I and my wife use condom or using the pulling out method during sex. After ejaculating, i quick get up to clean myself or to remove condom. The reason is not a germophobia related , but we are affraid to dirty the bed sheets and the mattress (even though there is a protrector between them) Due to this reason we do not do sex in the couch or sofa. I know that we can put a towel or something like this. The idea of cum to my stomach (or to her) and just cuddling and remove the main liquid and sleep without worries is something that turns me on. When we finish she usually gets up to go to the toilet (pieing is a preventive measure against urin infection). So, what do you do after cum? Clean ? Just sleep and do not care if the bed sheet is wet or not?
I do agree Marchall. We are not clean freaks…but we like to control some messes. We have a nice sex playroom attached to our master bedroom. It has a sex chair and a sex swing in it. Our king size bed is very expensive and made to be used for sex. Firm and supportive. Two couples can easily have sex on this bed. That said we entertain couples in our bedroom and when we play with them we use a protector on top of the bed to control squirts. When someone is in the swing there is always a fresh towel in it. Same for the chair. We keep plenty of hand towels within reach. It courtesy and common sense hygiene.
We always have a towel under us when we have sex. My wife gets very wet, and my ejaculation adds to the mess. Both of us clean up after sex.
Enjoyable sex is all about not worrying about bodily fluids. Sweat, saliva, semen and female ejaculate fluids. If you're concerned with getting any of these fluids on you, or in your mouth then you aren't letting go and enjoying the experience. If you did everything correctly, the sheets are covered with more than just your puddle of cum!! Generally, when me and the wife are finished we're both too physically spent to worry about getting up and cleaning ourselves or the sheets. So, get wet, get sloppy, get gooey and just enjoy it!!!
Never really factor the sheets into sex. My wife, fwb and fb are really clean but we don’t consider all the cum and fluids when engaged in activities. Some sheets do have permanent stains even after washing but it is actually a turn on to see them lol.
Well, I entertain a whole lot so I have mattress protectors under the sheets and I change the sheets usually between separate sets of guys. I wash sheets nearly day. I get furniture that is cheap and easy to clean. Have a cleaning guy who uses steam cleaning tools.
My wife and I both like lying in our own juices. Semen, vaginal wetness, lubes in aid of keeping our 64 year old bodies working. Sheets are easily changed and washed but we only do that once a week or so. We are very clean people but we sort of think of the bedding as being enhanced by the emissions of our fucking.
I used to see a married girl and have sex in their bed. It was always heavily stained with cum from their fucking the previous night. I think she did it deliberately and it always turned me on.
Simple solution. Buy a waterproof blanket. When you want to have sex throw it over the bed and go to town. When done wash the blanket.
I am a bit OCD with being clean. I couldn't sleep on a wet sheet, so we use a towel. For some reason it does sound hot to cum on yourself and leave it on overnight. I may give that a try.
Mine is a squirter so sheets get to go after, and as we usually forget to put the impermeable one beneath it mattresses need to be changed more often too
If you meet your fuck buddy at a fuck and go motel you can leave the bed sheet issue with the maid service.
My other half uses tissues to clean her pussy, and if we aren't using a condom I clean any excess off my cock, but other than that we don't really worry if the sheets get messy we just change them the next day
We never cared about it. Worrying about the sheets would spoil the fun and excitement. After prostate surgery I don't shoot cum any longer. So part of the "problem" is solved. My wife loves it. But I noticed that I sometimes miss the juices. It's part of the fun too. When I'm with a man, I'll catch his cum, but not for the reason to keep the sheets clean ;-).
When there are several of us (lots of "drainage") we usually put towels under the top sheet, even in a hotel. For hotels or timeshares, we also bring our own sheets to put down on top of everything Just the two of us, no worries. But if she squirts (not a heavy squirter, but still) we often change the sheets, clean the mattress while the sheets are off. Neither one of us wants to worry about an after-smell, nasty stuff getting cultured for days, etc. But sex mess is good. Sex mess is just fucking great.
