Has anyone been to one, I've been to one in Winnipeg, but it was kinda quiet, other than stroking a couple of guys it was a bit of a letdown. Any similar experiences?
I have enjoyed the Baths both past and present in Winnipeg for years and have never been disappointed.
I've been to many bath houses in Canada and the US over the years. Some nights things are just slow. Some nights are slow at the beginning then heat up when the clubs let out. Oddly, I've found the best times are when it's not super busy. When it's super busy, guys are always thinking "I can probably do better, maybe a bunch of twinks will show up later". When it's less busy, they see what's available sooner and are DTF more quickly.
Yes your right at times when it is slow is the best time to go , I have rarely not gotten plowed by at least 1 guy or more.
There are none where I live unfortunately, really need to get to Vancouver more often and spend some time in one! I really really want to be the one to hang around and get used by as many horny men as I can handle in a night, which I know from experience is many!!
I haven't been to one of those in years. It was kind of fun and exciting, but I was always too chicken to do anything but observe.
Between 1993 in 2013, I visited many bathhouses (and a number of gay sex clubs and gay orgies) in the cities that I have lived in or nearby, including Toronto, Ottawa, San Francisco, and NYC, with probably 50-100 visits to more than a dozen different bathhouses. Lots of fun times to satisfy my extreme gay horniness, which would especially always ramp up for a while after a woman rejected me. But since then I've just been getting together with guys in each other's homes for closer connection, and therefore more powerful intimacy. I'm no longer a fan of anonymous sex, but instead like to know the guy. In fact, I'm now just hanging out with gay men socially in the hopes of developing friendships, friends with benefits, or even a romantic relationship. In fact, I just came from spending a couple hours this evening with this large gay social group I've been hanging out with on average a couple of times a week for the last month. God, I love them all, I really great group of guys. But I did visit a bathhouse last spring for the first time since 2013, when a male friend I was falling in love with did not return my affection. I just needed to have quick and easy sex to cover my pain and disappointment, and a bathhouse is the quickest and easiest way to have sex. It ended up not working out to my full satisfaction, but still was fun, and with a few guys. The big thing about bathhouses though is STDs. I can't believe in those 21 years, having of course unprotected oral sex with over 200 guys, maybe well over 200 guys (I've only used a condom with anal), I never caught a single STD. But I was super lucky, as my gay friends tonight told me after I shared that part of my life. An additional problem with bathhouses for me personally is that there are a lot of bisexual married guys visiting, and even gay men in committed relationships there, and I only want to have sex with unattached guys because of the morality of it (but this is totally a personal thing and I bear no judgement against others). Even though I try to casually and more discreetly determine every guy's partner status, it's nearly impossible to be certain, especially with all the open, public oral sex everywhere. But there's no question that visiting a bathhouse is always an exciting thing, especially when it's not just a tiny bathhouse with only half a dozen old guys roaming around, which I'm not a fan of. No, I definitely liked them large and busy, with all kinds of different parts to them, like private rooms which they all have, multiple dry and wet saunas, jacuzzi, gloryhole booths and open areas with gloryholes, dark corridors, and porn rooms. What can I say? Awesome!
I never caught an STD either, but I've never been into anal (giving or receiving) so maybe that helped. As for bathhouses, the few times I have gone there, I have just observed. I was too afraid of catching something, especially in that kind of free for all environment. As for married guys, I have sucked a lot of them off. No sex at home and they just wanted relief. I don't get into a moral judgement in that kind of situation, as most of the guys I've known, don't get any sex at home. They don't want to have an affair with a woman for fear of what could become of that. Some may think this is cheating, but to me, if a wife cuts a man off, then it's not.
I have never been to one but if i did, I would probably take up permanent residence so as not to miss a good time
I've been to a couple of different spas a number of times. The best one allowed women too but many of the men didn't like that so they stopped allowing women in. Fun to watch all the guys. Steam room is fun if it's filled and someone opens the door to come in and for just a minute the steam clears enough so that you can see how many cocks are getting sucked.
Yea ago no bath houses near me so I made a weekend of it and flew to a city known for that scene. On the flight I was afraid I would chicken out and just sit in my hotel room. Well, I didn't chicken out. I stepped into the sauna with my towel around my waist, very nervous and very erect in anticipation. There were seven or eight guys in the room only two had their civic covered so I carried my towel showing off my fully erect six and A half inches. I sat between two guys one with a fully erect cock pointing straight up, he was slowly stroking himself and playing with his balls then sitting showing off before stroking again. The other guy was hung but completely flaccid, his cock laid on his thigh. I looked small between those guys, but very happy. I was pretty obvious about looking at their cocks. The guy with the hard on let go of his cock and shifted towards me as if offering his cock. I only hesitated a moment our eyes met he smiled and I took his cock in my hand. I played with and was played with by both of those guys, needless to say that weekend was a huge success!
