I wanna hang out with this cute guy tonight,a ctually, but Id feel like a bit of a creep calling him up today since Ive already called him a bunch this week. And I dont knwo if hes single yet or not. BLaaaah complicated sucks ass.
He was talking about breaking up with his gf, it wasnt my idea. But, it decides if I just befriend him, or if I flirt tons with him.
If he does her that way, he is bound to do the same to you. Sounds like the type of guy that uses them up and throws them aside. I have had experience with men like that and situations like that, and trust me hon, it is never good to date a guy who is "breaking up" with his current girl.
Yes, heaven forfend that a man break up witha womanb ecause he feels no connection wtih her, has little in common with her, thinks its a mistake to ahve started dating her two weeks in, and just generally was already having problems after two weeks. Especially since he's alwasy been the dumpee, never the dumper before. Obviously a terrible terrible man. And this is why I should learn to never post personal shit on the forums.
simmer down, hon. It was all meant in a friendly manner. See, it's just that alot of men have a tendency of telling you what you want to hear. Let me ask you something....Have you heard her side of it? Or are you just listening to what he's telling you? and no, if you don't want people to be honest, then you shouldn't post personal "shit" as you call it. all was meant in a friendly manner, hon.
Jeez, theyre two weeks into dating, its not like theyre engaged or anything. WEre all younguns, its common for relationships to not last terribly long sometimes. I mean, yes, it would suck for her but Im not forcing either of them to do anything, I was trying to convince him to stay with her longer, to stikc it out... if he chooses to not listen to me on that, its not exactly my fault n ow is it?
Well that depends on whether you can take something you disagree with or not. Without knowing all of the information you just posted, someone who wants to give advice, who's assuming your situation is like that of what she's had, she's giving you advice that she thinks will benefit you. It is difficult to post personal things if you're expecting someone to know you're entire situation. Just like it's difficult to give advice for personal things, because more than likely, most people won't know someone else's entire situation. My advice is to take it as it is, if it doesn't benefit you, overlook it. And what I want to do, I want to eat an entire chocolate cake... that's it, and then stop bleeding and stop cramping. The rest I'll deal with later.