Asking if she's a virgin

I know its inappropriate and mean.. but its just I'd love to ask it!

 

Amen, enjoy your youth!!!!
My first was not a virgin. I didn't seem to mind, i was in love.
I saved myself till i was almost 20.
If i had the chance to go back i would have fun and get some experience.
you ask this girl if shes a virgin, she's going to assume your there anly for the cherry.

 

Hey If you a virgin stay a virgin until you get married! I wish I did! Anyway, you can ask her anything you want on the first date! Just tell her what you believe in and see don't she give you a responds if not just come on out and ask her.

 

I'm a guy though.. I can seduce without losing my dignity. And why would I want to wait great years of sex just to realise I mightn't even end up getting married.

And no, I wouldn't ask that on a date.. it's simply too risky! Are you pulling my leg by the way??

 

language is being is what this spoken in?

 

You can't just say something like that.. what do you mean exactly?

 

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I think I understand what your getting at now. But I have to say that same quality appeals to some people simply calling it being "young at heart".

As one famous movie character put it "Stupid is as stupid does", and I'd like to add that think we give too much credit to the notion that biological age can indicate a person's immaturity or maturity.

You addressed that culture largely defines what is immature or mature, and I agree with that.

 

By asking her that you will insult her.

 

I don't think it matters any more, the OP's probably not to return to this site...... LOL

But if anyone else wanted to know whether their date was a virgin or not, there's a simple technique that can be utilized. Just provide the information about YOURSELF instead within a conversation. You wouldn't be asking a sensitive question there. Instead, you'd be offering two things: one, the information about yourself, and two, an opportunity for them to VOLUNTARILY provide you with the information you wanted about them.

I've always been upfront about my virginity to my (potential) romantic partners. This is one of those things about me that need to be addressed fairly early on, so as for me to determine various things in regards to whether or not I might have a future with them. If they have a problem with it, then obviously it won't work. Luckily, I haven't met anyone who's had a problem with it so far. And the girls always have, in turn, been truthful about themselves, too. It's really about knowing how to communicate.

 

it really shouldn't matter, but i definitely wouldn't do it on the first date.

 

Frankly, I don't know why that would be anyones business,first date or otherwise. Isn't compatibility more important. I see a definate lack of respect with this little boys attitude regarding women. Men/boys are such nitwits sometimes.

 

Yeah, but it's not wrong to be curious. It's about HOW to go about getting the information you want. If you just asked her the question straight up on the first date, it might be problematic. But like I said in my previous reply, if you offer the information about yourself first, the other party may be more inclined to share with you the things that are otherwise very private. In which case, it wouldn't be a lack of respect. On the contrary, it would be a display of respect and honesty, which is GOOD.

But then my suggestion/opinion comes from an older male virgin, so it might not matter at all in this case. I just personally have always been upfront about my own situation with anyone who I was romantically interested in, and who I was confident shared the same romantic feelings with me. It's my way of warning them about what they might be getting into, without coming off as intimidating. In my experience, when I do this, they tell me their own situations which basically means we're simply communicating.

 

i don't know, he's returned about 15 times so far..

 

It's a tricky question to ask. I play it by ear, but in most cases I don't ask.

 

if you're begging if she's a virgin AND wondering about your chances at a kiss at the end of the date then you're by golly panting too hard and it likely isn't gonna work out.

 

if you're looking for your girlfriend to be a virgin, you might wanna start dating through a church. Even then, they will probably be lying.

 

No, certainly not. The girl would probably walk away.

 

Not necessarily. There are non-religious girls who remain virgins until they are absolutely sure they are ready to lose their virginity.