Asking/suggesting oral for the first time (ever)

is there a particular way I can suggest my partner that we try oral or ask him without it sounding weird? I've never gone down on anyone before nor have i had any partners before him. What should I do?

 

just do what you want,it will come naturally

 

I would bring it up either randomly or ask while you guys are having some fun and making our or w/e

 

Just pull his pants down and suck, how could he turn that down?

 

well he might creampie!

 

Don't be shy about it, just tell your partner that you want to try it, want to experiment and experience more variety in your sex life. Your partner will probably love it.

 

Just go ahead & do it - I bet he will get even hornier & may do something to you he's never done but has thought about doing

 

Just do what the others have suggested.
he's probably dying for something like that to happen, but probably thinks you'll say no.

Just do it! And don't worry about "performance." It's more fun to learn as you go. All of us did!!!

 

When I am getting intimate with a new partner, usually I just go with the flow. For example, the first time I went down on my girlfriend, we had only been seeing each other for a few days, and the only other time we'd had sex she'd been on her period so it had been only me who'd received. But the first time I pleasured her, I'd already used my fingers and after she came I just dropped to my knees and administered oral. It has been this way with all of the other partners who I've engaged in oral sex with- just a spontaneous thing. When receiving, I usually just wait until my partner decides they want to- I have had a few partners who had never done it before and I wanted to make sure they're ready, If you go down on a partner and after several weeks they still have not reciprocated, just talk about it... there might be a reason why they're not ready.

 

When you are making out just slowly push his head down between your spread legs! Unless he is a complete idiot he should get what you are looking for. If he is not interested then don't return the favour.

 

we finally spoke about it, turns out he doesn't like the idea of giving or receiving head....