Attracting the beautiful girls

Discussion in 'Men's Issues' started by chris_1661, Nov 8, 2006.

  1. chris_1661

    chris_1661 Member

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    Yeah well, I wouldn't bet on it, and if you really want to know how many he's had, then ask him yourself.
     
  2. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    honnestly i couldnt even guess
    not proud of that fact..but its the truth
     
  3. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    reread all that. Think about it, let it sink in.

    chicks who are worth being with don't want some self-loathing, jealous, hateful twit for a boyfriend. They don't want someone who angers soooo easily. Most chicks want stability, at least a little bit, someone they can rely on more often than not. Someone who doesn't constantly need to have their ego fed.
     
  4. Captain Zeep

    Captain Zeep Acoustic Hero

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    Chris 1661 have you ever considered that you may be ugly on the inside? You say some pretty nasty things for someone who is trying to find a girl.
     
  5. cerridwen

    cerridwen in stitches

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    I kind of have to agree. I read your original thread, Chris, and I totally empathised with you. But then reading the rest of the thread, I got this incredibly bad vibe from you. I'm sure you mean well but at least in this thread you're kind of coming across as a bit of a shallow tool. I hope that's not the way you pass yourself off when talking to others irl, because if it is, then it's no wonder you're single.


    If you don't talk to anyone, how do you expect anyone to talk to you? Do you expect some beautiful woman to just walk up to you out of the blue and want to date you or sleep with you or something? It doesn't work that way.

    The way you DRESS doesn't make a lick of difference. Granted, it does help having a clean shirt on your back and such, but don't rely entirely on how you dress. What you got to do is put yourself out there... go to a bar and buy a girl a drink, or find another way to approach a girl in other situations. If you're going to school, you're surrounded with women - offering to do study dates or something along those lines isn't an entirely dumb opening line.

    If you're not willing to make the first move once in a while, you're not going to get anywhere.
     
  6. Mary Poppins

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    Shouldn't you be concentrating on being good enough for your prospective girl inteads? Just a thought!!!! Perhaps you're too picky!!!
     
  7. Mary Poppins

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    Chris, chris, chris..... You're completely missing soaringeagle's point, man....

    Seriously... you want to listen to what people are saying not hear what you think they're saying. And less of the insults, I think. Really, not useful!!!

    :banghead:
     
  8. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    Get a dishwasher.

    Attractive girls can't handle a little elbow grease and everyone loves a man that comes with a dishwasher.
     
  9. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    No, people aren't mind readers. We all have to base our first impressions on people by looks if we have functioning eyesight. But looks only take you so far. You seem to be saying that your looks are just fine the way that they are, and you don't get it why you haven't snagged a hottie.

    Hmm... I wonder.
     
  10. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    Ok. So you're the one with the standards.

    Then why can't you find anyone willing to live up to them, huh?

    Gee, I wonder what your problem is...
     
  11. cerridwen

    cerridwen in stitches

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    I've read a few of Chris's threads... it almost seems like he's the type of person who posts with the intention of causing a little ruckus... I'm sure he's just being a prick for argument's sake.
     
  12. chris_1661

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    No, i'm NOT the sort of person that likes a bit of a drama or confrontation, and if I can't tell you lot on the forums how I really feel (even though you lot disagree with me and decide to call me shallow) who can I tell?

    There's no way i'd talk like this at college in front of people, and especially not in front of my parents.
     
  13. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    Do you know why it is that you are talking like this???
     
  14. chris_1661

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  16. cerridwen

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    Well, chris1661, if this is who you really are, then it truly is no surprise you're single. You're an absolute class act.
     
  17. chris_1661

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    beautiful girls are everywhere..beautiful girls arent just attracted to 1 type..beautiful girls are attracted to ppl who make them feel confortable and admired..for all then have to offer not just beauty.. if you want to attract someone..talk to the,..but, without the attitude..just enjoy spendin time with em..andif they enjoy bein wiyh u anything can happen.. but how are u gonna get someone attracted to u if you arent even noticed? i mean if you dont talk to someone..dont get to know them,..dont show some inner character..whats there to be attracted to? the shirt you wear 3 times a week?
     
  19. ihmurria

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    :confused: You have a nice -side-? You should have a nice whole.

    Listen to Dirk, he knows what he's talking about, especially with the ladies.
     
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