a pointless circle.

 

Wow, the truth, and nothin' but the truth...cold hard truth in one post! You're gonna likely catch some flack over this, just sayin.

 

Maybe just try going out for the sake of going out and having fun. Just enjoy yourself without an agenda. We can tell when men have an agenda. lol I get it, you want to date women, but just relax and don't make nights out with friends all about attracting women.

 

Why don't you stop posting here? You obviously don't like me or this thread (which is perfectly okay). I'm just getting tired of reading your posts with all your put downs. If you don't like what you see here, get the funk out.

 

LOL, are you done crying? You're the one that posted this pathetic thread and therefore You are subject to all types of scrutiny. And hey, if you haven't noticed, no one feels sorry for you, especially the women who responded. Quit acting like a sissy, and don't tell me where I can post or not post, you big baby. If you really need help, then go get HELP, not subject yourself to answers and advice in a forum. If you seriously need help, seek a professional. People have given you solid advice, yet that's not what you're seeking. Your intent was to annoy people. And believe it or not, I'm providing you advice as well. Now, go find a cozy corner to go suck your thumb in.