Barefoot girl

So wait till I can start going barefoot again to strike up conversation.

 

After winter?

Thats a safe excuse for a couple months

 

And then we can have this whole conversation again...

 

My advice... if you’re interested just go talk to the girl... sure the barefoot thing could be a conversation starter but get to know her beyond just the barefoot thing and decide if you actually like her (and if she might like you)...

The fact that she’s also barefoot like you is cool, for sure... but if you think there could be some potential there don’t waste time, just strike up a conversation... and despite the cliche responses on here, not ALL men and women at your age are only driven by sex... they watch too many college movies and think that’s reality

 

Oh and I can bet you in a private message who will trash my response lol... it’s obviously... and I’ll wait patiently for it

 

Well, I'm not exactly looking for a girlfriend (or boyfriend, just to be clear), but just some friends, and she's also the only other person I've seen on campus who's regularly barefoot. I'll try and talk to her soon and see if I can lead a conversation past the bare feet, but start with that. Maybe something along the lines of, "you're STILL barefoot in these temperatures? That's amazing! (Wait for reply) Your teachers don't give you too much trouble about it? You know, I go barefoot too when it's warm enough. Of course, right now it's too cold for me. But until I noticed you barefoot walking around campus more than once, I thought I was the only one who did that. (Not a very smooth transition, but) so what are you majoring in?......."

 

I think that’s a good way to start it off... good luck

 

They think all 19 year old guys are just hormones on legs only because they watch too many college movies?

 

Not me. I watch more thing like full house, George Lopez, Carol Burnett.

 

You think so? I've never been good at social sorts of things, since I have an autism spectrum disorder called Asperger's syndrome.

 

Nope I was referring to folks like you... not the 19 year olds... and you just won me a bet by quoting me lol thanks bud

 

I do think it’s a good starting point See what happens

 

What did you win?

 

Okay, that means I'm getting better at this social thing.

 

Yeah just be confident and go for it... good luck

 

Thanks, I'll come back and say how it went when I get around to it.

 

Thank god for the internet hey, anyone lacking confidence can just get on the internet have someone else say "just be confident" then presto, all lack of confidence problems fixed

 

If only it was that easy.

 

whatever you're going to do, just do it. if you wait, eventually that day will come when you just stop coming across her altogether and you no longer have any chance to do anything. besides, if you talk to her tomorrow, that's that. if you wait 4 months, you'll build the whole thing up in your head, come off as a nervous psycho, scare her away, and spend the next 4 months beating yourself up over the time you wasted on the whole thing.

 

It's already been over 2 weeks since the original post and he'd seen her before that. It's never gonna happen.