Just had a birthday. Part of the birthday ritual is my wife agrees to a BBDTBJ (as much as possible) and no spit. This year there there was a small tingly space on her lower lip about the size of the head of a pin. And since I am a guy I was set on get it on. The Herpes is not something I want as a birthday present . I have been exposed many times over the past 40 years sure as the world turns ti slip on in I'd receive a present i a bout 10 days. All is not lot however. I got a raincheck when all is clear,