Asking girlfriend to wax

Hahahhaha too good.

But anyways. Why do you need her to wax in the first place?

If she's shaving her arms and twat then I would just address the question openly "Why don't you try waxing? I heard it helps with the bumps ad stuff?"
Waxing doesn't hurt, if it's done right.

If she's not shaving, then don't worry about it. If you absolutely can't deal with it then you should just break up with her. She should have to get her self esteem shot because of the porn you've watched all your life.

 

As already said- Waxing is out of the question unless she's used to it or keen on it herself. Talk about shaving instead. If you're close and she's understanding, by all means ask her to just try it. Don't make out like it's something you'd prefer though, just be open and honest but don't make her feel uncomfortable. Perhaps ask her if she's ever tried it. Ask what she thought of it, or if she says she hasn't then ask her if she ever would. She may ask if you'd like her to, so go in with a 'It'd be hot, but only if you're comfortable with it.' Otherwise try 'Would you try it just the once? It's okay if you wouldn't, I just think you may like it. I think it's hot..'

Otherwise- Fuck it. It's no big deal. Men definitely have their preferences and that's okay, but women have theirs too. And since it's her body, 9/10 it's going to be her way! I personally keep up with shaving all the time, I wouldn't break the habit for a boy. If a boy did ask me to grow it, I probably couldn't. I'd try it once, for as long as I could stand it- Which wouldn't be long at all! Your girlfriend shouldn't be any different- Perhaps willing to try for you but otherwise she should just keep up her own ways and sport a hot bush

A few bad-asses in this thread. Qualo.

 

It should be her choice totally. If you can't accept her as she is, then maybe it's time to end the relationship.

 

Damn, just getting my eyebrows occasionally waxed hurts...can't imagine any other part of my body. ouch. My friend got her lip waxed once and now she has a little scar above her lip. I guess either the wax was too hot or the lady tore it off too harshly. Ouch.

Don't ask her to do it. I actually love hair though most young people (I have not talked to any older people about it) seem not too. Maybe it is just a trend or something. IDK.

 

Just tell her, your tired of fightin your way through the jungle

 

Do I qualify as an older ppl?

I love hair on ppl where it belongs, on their legs, armpits, crotch. Love the natural smell it takes on in those constricted areas.

 

I love the smell of underarms on men! My best friend and I joke about how we love to stick our faces into the pits of the guys we are currently with (her husband for her and for me this guy I have been seeing) and inhale. ZOMG I love it. When I first started sleeping with the guy I am seeing right now I asked him not to shower because his scent made me want him even more.

I love strong scents. However, the first (and currently only) girl I messed around with for a very short time-her scent was strong and lovely everywhere except her vagina. It was too powerful for me. She said she had been told she was really strong smelling so I should have been prepared. I couldn't go through with it and I felt bad because she had just given me oral sex. :[ The oral sex she gave me was quite lovely though. :]

 

Tell her that having sex with her is like fucking Gandalfs beard.

 

I got a picture that fits that description, but I can't post it here.

 

Of course you do, you saucy minx!

 

I couldn't have put it better myself...

 

That is a conversation that is probably not going to go well.

But since we don't know what kind of person your girlfriend is, it is kind of hard to say what her reaction would be. Personally I would just tell my boyfriend 'No'. No harm in asking, but if he pushed the subject I would be pretty irritated.

 

Hey Cliched, grow up. Its her business what she does "down there," which, by the way can be called 'her pubic area,' at least by adults. Can't stomach a little pubic hair? Wait until your testicles drop! Jeesh. My way, my satisfaction, my thoughts, my, my, my....

 

Cliched doesn't say anywhere that he can't stomach a little pubic hair. There's nothing wrong with asking your partner to do something for you. It's not selfish. The worst that can happen is she'll say no.

 

wow what a mean person. some guy asks a completely legit question and you attack him. you do not sound nice at all, seriously, and i doubt you can see the irony or hypocrisy of your last sentence.

anyway, i was lookin around because i have a similar question and i thought id register and give this thread a bump.

my gf already shaves her pubes (thankfully - to each their own but i dont wanna bust out a hedge trimmer to access her vagina), although a little bit of hair is fine with me.

the problem is she misses the back of her vag near her butt, and theres some longer, not so sexy hairs around there that are not particularly pleasant or boner enhancing to look at whilst doggying. any thoughts on how i can suggest she include that region in her normal shaving?

also, from the responses ive read, i dont get why everyone is so eager to NOT PLEASE their partners? geez if my gf (who i really like) legitimately asked me to trim my stubble or arm hair or something id be like SURE, I LIKE YOU, I WANT TO MAKE YOU HAPPY and its not a big deal to me.

if she asked me to shave my shaft and balls id say jokes on you, i already do.

 

"Mary Mary quite contrary,
Trim that pussy it to goddamn hairy," Andrew "Dice" Clay

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

wax that pussy girl

 

Fastswitch has always had a very blunt way of addressing to others of what they need to hear. Sure, I would have worded things a little differently, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't have implied the same thing to the OP. The question was legitimate enough, yes. But the OP still needed to realize what he was about to request to his partner was potentially disrespectful. Fastswitch wasn't trying to be "nice". But hey, the OP got what he needed to hear.

I personally would not feel comfortable asking my partner even to shave, lol. I may have my own personal preferences, but preferences are just preferences, they should not rule you. One should not pressure the other to do anything if they are not comfortable. And waxing especially may be a very uncomfortable experience. It's not something you could willingly and happily suggest to your partner, unless you don't really care about the potential pain that your partner may have to go through during the process.

Actually, everyone is NOT implying that they are eager not to please their partners. Everyone, or at least the most posters on this thread, are implying that the OP may be a bit selfish for fucusing on his partner's pubic hair too much, and that he may want to learn to accept her the way she is.

By the way, it's great to hear you're fine with a little bit of hair. But then when you say....

...don't you think you're contradicting yourself a bit? Alright, I understand we're all only humans and I for one believe it is our nature to contradict from time to time. But, aside from the fact that you're not wanting to suggest waxing to your partner, and asking for a blowjob(just 'cause he brought it up somewhere, lol), what's so different about you than the OP?

Someone else suggested the option of offering to shave your partner. Maybe you could simply offer to help her shave. If she declines, don't push. By the way, you say it's not a big deal to you, but I think it is if you ask me. Or else, I don't think you would have found the hairs around her difficult-to-shave areas "not particularly pleasant or boner enhancing to look at". But then you say you "really like" your girlfriend, not "love". When you love someone, pubic hair really starts to seem unimportant. She could forget to shave EVERYWHERE for a week, and she'll still be the most beautiful girl ever to you. Just something to think about....

 

Yeah consider just asking her if you can do it for her, for fun.

But... she might be worried about getting an accidental nick or cut if you do the shaving.

So... alternatively to "shaving" those few; maybe ask if you can just trim them for her. If you don't already have a small pair of trimmming scissors or the even smaller "cuticle/nail" trimming scissors; get a pair ahead of time.

Maybe next time you are going to "doggy" just say, "Hey sweety, could I trim this little spot for you down here, just for fun?"

You never know. As they say, won't hurt to ask.

 

thanks for the advice folks.

maybe i should have phrased it differently. i know she would do it and not have a problem, i seriously doubt she intends to miss that spot and i seriously doubt she would have any personal objections to getting rid of it, i just dont wanna hurt her feelings or embarrass her - not my intentions.