Attracting the beautiful girls

"And the young, they can lose hope because they can't see beyond - today. The wisdom that the old can't give away."

 

Hey, you posted this thread, not me. You better be ready for anything when you post stuff like this...

I'm a strong person, but that doesn't mean I'm serious and angry all the time. I have a strong personality because I'm assertive...assertiveness is a good thing, I think. Agression is not.

If life is not about having fun, what is it supposed to be about?

I don't even know you and frankly, I don't give two shits about you, I'm stating my opinion. I don't care enough about you to be pissed off at you...anger is often a wasted emotion. I've got bigger fish to fry in my life. Oh, and by the way, I"ve never called you names or ever called you dumb...so I don't know how you would be sinking to my level.

My life hasn't been all that fun...I've been dealt a bad hand of cards in most respects. But you know what? I've lived through it and it has made me stronger. I've found that being positive and being optimistic makes life much easier and much more interesting. Just by having a positive attitude I've accomplished a lot. Maybe you should try it.

 

girls like real guys, soft spots & all

and hows that workin out for ya?
if noone will talk to you maybe not so well?

aspergers or however its spelled makes it so you CANT TELL BY THE WAY THEY LOOK AT YOU you cannot trust your perceptions
and the fact that they wont talk to ya is cause of your hard dont fuck with me front..
give up the front, ignore how they (i mean how you see them as) look at you..you cant trust your judgment on that
assume everyones freindly and approachable untill your told to just go away

girls love a weirdo.. if your just honnesst and real
they may think your alittle creepy however if you put on a front and get mad everytime they try to smile and be nice

 

Personally beginning to think Chris might be a bit fucked in the head....

 

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damn chris..asian chicks are some of the most beautiful in the world..yea u missed out there
and ithink g noticed what creeps girls out
the whole hangin back,,checkin em out ..puttin on the front..but always bein alone

makes ya look like a potentisal rapist/stalker
at least in theyre eyes maybe

 

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are you good looking, chris? i've noticed loads of unattractive men only wanting beautiful women and living in a state of constant disappointment. be honest with yourself about your attractiveness level.

 

I'm confused what you are planning on doing in order to get a decent girl. I hear what you are saying and what you'd like to see happen in your life, but it isn't clear to me what steps you're on to get where you are headed.

 

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Being good-looking for a guy is only a slight advantage. Girls like $$$.

 

dude..you hate being told a girls not your type..but then assume only the prtettiest girls alive are your type??
do u think girls like being told your not my type?

try talking to girlds..short..fat..ugly..and beautiful...as people..not just as a pretty girl u want
if you start treatting all girls as worthy, it will go very very very far towards getting a beautiful girl interested

 

double post my bad

 

Society pushes some pretty huge characeter flaws on ugly fat girls. They're personalities aren't usually that great.

 

yah, he has ten posts exactly like this, each one with this many responses (or more) from..at this point well over 100 people trying to help, spanning the time he has been here.

every few months he'll make a new post like this and dozens of new people will jump on the help chris bandwagon thinking they will be able to do something to no avail while several valid posts slip down the pages in the process.

 

Omg... what a fuckign stupid advises ppl posted... i read only two pages.... man so here's advise from pick-up expirienced guy, believe it or not u decide...:
firstly, first thing that attracts is looks.....dont dress smart, ur not workign in office or buisness man, ur college student who wants to get laid and have fun, dress sexy,( sexy jeans, T-shirts with interesign pictures... not some phrases or just one colour t-shirt IT DOESNT ATTRACT, ur typycal dude, you need to eb original) stylish, not gangsta thing, or punk skate-boarded guy,, sexy jeans,, matchign colours,, spend some time, research, look for ur self, maybe colour ur hair- it attracts, if you have normal face it works. Second- we ssume you look good, so girls look at you, that is first level, Second level is when u talk to them, then you should show ur smartness and also "Sexual behavior" becuase what girls want is to have sex with cool guy, and you can use ur intellect in talking to her in smart , unique, original ways that noone ever talked to her, dirty jokes, macho style, dont be affraid, exp-comes with time, there are alot of girls,, and no shyness... Anyway, i can not help you with mental phase, its up to you, how u made urself, But if you accomplish first stage, with looks, you will have alot of exp and girls coming along you. It all depens on you wheter you want it or not.

 

Interesting topic Chris 1661.

having consulted the world renowned experts on this one ( yes there really are professional pick up artists who charged 1000s for their advise) , yes beatiful girls do tend to be pulled differently to short fat ugly hairy ones, or even "normal" looking girls.

And yes theyre exponentially harder to pull than less dazzling girls - in many circumstances.

My advise is dont settle for someone you dont fancy.Theres just no point IMO.
If your friends pull plain girls , dont let them force u into doing the same .Be true to yourself.

But if u wanna pull in the Premier League u gotta learn those skills...
And that could mean lifestyle changes too.

I'll PM u with the Ways of the Master.

Like Yoda said in Star Wars ( or wouldve said if itd been in the script) ,

Powerful forces must be guarded , think Yoda , unless they be disipated and destroyed by the foolishness of the masses

In other words , I aint telling everyone- otherwise theyd end up better than me!lol

Good luck
Self Styled

 

There is more to life than getting a pretty girl to notice you.

If you want to hone your skills in order to do so, I guarantee that you will be unhappy.

Men lose when they snag a trophy wife, they really do. Most 'pretty girls' have no idea how to cook and use their cuteness to manipulate you and they can turn on the tears to win any man over.

There is nothing wrong with natural, ordinary, simple, regular, run-of-the-mill, well-rounded women who are pretty and normal looking. If you want something flashy, go buy a car. Don't get a trophy woman to make yourself feel as though you've actually accomplished anything.

Harumph.

 

Hi Aristartle , noting your comments.

I must admit I wish I could agree with you and say that attracting relationships werent about "honing skills".
Unfortunately , I dont think male- female communication comes naturally for most people.
I think Chris would be happier learning the skills more.

I used to think "well isnt learning to behave in a certain way toget girls just being like a smarmy , false , insincere idiot"
Well yes it can make someone that.
BUT , the pulling process IS a game , and true personalities come out later , the initial stages are just a selling /shopping process IMO.

Sure ,there are people ugly on the inside both ugly externally , beatiful on the outside ,and those in between.
But I dont think Chris is daft enough to go round with a fit girl whos purely a nasty , unsuitable piece of work.But sometimes , we get stuck in relationships with incompatibility - and a lot of that can be attributed to our own inabilities to generate enough "leads" ( yes I know thats a horrible word) of genuinely suitable people.

And yes it is a sick world where some women are paraded as trophy wives.
But many people in the west let themselves down by a shockingly poor diet , exercise and nutritional programme - causing them to become untrophylike- male or female.
Should people go out with people they genuinely dont fancy?

I couldnt live a lie.Maybe Chris couldnt?
I cant see how I could love someone I didnt have any chemistry with.
And thats what its all about at the end of the day , IMO

Best wishes Aristartle and all.
Self Styled