Attracting the beautiful girls

the aira of ugliness comment was neither meant to be nice or mean, only how i see it
ya come off as very shallow, and its your attitude holding you back from attracting anyone

 

Well maybe i've contradicted myself a little, but as much as i'd like a good looking girl, i'm highly unlikely to get one, which makes me negative, and because i'm highly unlikely to get one, it makes me feel that way and that's why I came out with that comment.

 

cant read your mind, but certainly can read your personality

 

I wouldn't actually mention this to people, apart from the people such as yourselves on this open forum.

 

Maybe you can, but not the people at college.

 

pple cant read your mind but believe me, i know the standards of every man ive ever met. its really easy to spot a guy who only goes for girls if they'll look good standing next to them. they dont even have to be with hot chicks to look shallow, its just the way they talk about girls, or how they look at them, or how they dont even glance at a girl if shes not anorexic.

 

what are ya talking about? ya think all they see is your clothes..ya think they cant tgell how you are by talking to ya..or even just by how u look at them.. do u spend time getting to know them or judge them instantly based on looks

 

I don't get what you mean

 

crayola..i dont drink beer so wont send ya one..but i'd definatelysend ya a great big hug

 

Well i'd never look down my nose at girls, be awkward in front of them or bitch about them.

By the way Crayola, I think that you're a good looking girl, having seen your member photos on this forum, and take that as a compliment.

 

thanks for the hug =)

and for the ugliness aura comment i meant Chris_1661's comment, not yours. it did sound mean. but the way he phrased it was funny

 

why dont u go around saying that, instead of saying u'd never wanna date a "fat girl"? even in these forums, even to strangers, u can still wanna come out as a not shallow person

 

the thing is, is not about "getting" a girl, its about being with a girl. the other phrasing makes it sound almost materialistic. there are plenty of these guys out there that seem to think they own who they are with, and get all jealous when they see someone esle after breaking up.

i think girls can spot them, and consequently they never get to be with as many

 

I don't talk to anyone, so how can OTHERS notice my attitude?

 

Well when people are annoyed, instead of saying what is actually correct or sensible, they'll want to get things off their chest and say how they really feel, and here at this forum I have done that.

I wouldn't actually say to a girls' face about not wanting to date a fat girl because it would offend the girl, it would be nasty of me to make a comment like that and it would be best not said.

I'm not all bad and nasty, and I do think about other people, their feelings and their point of view, and also have my opinions as well, and I watch what I say as well, and think, especially in front of them. Having said that, it can depend on your frame of mind and how you are feeling.

If i'm being honest, I personally ain't keen on fat girls (especially) and i'd rather have a very thin girl IMHO.

 

watching what u say is a good thing.
not talking to anyone is pushing it a bit too far lol

 

I know full well that watching what I say is a good thing, and I don't need you to tell me that.

Also, how is me not talking to anyone pushing it a bit too far? - What have I supposed to have done now?

 

i thought u were seeking advice, lol, my bad.

i meant, if watching what u say means never talking to anyone, then u're overdoing the 'watching what u say' thing. get it? my point was : maybe u should talk to these girls u want so badly

 

your attitude is apparent just by how you carry yourself walking around...if you look like your approachable then you have a start. you can gain a lot of info just by watching how someone carries themselves - dont' even need to speak to them

 

sorry cant talk now..a really beautiful hipforumer just called...