Ask any questions you have always wanted to ask guys. Man: Answer these questions

Hmmm how many? Well none of course Batfriend of mine. Not when I just had gfs or now with a full blown ring wearin wife.

 

hehhe miles, i know. yer cool

 

What do most guys prefer: slower romantic sex or hard core fucking? Nevermind i think i may have answered my own question with "hard core". Please share comments and opinions anyway.

 

I sense there is a bit of confusion in this thread. For teenagers ...sex is triggered by hormones. Different persons react differently at a given age because they have different level of development in their organs ... so hormonal levels are different. Once passed the hormonal definition age, then SEX will be in the mind of both males and females. Nature makes males more sex driven than females ..that's why they try to impregnate more girls. Girls are the ones that "decide" with which male they copulate with (or have sex). That is nature at work! - On the other hand ..LOVE ..is a different feeling. Its a feeling of compassion and care for the other person. It develops as two persons spend time together and try to help each other with the "hard" things of life. Normally know as "Platonic Love" ...from Plato's theories on human behaviour.

So ...young guys normally just want to have sex ... true LOVE appears later in life ...some times "never". Childhood traumas in both male and female really shape the relationship.

Girls ..dont fall in love with a "body" ...dont confuse the hormonal part with true LOVE. Be friends, explore sexuality in a controlled manner, and leave LOVE for "after" college time or after 25. However, should you find a nice guy who is caring, considerate, and wants to try a serious relationship ..dont turn him off. Look for local assitance (psychologist) in case of confusion.

 

Now I have given some reasons for the behaviour in my message before ...I am going to answer as a GUY ... ( i am male, 59 yrs old)

Guys want BOTH .... a romantic girl and a HOT girl when it comes to sex. Deficiency in one or the other will be a cause for DROPPING the girl.

We want the kisses and the nice conversation of a sweet girl, so we can feel supported ... and feel appreciation from her ,,,but when it comes to sex ..we want to see the girl ENJOY my act!! How? - lots of sexy activity that maintains me ON the ball all the time. So ..good foreplay is necessary ...and it can start hours before final intercourse ... we are a bit kinky ...and love to feel good. Reaching orgasms is one of the key parts of sex ...some girls cant get it or they fake it ..and that means trouble for the BOND! However ...GO SLOWLY during the initial phase of the relationship otherwise the man will think you are a slut.

Men go crazy for BOTH ..a nice personality coupled with a strong sex drive.

 

it obviously depends on the individual but i would hands down prefer a nice slow passionate love making hours long, rather than a hardcore fuck session that lasted 30 minutes. Just me though. I think you really get something else when making love rather than hardcore fucking you just wanna cum.