Absolutely. As the Bible says: "Whatever is good, whatever is righteous, whatever is of good repute, let your mind dwell on these things, and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, shall guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus..." (check out the first book of Philippians...) And you thought the Bible was maybe just shit...nope, not quite so...
I re-did my list to attract the woman I want. My friend Jane had made a list before she found her current man, another friend of mine. She told me that she hung it up so she could see it every day so that's just what I did.... We shall see if this works...
it seems to me, that very possibly we do this without knowing or intending to, quite often. that maybe sometimes its something in our own subconscious, that causes others to stalk or even harass us. not saying we can blame ourselves for this entirely, and if i knew some magic way to prevent it, i wouldn't hide that knowledge, but share it gladly. (and yes of course it can also be a good thing, when there is mutual affection there) just that its not something we consciously control, or at least i know i'm not very good at doing so.