hahaha Yes, i'm seriously a senior in high school, i'm 17. But no, they don't really teach us this stuff. I've only ever had "sex-ed" in school once, which was in grade 6 or 7 i believe, which was only one lesson that lasted a few days, and it was boring as hell. Nothing but a few diagrams with a bunch of technical terms on them that i'm sure nobody cares about. We never learnt about the basics, and the stuff that would actually help us in life. Just lame technical terms. But i see, i thought a lot of virgin girls wore tampons though? Are you sure there is no other reason? Because if this was the case i would assume it would be more commonly known, but maybe not.
It depends man, some hymens cover the entire vaginal opening, and others don't and in those cases a tampon will fit and the girl can still be a virgin (not had sexual intercourse). Other times, the hymen is only covering part of the vaginal opening, but can still cause pain if pressure is applied in an attempt to penetrate the vagina. This is why first time sex, needs lots of foreplay (30min. to an hour), and can get bloody. If you have any questions you can send me a private message and I can give you some more information. Also beware that the internet has both good information and misinformation about sex. The super hard and fast thrusting style of sex shown in porn can be very painful for the girl in real life.
If she is nervous she will tighten up, and needs to find a way to relax. This applies to tampons and sex both. Very few women are actually too tight for either, unless it involves a medical condition. Usually its a case of being too nervous, not lubricated enough, or the position they are in. Relax, experiment, and be patient..... IF you can talk to your girlfriend about tampons, good for you!! Lots of men are too squeamish to bring it up. They want to finger it, lick it and fuck it, but beyond that...they don't want to know anything else about it. Talking to your girlfriend about tampons should make you smile, because 1. You have a girlfriend and 2. You are man enough not to be scared by cotton on a string. (The same applies to buying them for her.) She could be trying to use the wrong size of tampon, which could cause wearing one to be painful. She should try using the smallest one she can find (usually slender regular/petite) and make sure that she is inserting it correctly. If she pushes it in too far, it's uncomfortable....if she doesn't insert it deep enough, it's uncomfortable. Not many females that I know were experts at using tampons at first. It will take a little practice, and experimentation for her to figure out what works best for her.
Make sure you have some condoms available if your next sex play leads to attempted intercourse. And communicate with her, despite your shyness, and hers. You know each other well enough after dating 7-8 months to discuss things intimately. The fact that your parents divorced 6-7 years ago and are constantly fighting could mean that you are afraid of getting really close to someone you have loving feelings for, because subconsciously you may feel they will leave you. Try to overcome this and develop some trust in her. At the appropriate time, when you have privacy, you both might get naked in a dimly lit room and explore each other's bodies that way. You both need to understand your respective sexual parts and how to use them. And have the condoms nearby.
Nope. It was me actually. It was more my decision to wait a little more, than not to do it at all. She was very sexually timid, and naturally I was very patient with her. By the time she WAS beginning to feel more comfortable with the idea of having sex, though, I'd started to doubt where our relationship was headed. Then we just ended up breaking up shortly afterward, and we did because we weren't compatible as people after all. Nothing sex related.
